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more about #abuse more comments → BytheSea: British to English translation of "naturally" is "of course." He's saying, "of course they should be taught it, but..." Not "instinctively, kids shoul... more » whynotshesaid: Sure, children SHOULD know these things, but the fact - ooh, it's that scary f-word! - is, they don't, and a lot of parents aren't teaching them. I c... more » gherkinfiend: I could really have done with something like this when I was at school. My parents didn't teach me about abusive relationships because bless them, the... more » alula: I can't take seriously anyone who non-ironically uses the term "youngsters" or, for the most part, "political correctness." I tuned out most of my hi... more » Peebers says what?: Reminder to Margaret Morrissey and Nick Seaton: no one has to prove that they are emotionally or intellectually capable of raising a child in order to... more » pond-side-over: This is a fantastic idea - I think kids would learn more from an open, albeit carefully monitored, peer-to-peer discussion then simply adults telling ... more » mordicai: They should know this...naturally! Which is why Nature naturally prevents domestic abuse. Wait, it doesn't? Oh, someone should do something about t... more » LutherNipperkin: I'm all for this. My mom didn't offer anything in the sex ed department aside from "Don't do it, God doesn't like it" and "I have the option of pulli... more » cinematheques: I think the problem here is that some parents are in denial. They think they have their child's temperaments under control and feel that some duties s... more » Plum-Pie: Should anyone be particularly interested, this is a really good article about various UK schools sex ed programmes, including how they incorporate rel... more » Anneisanne: I really wish my school had had this. I learned all about STDs and condoms, and nothing about healthy relationships and power. I know about protection... more » MediumMac: Oh no, let's not be proactive and actually prevent someone being brutalized, by all means! Because things like silence on domestic violence and birth... more » Bitingpika: But teachers have enough to do in teaching English, maths and science to a reasonable level without addressing issues that parents should be dealing w... more » curiousgeorgiana: I love the idea of this program. I hope it gets implemented. There can be no harm in talking about these issues. It only empowers both boys and gir... more » whats_in_a_name: "An unnamed contributor to the plan says that the classes would be separate from sex education" I can understand why they're choosing to present thei... more » -
#lifelessons
British Schools To Help Kids Prevent Domestic Violence
British schools are planning classes to teach kids ages five to fifteen about preventing domestic violence — but some parents' groups aren't happy. More » -
#gametheory
Dangerous Games: Football Losses Linked To Domestic Violence
According to a new study, football losses are correlated with spikes in domestic violence. So does sports disappointment cause abuse? More » -
#clips
Rihanna's Interview, Part Two: "[Chris] Had No Soul In His Eyes"
In the second part of her interview with Diane Sawyer, Rihanna reveals that she doesn't hate Chris Brown, and that she hopes he takes his assault on her as an opportunity to "grow up." More » -
#clips
Rihanna On Chris Brown: "I Fell In Love With That Person — That's Embarrassing"
On today's Good Morning America, Rihanna, who sat down with Diane Sawyer for a 20/20 segment airing tomorrow, offered her advice for young domestic violence victims: "Don't react off of love. Eff love." More » -
#eightisenough
Hailey Glassman On Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend Jon Gosselin
It was hard not to feel at least a little bad for Hailey Glassman tonight on The Insider. For the entire show, she cried as she talked about hurtful comments from tabloids, and what a dick her boyfriend can be. More » -
#thekidsarentallright
Runaways: The Kids Everyone Ignores
The teenager found in New York two weeks ago with no memory of her identity is lucky in one way — her family is coming to get her. Many young runaways have no one looking for them at all. More » -
#dancerinthedark
Dance Judge Mary Murphy Opens Up About Own Abuse
So You Think You Can Dance judge Mary Murphy says Rihanna's abuse prompted her to speak out about her own abusive marriage. But unlike Rihanna, her abuser isn't also a celebrity — and her statements are getting a different reaction. More » -
#filmschooled
What We Talk About When We Talk About Precious
The buzz about Precious has continued steadily since its premiere at the Sundance film festival. As we creep toward the November 6th release date, I'm wondering how the reviews reflect the themes surrounding the movie - both intentionally and unintentionally.
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#questionablecomebacks
Does Rihanna's New Single Defend Abusive Relationships?
Rihanna's new single "Russian Roulette" is definitely not her best work. But do lyrics about playing a dangerous game with a man mean the song glorifies abusive relationships?
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#tyrant
Tyra: Women Who Beat Their Boyfriends
On today's episode, Tyra spoke with women who physically abuse their boyfriends. To sensationalize it as much as possible, Tyra's producers left hidden cameras in a room with the guests and their significant others to capture the violence. -
#reporterrepercussions
The Perils Of Reporting Domestic Abuse
We've already written about domestic violence as a pre-existing condition for health insurance. Now recent cases show that victims who report abuse lose their homes — but people who don't report it face jail time. More » -
#criminalnegligence
Police Tolerance Of Bullying Led To Murder-Suicide
An investigation has found that British police's failure to protect Fiona Pilkington and her disabled daughter Francecca from abuse by local kids contributed to Pilkington's killing herself and Francecca. Pilkington called the police 33 times, but never received help. [MSNBC] -
#copycatcrime
Woman Studied Bobbitt Case Before Castrating Father
New Yorker Brigitte Harris, who's accused of murdering her abusive father, testified yesterday that she only meant to castrate him. She said she destroyed his penis on the stove so it couldn't be reattached, like John Bobbitt's. [NY Daily News] -
#poppsychology
If You've Been Assaulted By Your Boyfriend, Should You Pose Bound & Gagged?
That's what Salon's Judy Berman wants to know, re: Rihanna's Italian Vogue Shoot. Most of her poses are strong, but in one, she's muzzled. [Salon, HuffPo, This Is 50] More » -
#postgrad
Mom Charged With Starving Adult Daughter, Making Her Wear Bags
A New Jersey mother is facing neglect charges after her 25-year-old daughter was found dead of malnutrition, wearing a plastic bag as a shirt. She moved home after college and authorities say her mother starved and controlled her. [MSNBC] -
#bullypulpit
Takes One To Know One
Researchers have found schools' anti-bullying policies may be less effective because students label people as "bullies" or "non-bullies." If a student abuses others but, for example, gets good grades, they label themselves a "non-bully" and ignore anti-harassment messages. [Science Daily] -
#silentviolence
McNair's Death Shows Women Commit Domestic Violence, Says Advocate
Ned Holstein of Fathers and Families says Steve McNair's murder constitutes domestic violence, and that "the domestic violence establishment" underestimates female-on-male abuse by blaming all violence on the "patriarchal insistence of men on controlling women." [NPR] -
#crimeoncampus
College Men Suffer As Much Violence As Women
In a study of college students, men were as likely as women to have suffered violence. Men reported more physical abuse, women more emotional, and women were more likely to be abused by family members. [U.S. News & World Report] -
#doublestandards
Guardian Writer: No Justice For Women Who Retaliate Against Their Abusers
Should a woman be able to "tolerate" abuse because she has a demanding job? Or because she's black? A disturbing Guardian article exposes the stereotypes that keep women who kill their abusers from getting a fair trial.
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