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more about #hesaidshesaid clevernamehere: A lot of the pieces people write about relationships strike me as huge over shared. I always hope their partners okay the material first, but a lot o... more » Rooo sez BISH PLZ: Men say they fear female "oversharing" because what they really fear is women finding out the crap their husbands/bfs pull are not isolated incidents,... more » OldTowneTavern: Spoken like a man who's never read Kevin Smith's tweets. That man will tell you everything you've never wanted to know about his marital sex life. I... more » Seize: Upon second reading, Mr. Felten's opinion is actually kind of fascinating. If we examine the basic assumptions of his peevishness, we begin to pick u... more » LilyBonesBurana: I think this guy is just ripping off McSweeney's! (click thru for a cheap laugh on this very subject of TMI) [www.mcsweeneys.net] more » Mushu_the_educated_whale: Can't we all just forget the idea that men and women conform to predetermined personality types? I am not one to discuss my feelings. My bff (also a w... more » Pavonine1: I have this strange notion that I cannot shake. I think the relationship world would benefit if we could put aside our notions of jealousy and fear o... more » pesematology: How about this: Pity the wife whose husband has done things that make him fear female oversharing? more » whats_in_a_name: Maybe I'm weird, but the idea of an ex-girlfriend or current girlfriend (if I had one) sharing details of our intimate life with her friends really do... more » ArtemChubarov: Someone explain this analogy to me, someone told me this after one of my exams. If dude has sex with 5 girls a week hes a hero. if a woman has sex wi... more » Uncommon Whore: Oh my. Quite the hearty, evil cackle came erupting out of me upon reading the title. Great article, Anna. I've learned to keep my overshare on an anon... more » poppypop: For every coffee klatch that "get together to talk about how their husbands haven't touched them in years." There's a Ray Ramano or Louis CK that have... more » funzette: Men's experiences are interesting to everyone, but women are only meant to share their narrative with other women. The false male-female binary rende... more » Cimorene: So, the word gossip is now a heavily gendered word, associated with the way women talk about other people behind their backs. It's petty, bitchy, and ... more » Scout: "Say what you will about the male half of the species-famous for its promiscuous and predatory proclivities-but they can be remarkably discreet about ... more » whynotshesaid: I'm reading Happens Every Day right now, and I imagine it's one of the books Felten would criticize as being overshare-y, as it's all about how her hu... more » Pennsylvanian100: Pity the women who have to be married to rich, famous adulterers who disrespect and abuse their wives, have affairs with everything that moves and the... more » jairip: Women do over share I agree. It's one thing to talk to your friends about sex if you have a problem, be yee male or female. However, it is another th... more » Seize: Zelda Fitzgerald is laughing in her grave. more » Pantra: I often wish I had little cards to hand out to guys that read: "I would have had sex with you if I hadn't suspected you would blab every detail all ov... more » -
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"Pity The Man Whose Wife Writes A Memoir": Why Men Fear Female "Oversharing"
The news may be full of prominent men who couldn't keep it in their pants — but one Wall Street Journal writer thinks it's women's lips that need zipping. Because the real problem with modern marriage is the female overshare.
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The "Hecession" Is Just Hype
Sorry David Zinczenko, but most recessions have been "he-cessions" - more men are in the workforce than women. And considering "Female compensation has fallen more during the recession than has male pay," both sexes are getting hammered. [Reuters, Economist]

