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more about #guys LaMorena: I've seen too many of my male peers dragged down by "Guy Culture." They're smart, sensitive, good guys. And they all sit around doing nothing becuas... more » luxylux: Boy oh boy, from the minute I read this Sunday morning, I was just thinking, please let jezebel take a pass on this one. And when we made it through ... more » likepenguins: If this is true, then I like Men, not Guys. Jesus, why is it that every guy wants to tell me their feelings? I don't want to talk about your feeling... more » rednrowdy: the conundrum is that most males don't become men until AFTER they get married and have kids. prior to that? they're guys. they cling to guyhood un... more » Tchotchke: I just think that referring to fully-grown men as "guys" is just another way to infantilize them and hold them to lower standards of accountability an... more » whynotshesaid: In all seriousness, I think of my ex-husband as a guy. He was all about the bros, he could be petulant like a little boy, he was constantly testing t... more » jemandtheholograms: Did she just spend 2 pages explaining that she's dedicated her life to being with someone the opposite of her father thereby looking for a new father ... more » cait98: I don't know if I would definte these terms the same way, but I seldom think of dateable males my age as "men," but as "guys" or "boys" instead. My... more » whynotshesaid: I don't know, man. I'm inclined to go with Cory here: "The world is full of guys. Don't be a guy. Be a man." more » BeckySharper: Because nothing improves gender relations like grossly generalizing about half of humanity and then labelling them according to our Daddy issues. more » Flackette Goes Retro: I just view a "man" as a male who functions with emotional maturity. "Guy" to me conjures up images of the college-age dudes I see preening at the mal... more » Gonkette: Ha, that column was just one long litany against the writer's father. The Guys are lifted up as flawed yet wonderful while the Men are drawn in charac... more » sybann: My dad was a MAN. And he was still sensitive and caring - but on his terms and to the people he loved. The two things needn't be mutually exclusive bu... more » muddgirl: Can I just say that I like people, especially ones that happen to have penises? I've never understood this common dichotomy, between "Alpha Males" and... more » delafox: The world is fully of guys. Don't be a guy ... be a man. more » AndPreciousLittleofThat: After years of trying to figure this out myself, it's come down to this: Being a guy means automatically knowing the hottest person in the room. Bei... more » augustagrimm: I think we can, nay, must blame Boomers. But I blame Boomers for everything. I even threatened Daddy Grimm (who is both "guy" and "man") with putting ... more » jengrrrl: Men, guys, whatever you want to call them--they're just people, and setting up these false dichotomies really doesn't help us understand each other. more » jianna: This made me think of Lord Whimsy's very different differentiation between Man and Guy. more » Zombie Ms. Skittles: Also, I totally just clicked on this article because Don Draper was the picture. Then I realized it was Modern Love and it was too late. more » -
#lovestory
"Guys" Versus "Men."
"I've never liked men. I like guys." So begins the latest "Modern Love": More » -
#coverlies
Glamour's "Guy Issue" Has Few Guys, Plenty Of Issues
"Notice anything different about this Glamour?" writes Editor-in-Chief Cindi Leive. "Yeah...that's right...there are men on it!" If you look closely, you might be able to see them — facelessly flanking a smiling Eva Longoria Parker.
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#fatalattraction
Field Guide To Guys: L'Homme Fatal
The NY Observer has put a name to yet another regrettable male archetype: L'Homme Fatal. This unassuming guy will lure you in with his self-deprecating charm and flattering attention — all to fuel his romance addiction.
