I took a pole dancing class for about a year, with class once a week. The class was mostly women in their 30's and 40's, and it was a very non-competitive, woman power sort of class. Not only that, but it gave me the most amazingly toned upper arms I have ever had. We would strut around in heels, get great muscle tone trying to hoist ourselves onto said pole, and get very bendy doing the slut moves. Don't hate. It's a lot of fun, and I have never in my 30 years even been to a strip club so it ain't like that.

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I really don't need the self loathing that would come (free! not even a dollar!) with trying to "sexy" and failing miserably.

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