Did her job brilliantly? Her job doesn't involve showing up on time or not making dozens of people with lives and other projects rearrange their schedules to suit her mania?
It's sort of interesting the way Diane Kruger's claim of unsophistication quietly echoes Kate Beckinsale's comment that she still feels horribly awkward and homely. The cynic in me wants to scoff at the idea that either of them should feel insecure about anything, but oddly enough, I actually think both women are being as honest as they are able.
I think the way people perceive you can sometimes be mind-bogglingly different from the way you perceive yourself. And for women who are in the public eye, this goes double. And there's this strange fucking phenomenon that there are strangers all over the world who have ideas and expectations about who you are and how you should feel about yourself. And none of it actually has any relation to your own sense of identity or self-worth. You're told you're beautiful, stunning, sexy, ravishing, but I imagine it can genuinely ring a little hollow when it's being commodified, and when you know how fucking haggard you look at 6 in the morning. And no matter how widely-travelled and well-educated you are, you'll always know people who seem far more accomplished and sophisticated than you'll ever, ever be. No one ever wins that race.
I dunno. I mean, I know I'm not saying anything radically insightful here, but still. Weird.
@A Small Turnip: And then you know they do all this stuff to your pictures before they print them which means they had to "fix" all the stuff about you they thought was broken. Yeah, that's probably good for the ego, especially if you were an awkward child and have that baggage.
people get pregnant in this day and age the same way they got pregnant back when you were in your teens.
i'm not going to comment about your declarations about jude law, either. perhaps now your granddaughter understands the basics about birth control and condom usage, but it's a shame nobody explained it to her years ago.
VF would likely have gotten letters either way, but I would have loved to see Mad Men get a cover. Blurgh. I mean, we've heard a lot about Michael Jackson (less about Farrah). But I understand why they did it, and will buy the issue for the Mad Men, and probably read at least some of the Farrah-MJ stuff.
I'm almost finished with Julie & Julia now, and I kind of hate it. I mean, it's an interesting story, but she's an incredibly whiny lush - This is SO HARD. I need VODKA. Oh, how do I cook and go to work HUNG OVER. My mom is CRAZY. I'm turning into MY MOM.
I'll see the movie, but I don't think I want to read anything else from her.
@electricbubbles: I wasn't crazy about it either; I just read it this summer, right after My Life In France, and the contrast was like a slap in the face. I was really bothered by the air of, "OMG, we're just two babies who can't do anything right! I'm so incompetent! Awful apartment! Terrible commutes! Job suckitude!" Just...fucking...don't live in New York if you're going to bitch about it; quit your job, act like a grownup. I hate when women's noisy incompetence is rewarded. The rest of us are really working hard and trying to prove we really are adult and competent, and somehow there's no book-and-movie deal at the end of that. I agree; I'm skipping anything else she writes.
@newyorkette: Seriously. Not to mention, the whole premise of AA is admitting that you can't drink responsibly and finding a support group to help you not drink at all without FUCKING JUDGMENT. Because the fucking judgment? That is part of what keeps people on a destructive path.
@newyorkette: I dunno, I've known a few drunks and addicts up close, and her quote sums up a lot of how I feel about them sometimes. I'm certainly sorry that they have a problem. But it's a bit much when they're being a narcissistic asshole for the umpteenth time and acting like you have to give them a free pass on that because of the booze/drugs/whatever. It gets really tiresome and hurtful, and I can definitely relate to where she's coming from.
Let me just put this issue to rest. Regardless of whose DNA the kids carry, Michael Jackson is the father of his children, as he was the only one actually involved in their parenting. Your "real parents" are the ones who "really parent" you. DNA is just a molecule.
Gwyneth Paltrow: so, basically, you're starving yourself as punishment for enjoying life. I mean, yeah, that WAS pretty ridiculous of you. Your life's enjoyment should come out of staying skinny not romping about and having fun and eating delicious food without killing yourself on a treadmill.
As my boss says "You could get hit by a truck tomorrow and your jean size won't matter."
@LaComtesse: I love how our fair Gwynie so transparently uses GOOP to shame the rest of us plebs into punishing--whoops--I mean, DETOXing ourselves for "enjoying life".
Bleh, I hate how "detox" has replaced "diet" as the code word for starving yourself.
When celebrities say that their Twitter was hacked, what they mean is that their drunken alter egos hacked into them, which was very surprising to all parties, as the drunken alter ego is usually very bad with technology and remembering passwords and all that.
@CollegeCamel: Too bad Twitter doesn't have the "goggles" feather that GMail does -- forcing you to do math equations before doing late-night activity.
@Renata Halpern: You set the "goggles" to come on at certain times on certain days if you *ahem* may have an issue. Not that I have mine set that way or anything...
@NardaDion: crap. pls don't take this personally but I did NOT mean to approve/promote this comment. This new system is hard!! I do NOT co-sign "What is it with men" Nooooooooo.
Gwyneth Paltrow's infatuation with detox, especially as a way to recover from "relax and enjoy life phase[s]", is beginning to sound like a form of disordered eating to me.
It bothers me how she'll be like, "Oh, I love food, delicious yummy food, I can't stuff enough wonderful food in my face, I love it so!" and then a little later is telling us how she went on a detox and drank only juice and castor oil and white tea for a fortnight, or some such nonsense, as a way to cleanse and purify and whatever else.
That isn't detox, that's crash dieting, and I can't bring myself to believe that it's healthy.
@titilayo-yo-yo-yo: Thank you for stating exactly what I was thinking. I dislike detox diets for that same reason, mostly because I think people go on them when they need to justify a period of crash dieting after a period of indulgence. Your body needs food. There is no need to detox, there's only need to eat fresh and healthy meals.
@titilayo-yo-yo-yo: Okay, seriously, I was thinking about commenting with that and I scrolled down and saw you've pretty much said exactly what I was thinking. I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that.
I try really hard to avoid clicking on "goop" articles because I find her detox talk triggering, but it's hard not to notice when it's in a quick little dirtbag snippit. I don't mean this as a critique on the editors, (it's my job to avoid it, not their job to stop writing it) but does anyone else find her uncomfortably triggering?
@Bunsen Honeydew: She doesn't trigger me personally, but I can certainly see how her writing would trigger some people. I, too, agree that her views on 'detox' and the like seem to be a thinly veiled explanation of an eating disorder. Especially since she specifically mentioned weight loss. If she was only worried about keeping her body clean, etc she wouldn't have mentioned losing a few pounds, right?
@titilayo-yo-yo-yo: The "justification" from the doctor is atrocious. He states that your body stores up pounds of toxins, and then when asked where he goes on a long winded explanation of the whole earth being polluted in toxins.
I am always intrigued by the detox idea, if there is pounds of stored up 'sludge' or whatever I want it out. I went on a detox similar to the product he is hocking (for something like $350!!) which is a bunch of supplements. I can tell you that I didn't see anything out of the ordinary, except for the fact that it just made me eliminate as if I was taking laxatives. Which is really what it was after I dug deep into what it was, natural ingredients but I was basically taking laxatives, which grossed me out and I stopped taking before it was over.
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I think the way people perceive you can sometimes be mind-bogglingly different from the way you perceive yourself. And for women who are in the public eye, this goes double. And there's this strange fucking phenomenon that there are strangers all over the world who have ideas and expectations about who you are and how you should feel about yourself. And none of it actually has any relation to your own sense of identity or self-worth. You're told you're beautiful, stunning, sexy, ravishing, but I imagine it can genuinely ring a little hollow when it's being commodified, and when you know how fucking haggard you look at 6 in the morning. And no matter how widely-travelled and well-educated you are, you'll always know people who seem far more accomplished and sophisticated than you'll ever, ever be. No one ever wins that race.
I dunno. I mean, I know I'm not saying anything radically insightful here, but still. Weird.
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people get pregnant in this day and age the same way they got pregnant back when you were in your teens.
i'm not going to comment about your declarations about jude law, either. perhaps now your granddaughter understands the basics about birth control and condom usage, but it's a shame nobody explained it to her years ago.
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I'll see the movie, but I don't think I want to read anything else from her.
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As my boss says "You could get hit by a truck tomorrow and your jean size won't matter."
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Bleh, I hate how "detox" has replaced "diet" as the code word for starving yourself.
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If it's true, can't watch another Morgan Freeman film again. What is it with men?
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It bothers me how she'll be like, "Oh, I love food, delicious yummy food, I can't stuff enough wonderful food in my face, I love it so!" and then a little later is telling us how she went on a detox and drank only juice and castor oil and white tea for a fortnight, or some such nonsense, as a way to cleanse and purify and whatever else.
That isn't detox, that's crash dieting, and I can't bring myself to believe that it's healthy.
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I try really hard to avoid clicking on "goop" articles because I find her detox talk triggering, but it's hard not to notice when it's in a quick little dirtbag snippit. I don't mean this as a critique on the editors, (it's my job to avoid it, not their job to stop writing it) but does anyone else find her uncomfortably triggering?
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I am always intrigued by the detox idea, if there is pounds of stored up 'sludge' or whatever I want it out. I went on a detox similar to the product he is hocking (for something like $350!!) which is a bunch of supplements. I can tell you that I didn't see anything out of the ordinary, except for the fact that it just made me eliminate as if I was taking laxatives. Which is really what it was after I dug deep into what it was, natural ingredients but I was basically taking laxatives, which grossed me out and I stopped taking before it was over.
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