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    kityglitr: Thing is, I thought a wedding was essentially a big ass party where you get drunk, eat great food, dance with your friends and family, and basically j... more »
    clevernamehere: A lot of times, people plannings for off beat weddings seem much more into the whole wedding thing than the people I know who had a more traditional w... more »
    Sorsha: I am quietly certain that my wedding will be at city hall, on a whim, on a day that Boyfriend and I have already been having a lovely, calm day togeth... more »
    elephante: This post seems really bitter to me. I don't understand why people are "annoyed" or seemingly threatened by the fact that another person wants to get ... more »
    tiredfairy: My husband and I decided to get married because he really needed to see the dentist. No, I'm really not kidding. We'd been together for 9 years, were ... more »
    goodgirlrevolution: I think the most annoying thing about "offbeat" weddings is just that: the need to label it an offbeat wedding. My sister in law's favourite topic of ... more »
    gangey: I didn't think of my wedding as offbeat, but my husband and I were definitely quick to throw out all the typical wedding conventions that we didn't li... more »
    Jello Mix: One of the reasons we had an "offbeat" wedding was to AVOID all the planning that goes into a traditional wedding. The part that took the most time wa... more »
    PreposterousHypothesis: I'm getting married at the end of the year. Overall there's just so many EXPECTATIONS for weddings. You are either "traditional" and therefore seen as... more »
    Bgirl_Hamster: Weddings cost 20K because everything with the word "wedding" attached to it is grossly overpriced. I know when my hubby and I were searching for Chine... more »
    PaintedTrollop: I had an annoying offbeat wedding. We got married on a friend's back terrace, which overlooks a rather spectacular vista of a river valley with mounta... more »
    Remedios Varo can't see no huevos.: In the unlikely event I do actually get married, I think I want it to involve a playground. more »
    sympathyforthebasementcat: I'm not a very wedding-y person. I can enjoy them, But I don't really separate them into traditional or offbeat. I separate them into open-bar or no. ... more »
    cuteasabutton: I think spending £20k on a wedding is ridiculous, but to each their own really. My friends got married a few years ago had a civil ceremony with 3 fr... more »
    YourScreenplaySucks: You're just jealous, haters. No one can stop our gothic love. [www.dailymail.co.uk] more »
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    Is Having An "Offbeat" Wedding Really That Different From Having A Traditional Wedding?

    It is very easy, I think, to crap all over a traditional wedding. I've done it myself, to be honest, rolling my eyes at sites like The Knot and various reality shows featuring out-of-control Bridezillas. More »