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    nessalicious: I actually lied to my first boyfriend that I wasn't a virgin because I didn't want him to make some sort of big ridiculous deal about the fact that he... more »
    GoldenRatioφ (aka -girl11): So I've been dying for the perfect thread to rant: Monday in my torts class, three or four guys in my class argued that a story in the Globe claiming ... more »
    DoctorJezebel: Men don't have the equivalent because they secrete something called Mullerian Inhibiting Factor which prevents all the "Mullerian" parts from being fo... more »
    Aesop's Foibles. YES.: I'd like to add, in some of the countries where the bloody sheet is put on display as proof of the brides' virginity, the women aren't always virgins.... more »
    autonaimee: I know it really shouldn't matter, but all this talk of hymens already being broken prior to intercourse is getting me down. Though I'm waiting until ... more »
    Grim Reaper of the Forest: I had my period when I lost my virginity. It hurt but I don't know if the blood on the floor was from one or the other. more »
    Flackette Goes Retro: Um, after looking at pictures, I think I can definitely announce that if I ever had a hymen I must have lost it in childhood. Because I've never been ... more »
    Ulookinatmyjunk, JOC: "Reconnecting With Your Deadbeat Hymen"...next on The Maury Povich Show. Guest: Maury, my hymen ran out on me when I was just a girl. I had a brief ru... more »
    Flackette Goes Retro: I only bled a tiny bit, but what was weird was that I bled a little bit almost every single time I had sex for the first few months. And sometimes I s... more »
    squirrelcop: @PhillyLass: What!? Why that two-timing sonofa-10speed! Mine was only equipped with homemade streamers tied to the back to indicate my speed as I ro... more »
    SarahMC: Saying that tampon use de-virginizes a girl is like saying putting a sock on his dick will de-virginize a guy.People who won't let their daughters use... more »
    Peppermint: Sort of related -- thanks to suggestions on Jezebel mooooooonths ago, I got myself checked out and the OB-GYN told me I needed a hymenectomy for blah ... more »
    copious: I haven't had sex, but somehow I think my hymen was gone long ago by other shenanigans. I guess I'll find out for sure whenever I start having sex. more »
    The Queen of No: This may sound really weird, but the thought of a hymen totally gives me the heebie-jeebies. I once saw a diagram of a vagina w/an intact hymen and it... more »
    Shamrockette: Even though I have engaged in oral sex, it still doesn't feel like I lost my state of being when it comes to being a virgin. I still feel like I am, b... more »
  • #hymenrestorationsurgery

    Virginity Is Less A Piece Of Skin, More A State Of Being