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    tscheese: Am I the only one who doesn't really have anything horrible to say about my exes? I've dated some really decent guys with whom I ultimately had differ... more »
    FourInchHeels: Alright, time to clue in the naive one ... will one of you define face fucking for me? I was going to google it, but then thought better of it. more »
    tomatoheart: I've been doing these little creative-non-fiction exercises called "Love Lessons" that are vague comments on my feelings towards various past partners... more »
    seresy: I keep being tempted to send my ex a thank you note, but I'm afraid it would be received as cattier than I intend... He decided he wasn't ready to be ... more »
    flucky: I thought the difference between "venting" online and criminal libel is that libel must be defamatory, UNTRUE, and likely to cause harm to the subject... more »
    GuyNermit: I trashed my ex exactly one time, in exactly one place: in court. I think that's the only place you'd ever really need to do it. I succeeded in prev... more »
    dirtybee: I always wished I had the balls to trash an ex's car or see him in public and yell that he had a small dick or just raise some hell - but instead, I ... more »
    NerD: Blattella: This is hitting a little close to home, because the former future Mrs. NerD!!! and I split a couple of weeks ago. We'd been together for over 2 years,... more »
    peperony and chease: Whatevs. If your ex told you you got your STD from swimming in the river, you'd bitch about it until the end of time too. more »
    YourScreenplaySucks: How nastily someone talks about/treats their ex is a screening tool for me. You may be his little angel now, but if he's in the habit of trashing &... more »
    jofletcher: I don't need to insult my exes... they do a perfectly good job of it themselves just be existing. more »
    gerbilsoutofexile...is cheap and easy: What about when they lie and tell everyone you know that you gave them herpes, when the opposite is true, and he got from cheating, for gawd's sake? E... more »
    ceejeemcbeegee is not here: This is why I can never get a blog post done: midway thru typing I realize I'm the one with the problem and how can I disguise this situation without ... more »
    nellicat: It always makes me vaguely uncomfortable when my friends rag on my ex. I mean, yeah, the guy's an asshole and a narcissist and a bully and a cheater, ... more »
    Miss Smith Drank Your Vodka: Insulting Your Ex: It's All About Me airing the personal dirty laundry of years of being with a narcissistic selfish shithead. Who deserves my disgust... more »