As a Kuwaiti woman who has recently done a lot of research on how little my nation respects my rights as an adult female, the statistics on Kuwait were really refreshing and you said a lot of things I've been struggling to for a while. Thank you.
There was an Oprah episode about womens'rights around the world. There was this Kuwaiti woman who said that all the women cannot do is vote. Is that true? Note, this episode was from awhile ago, and I cannot remember when.
That last Quinn quote, oy vey. One could almost applaud her efficiency being so offensive to so many (domestically and abroad) in so few words. Many birds, one dumb fricking stone.
Middle East are like the Real Housewives of Orange County in abayas
See I imagined a "Confessions of a (Middle Eastern) Shopaholic" trailer, cept that "heroine" gets a job, which PetroPrincesses don't ever want to do. Allegedly.
I am also not saying that these women are unintelligent. I am just saying I barely saw any to make any sound judgment. From what little I saw, is that they work hard around the home and are hardly "lunching".
I know it's not the Middle East, but I wouldn't put it past people like her to put it in the same category.
I was recently in a city in Morocco just travelling. In the shops, souks, and tanneries, you almost NEVER saw a local woman. Or at least I didn't. I'd see a few but mostly men. When it got to be 2pm (aka bloody hot) I saw only men lounging around under trees and in gardens. I saw women beggars and shoppers or women sweeping outside their homes. Rarely did I see them out during the day. At night there were many that would eat at the local pop-up restaurants. The only time I saw women during the day just lounging and lunching were when the women seemed better off and had nicer clothing.
I hear she's next doing a series on Indian women. Here's the Cliff Notes version: they all are taught Kama Sutra in the womb, drop the kids off at school via elephant ride, and randomly break out in Bollywood dance tunes to express their joy or torment.
Has anyone else noticed that most Western generalizations about Arab and Persian women tend to fall into one of two categories? Either they're all, across the board, characterized as oppressed and persecuted women who have no agency and need to be saved by Western intervention, or they're all characterized as frivilous rich women ("they can shop, they can gossip, they can go to lunch")/princesses.
Overgeneralizations are a problem in and of themselves, but in this case, it seems like these generalizations are used to infantalize Arab and Persian women and to reduce the Middle East into a simple stereotype, rather than understanding that it is an incredibly complex region where women and the treatment of women varies in a million ways.
@somedisaster: The total kicker is that she somehow tries to make these two nasty stereotypes mesh - men are oppressive, and women do what they want men to do because they're lazy? Huh?
Hmmm... The relevance of the socioeconomic climate of the last hundred years has somehow eclipsed the relevance of the sociotheological climate of the last 3 thousand?
I'm as equally bothered by the dismissal of SAHMs as women who "sit around eating bon-bons all day" (yeah, because childcare isn't work, right?) as I am by the dismissal of working women as "selfish". Why has house work become so stigmatized, as if no woman on their right minds would ever choose it over work outside of the home?
@Mafalda para Presidente: Exactly!! SOMEONE has to raise the next generation. If I was a nanny or a maid or a cook it would count as employment, but SAHMs "eat bon bons"? Wha??
Also, after lunch, they take their flying carpet to meet Aladdin the Patriarch at his oil well. He demands a male heir, and she whips out her magic lamp, rubs it, and hey presto!
I am female and I would much rather pursue a career and travel than take care of children. More power to the women who do want to stay at home and raise children (it is hard work), but please do not imply that all women share the "I do not want to work outside of the home full time" trait.
I bet you she just read a Mills and Boon novel about a "cosseted, gossipy, shopaholic, oil-rich, votaphobe Brown lady" and used it as crib notes for this t.v appearance.Because otherwise, I can't think of how to she came up with so many cliches by her lonesome.
Sometimes I think that people forget that the Middle East is made up of separate countries, all of which have their own cultures, their own politics, etc. I feel like a lot of the western world believes that there's just one giant homogenous zone known only as THE MIDDLE EAST.
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There was an Oprah episode about womens'rights around the world. There was this Kuwaiti woman who said that all the women cannot do is vote. Is that true? Note, this episode was from awhile ago, and I cannot remember when.
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That last Quinn quote, oy vey. One could almost applaud her efficiency being so offensive to so many (domestically and abroad) in so few words. Many birds, one dumb fricking stone.
Middle East are like the Real Housewives of Orange County in abayas
See I imagined a "Confessions of a (Middle Eastern) Shopaholic" trailer, cept that "heroine" gets a job, which PetroPrincesses don't ever want to do. Allegedly.
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As far as I know, they are lacking in the oil.
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I was recently in a city in Morocco just travelling. In the shops, souks, and tanneries, you almost NEVER saw a local woman. Or at least I didn't. I'd see a few but mostly men. When it got to be 2pm (aka bloody hot) I saw only men lounging around under trees and in gardens. I saw women beggars and shoppers or women sweeping outside their homes. Rarely did I see them out during the day. At night there were many that would eat at the local pop-up restaurants. The only time I saw women during the day just lounging and lunching were when the women seemed better off and had nicer clothing.
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All these people in media without jobs lately, and Miss Chowderhead is employed. There is not god, but I already knew that.
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Evidence below!
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Overgeneralizations are a problem in and of themselves, but in this case, it seems like these generalizations are used to infantalize Arab and Persian women and to reduce the Middle East into a simple stereotype, rather than understanding that it is an incredibly complex region where women and the treatment of women varies in a million ways.
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"Dude, Sweden isn't France."
"Oh, it's France."
(Hearts to whoever names this show!)
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