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    deitybox: SCENE: Deitybox and husband-then-boyfriend (HTB) have been dating for about 5 months. One morning, as DB is getting dressed: HTB: Hey, you look thin! ... more »
    Maulleigh: In the boyfriend's defense, it is annoying when people complain about stuff but don't do anything about it. My ex hated his job that he'd been at for ... more »
    LimitedLiabilityGirl: the top of the "normal" weight range for a woman who is 5'2" is 136. Ahahahahhaha. Hahahaha. Hahahahahhaha. Oh dear. Yeah, BMI is bullshit. more »
    hellosunshine: If you say it like this: "I want to marry someone thinner." To your live-in girlfriend of three years in anger at something rather innocuous that she ... more »
    lilyblaze: I was the insecure woman in the relationship for a long time. In my late teens, I dated this asshat who had pictures of models all over his walls an... more »
    LoSpaz: I wrestle with this. My husband is overweight. He should weigh about 185, he weighs about 270. So it's not just a few pounds. And the doctor told him ... more »
    that's what she said: Last week I was complaining to my boyfriend about one of my bosses for about 20 minutes and his response was, "uhh...ok." I got ridiculously frustrate... more »
    The Queen of No: WTF did he mean she throws up a steak after 12? I don't get it. more »
    Bunny_of_doom: I have friends that constantly whine about their weight, yet they do nothing to change eating habits or even exercise a bit. I have given up ripping t... more »
    agnesohmygod: What about telling someone with an eating disorder she needs to gain weight? Much more of a quagmire. more »
    theysaidwhat: This guy is abusive, plain and simple. He's with her because he has some degree of control over her with his threats of cheating and because a woman w... more »
    LaComtesse: Whenever someone complains aloud to a partner about their weight but makes no effort to change, what they want and expect to hear, I think is "You're ... more »
    cuteasabutton: What an asshole. Seriously. It's one thing to be concerned for her health and I understand if she just keeps going on about it, that he would say some... more »
    RingTailedLemur: Gastric bypass. I watched this and I did feel sorry for her... until I saw her trick for getting free fries. She reminded me so much of my old neighbo... more »
    schoolofloverboy: I would probably be fucked up forever if anyone i EVER dated said this to me. I have a slew of body images but every guy i've dated or been with has ... more »
  • #tyrant

    Is It Ever OK To Tell Partners They Need To Lose Weight?

    Yesterday's episode of Tyra focused on size discrimination, and one woman confessed that it hurts when her boyfriend tells her to lose weight. He said he's just being honest. More »