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    Rbkah: I don't see why people don't understand why it's important to have the ring to show you are married. Every human culture has something, maybe a haircu... more »
    par3: i always found it interesting when a feminist talked big and tough...then melted and got all giddy over an engagement ring. this mangagement ring kind... more »
    Tart of Darkness: Back before the turn of the century in the moneyed classes exchanging rings to signal an engagement was common. And engagement rings were highly vari... more »
    Hana Maru, used up old slutbag on the pole: My husband and I both got engagement rings. We made a commitment to each other, we both wanted to wear a symbol of our betrothal, and he didn't want... more »
    Vivien Smith-Smythe-Smith: I don't like engagement rings; they seem like an excessively expensive way for men to mark their 'possessions'. more »
    woobie: I always thought it was weird that women wear rings and men don't...to me, it's like the physical manifestation of "engagement." Personally, I don't f... more »
    exelizabeth: What the heck is with this "ownship" shit people keep talking about with rings? Rings are symbols of committment, not that you are "owned" by another ... more »
    elitza owns the last Enzo shirt: When I was engaged, I wore a white gold and sapphire ring and he wore a titanium band (it was actually a wedding band, but w/e) I picked mine out and ... more »
    morninggloria: I'd be down if it were an engagement cock ring. more »
    Beets.Go.On is the Fat Yogini: I got an engagement ring, my fiance wants an engagement tattoo as soon as I'm liquid enough to pay for it. He wants a kracken engulfing a ship to be t... more »
    clevernamehere: The ring pictured isn't the kind that women are proposing with. This is what they mean by male engagement ring: [www.hsamuel.co.uk] They strike me as ... more »
    Kivrin: I didn't buy my guy an engagement ring, although I have threatened to buy him a ring with a Batman logo and force him to wear it. He feigns protestati... more »
    SarahMC: I don't see it as progress when women are pressured to spend more money on unnecessary stuff than they already are. more »
    sequined: I guess I was kind of hoping we'd equal this out by ditching the icky diamonds-and-women/people-as-possessions thing altogether, but for the diamond i... more »
    Ulookinatmyjunk, JOC: No wedding rings for anybody. I'll just tell my dude to cut off his ring finger as a sign of his commitment. Blood sacrifice...it's what all the cool ... more »
    Gumbina80: My engagement ring has made me confortably invisible to men in bars, so it might be kind of cool to do the same to my dude. more »
    Lymed: My brother got married a few months ago and decided to splurge on a really nice wedding band for himself, even though his wife wanted a very simple ba... more »
    Kali Mama: The homos are going to take this and run with it. Even make it classy! You know, once the whole being able to get married thing goes through. more »
    Dez.demona: The whole ring thing is just stupid anyway; my dad just this year got a wedding ring for Christmas, and he and mom have been married for 29 years. He... more »
    emilyanne: Also on another note my husband won the money to buy my engagement ring at the races, I know that I would never be quite as good at gambling so he was... more »