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    Pizza!Pizza!Pizza!: I've never really experienced or observed prude shaming. Even when I was a virgin I knew plenty about sex and wasn't opposed to having it, per se, giv... more »
    kemperboyd: The closest I've come to losing mine was two years ago, I was 'seeing' a guy who goes to uni up north, I went to visit we fooled around had a really n... more »
    MediasBlue: Thank you Sadie! I only slept with one person - my boyfriend who is now my husband. And I'm fine with that. And I'm fine with that fact that he had ma... more »
    Beets.Go.On is the Fat Yogini: good for you for staying so true to yourself and not giving in to the social pressures! I have been a sex worker and have been with oodles of people p... more »
    Shamrockette: I see it like this: If I don't have that many experiences, who cares? If what I have now is good and I enjoy it, why give it up for something that see... more »
    Ann.in.the.middle: Just want to throw this question out there...The general agreement here is that women shouldn't be judged for their choices. If you want to wait until... more »
    aureliajones: I'm sorry, am I supposed to feel bad for prudes? There is so little prude shaming going on, and so much slut shaming, it's really hard for me to feel ... more »
    Susie Bright: But Sadie-- Why are you "HURTING WOMEN" ?? Thank you for a much needed wholesome laugh. more »
    tinydundie42: I turn 23 in a couple of days and one of the facets of my recent depression has been that I have never had sex, a kiss, nothing, and only one guy has ... more »
    That_little_attention_whore: Represent! Thank you, thank you, thank you, Sadie! I always felt a bit weirdly out of place in this arena. Glad to know I'm not alone. more »
    MilointheMeadow: I've had many partners, positions and subsequent orgasms, but after all these years, I've concluded that sex is pretty overrated. Most of the time, I... more »
    Devonna: Sadie, I am glad you put this out there. One of the many things I love about Jezebel is it's not some cult of groupthink, especially among the editor... more »
    Liz11685: I am a 23 year old and have been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years. He is my first real boyfriend, after a string of interested parties that neve... more »
    SylvanSylph: You guys, a very long time ago, at the dawn of Christianity's popularity, women flocked to the burgeoning religion because it allowed them to choose c... more »
    J.D.Regent: The real question is, when did Linda Hirschman lose her virginity? Fess up Linda. more »
    Dulcinea: Great post! Tip of the hat to you, madam. Also, how ridiculous is it that people assume 'slept with lots of different people' = 'is extensively sexua... more »
    scandalouskiki: Well done, Sadie, and I am totally with you on this. It's always great when women say, "This is who I am and there's nothing wrong with that." The num... more »
    Elopingthemilieu: Thanks Sadie. I often feel like a phony on Jezebel because of my prudish ways. My lifelong friends drive me nuts with the way they treat sexy talk whe... more »
    laliaberry: Thanks for this post! I had a recent visit with my now former gynecologist where she was shocked at what might be called my "prudish" choices regardin... more »
    hollygirl: great post! what the fuck was a professor doing grilling you about your number of partners?? You sounds like you know what works for you, congratulati... more »
  • #modernlove

    The Many Faces Of Jezebel: Confessions Of A Prude

    At the age of fourteen*, I had given zero blowjobs. By fifteen, I hadn't kissed anyone. By twenty, I'd slept with approximately zero men. And at 28, I'm a serial monogamist with an intact bedpost. More »
  • #dirtbag

    Madonna: Goodbye Jesus, Hello New Kid

    • Madonna and Jesus have broken up, if you believe that she Twitters, which this paper does. Meanwhile, she's allegedly on her way to Malawi to adopt another kid. [Daily Mail]
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  • #dirtbag

    Kate Moss Is Either Knocked Up Or Full Of Beer

    Kate Moss is three months pregnant, says a paper with a questionable reputation. But! More »
  • #snapjudgment

    Donna Martin Perambulates

    [Beverly Hills, 90210. January 23. Image via Bauer-Griffin]