Finding something funny in the worst things doesn't lessen terrible things. It doesn't mean you think the bad things was worth it because you were able to laugh. It doesn't mean the bad thing in, and of itself, is funny. It means that we, as humans, find ways to heal ourselves and laughter is one of those ways. Humor helps us deal with horrific circumstances.
I remember, much like Sally Draper, being horrified as a child that people were laughing at a funeral. But laughing at funerals and wakes and during shiva is actually a part of celebrating the person's life and is a final gift from the deceased.
@rodmanstreet: "Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning up to do afterward."
This column was so awesome that I've now queued up every Hadley Freeman article on the Guardian's website, for a delightful buffet of future reading. She had me at "Oh, for the love of Mary!". #hadleyfreeman
The one thing my mother likes about her appearance is the fact that she has skinny ankles. Seriously, it's wall-to-wall body hate for her except for her ankles.
Meanwhile I'm stuck with the "Bad Feet" from my father's side: Thick ankles with feet made of tissue paper and fail. The only shoes I'm comfortable in are flat rubber bottoms with loose, structureless fabric holding it too my foot. Basically, shitty ballet flats #hadleyfreeman
I actually thought to myself recently, "Self, why did you not choose to be rich?" And then I banged my head against the wall of my crappy rental apartment. #hadleyfreeman
I think the next things people are going to tell us are fat will be teeth, hair and fingernails...
Cosmo article circa spring 2010 "Hideous and overpriced Cocktail rings under $200 that will minimize those chunky cuticles!!!!" #hadleyfreeman
@missheidilynn: Backs of ears turning men off? We have the solution!
Get under your tongue in sexy shape!
Bottoms of feet not bikini season ready? Tips on page 1fuckingridiculous84 #hadleyfreeman
@missheidilynn: You've no idea how much I fret about my vulgar peasant earlobes. In fact, I think I'm going to go search Etsy for some hand-knitted neon ear socks to try and distract attention from my pendulous appendages. #hadleyfreeman
@femme-bot:
Nipple implants so you can always be standing at attention
Shape and tone your pupils in just 5 minutes a day!
How normal is the size or your large intestine? Use our handy chart to find one more way that your body sucks! #hadleyfreeman
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I remember, much like Sally Draper, being horrified as a child that people were laughing at a funeral. But laughing at funerals and wakes and during shiva is actually a part of celebrating the person's life and is a final gift from the deceased.
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And a dramedy, apparently, for those of us who do both.
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Some things cannot be made funny, even if you retain a sense of humor about life in general.
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-Voltaire
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-Ani DiFranco.
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~Kurt Vonnegut
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Meanwhile I'm stuck with the "Bad Feet" from my father's side: Thick ankles with feet made of tissue paper and fail. The only shoes I'm comfortable in are flat rubber bottoms with loose, structureless fabric holding it too my foot. Basically, shitty ballet flats #hadleyfreeman
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Cosmo article circa spring 2010 "Hideous and overpriced Cocktail rings under $200 that will minimize those chunky cuticles!!!!" #hadleyfreeman
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Get under your tongue in sexy shape!
Bottoms of feet not bikini season ready? Tips on page 1fuckingridiculous84 #hadleyfreeman
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Nipple implants so you can always be standing at attention
Shape and tone your pupils in just 5 minutes a day!
How normal is the size or your large intestine? Use our handy chart to find one more way that your body sucks! #hadleyfreeman