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more about #advice more comments β Thus Spake KATE!: You know whose awful judgment I'm concerned about? The guy who decided it was ok to rape someone. It was his horrible decision to rape, not her decisi... more » Hana Maru, used up old slutbag on the pole: Lets get serious about ending rape, ladies. Only we can do it. We just haven't been doing it right, as we've mainly focused on curtailing our drinki... more » Eric Northman is mine: Rape, victim blaming it's all sadly part of our rape culture. Women are violated everyday- in some cases rape in some cases "not rape". I would highly... more » DutchessOfDork: Dear Amy, You are an asshole. Not only do you blame victims for crimes that happened to them, but you fail to take responsibility for shit you say. Be... more » Lymed: I am confused, because I feel like Amy just keeps contradicting herself. She says in her apology: "I told her that she had been raped." So why then ... more » MelPDX: Contacting Amy was the victim's only mistake. Dear Amy: Please leave matters relating to sexual violence to the experts. If we have a question about... more » chrysaline area: While I was horrified by Amy's response, I am wary of whether she could have effectively answered the question that was posed. The author of the quest... more » applejuice: I know one thing for sure, Carl Kasell better not be leaving any messages on her home answering machine. She gave an incorrect answer. more » karie lou who: I am so unsatisfied by her response. Women are allowed to drink. They are allowed to make out with a boy and not have sex. They are allowed to let ... more » curiousgeorgiana: All-- the sign up to comment on the Tribune website takes 30 seconds. Please go change the tone over there...again. more » Diziet_Sma: It's funny that the paper calls it rape in the headline both times. more » bajita: In general, I think that warning young women about date rape and how to avoid it is okay and not neccesarily "blamey." (For instance, I would tell my ... more » Benevolent_Dictatrix (patently absurd): Even if the victim wasn't drugged, raping a person who is voluntarily drunk is not ok. I feel like people pull out the drugged drink thing to make th... more » SarahMC: Is she literally not getting that Victim did not "have sex?" Does she not know what rape is? more » JessickerFletcher: I'm not an Ask Amy apologist (is anyone really?) but I honestly feel like she just comes from an older generation that advocated personal responsibili... more » -
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"Ask Amy" Responds To Critics, Apologizes, Keeps Digging
After only a few weeks of silence, Ask Amy has finally responded in her column to the roar of criticism of her insensitive "advice" to a victim of rape:. More » -
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Ask Amy: "How Dare You Call Me A 'Rape Apologist'β
Following her, ahem, controversial advice to a rape victim, Chicago Tribune advice columnist Amy Dickinson has refused to respond to, or post, negative reader reaction. However, she did write in to one critic...who, in turn, shared with the Sexist blog: More » -
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"Boxers Or Briefs?"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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When It Comes To Waxing, Advice Columnist Says There's Not Really A Choice
It must be Shady Advice Month, as it seems that every day, yet another "advice" columnist offers a fairly insulting response to a reader. Today, it's Suzi Godson of the Times of London, on the subject of pubic hair. More » -
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"What's The Best Position For Using A Magic Wand During Sex?"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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"Can I Use My Old Vibrator With My New Partner?"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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"I'm A Feminist Who Uses The Word 'Bitch'β¦"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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"Do People Really Use Condoms For Blow Jobs?"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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Too Fat For Sex? — Or Too Crazy?
Susie and Aretha Bright believe that mother-daughter teamwork is the answer - or maybe the last resort - for your sex advice needs. Send us questions! Mail to sexperts@jezebel.com. Today, SSRIs Killed My Sex Life- and Too Fat For Sex. More » -
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"I'm A Girl Who Comes Too Fast"
Susie and Aretha Bright believe that mother-daughter teamwork is the answer for all your sex advice needs. Questions? Send them to sexperts@jezebel.com.
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Outtakes, AKA, The Stuff You Shouldn't Be Seeing
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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"He Goes Limp At The Thought Of Intercourse"
Susie and Aretha Bright believe that mother-daughter teamwork is the answer for all your sex advice needs. Questions? Send them to sexperts@jezebel.com.
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"How Should I Celebrate The Birthday Of Someone I'm Casually Dating?"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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"I Don't Have Any Positive Role Models When It Comes To An Open Relationship"
Susie and Aretha Bright believe that mother-daughter teamwork is the answer for all your sex advice needs. Questions? Send them to sexperts@jezebel.com. This week: difficulty with orgasms and navigating open relationships.
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#missnomanners
Kristin Cavallari Is No Dear Abby
In the video after the jump, Kristin Cavallari dishes out unsolicited advice on health care, Jon Gosselin, and the celebrity attention-getter that will replace the vagina flash. It's so bad it'll make you appreciate Dr. Phil. [Funny Or Die] More » -
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"Do I Have To Change My Tampon Every Time I Pee?"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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"The Word That Describes Me Is 'Sick'"
Susie and Aretha Bright believe that mother-daughter teamwork is the answer - or maybe the last resort - for all your sex advice needs. Send us your questions! Mail to sexperts@jezebel.com. Today, shame over sexual fantasies and second-husband sex.
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"I Don't Want To Go To My Friend's Weddingβ¦"
It's time for another installment of Pot Psychology, the biweekly "advice" column in which we attempt to solve everyone's problems with an herbal remedy. More » -
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"This Is Probably A Really Stupid Question"
Susie and Aretha Bright believe that mother-daughter teamwork is the answer - or maybe the last resort - for all sex advice needs. Questions? Send them to sexperts@jezebel.com. This week: Brushing up the bush and the DIY cherry-pop.
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#consumerretorts
Advice On Advice: Rating Internet Advice Columns
Advice columns are a little like cats: they may not actually do much, but they're fun to look at. Also like cats, not all advice columns are created equal. After the jump, we grade a few of the major players.
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