These are the stories I think about when Jez has posts about happy, college educated sex workers.
Its not that I doubt that sex workers by choice exist, its that sex workers by choice are so glamorized and so able to convey their stories to the media that it overwhelms these stories. I know someone is going to say that all they see in the media are down-trodden hookers, but while I can think of two tv shows about happy, affluent sex workers I can't think of one about this. The most this kind of sex work gets is a very special episode.
When people talk about legalization, I think these stories are what they need to think about. The affluent, out-call sex worker is doing okay already. But it legalization really going to help someone who already feels forced into sex work? Does she have time to make it to the sex workers union to make sure her voice is heard? Is legalization going to help her get out of sex work? Stories like these exist all over the world and legalization hasn't gotten rid of them anywhere. Maybe that has to do with how legalization is handled, but it so far hasn't shown to be a solution for women at the bottom of the sex worker totem pole.
@clevernamehere: THIS. Well-stated and what I believe too.
"Slavery still exists, but now it applies only to women and its name is prostitution." --Victor Hugo
Swaziland King's solution to HIV/AIDS crises was telling people to stop having sex for 5 years. This was whilst he took on a few more wives. So I think this is a step in the right direction.
@CurtCole: Right!? Because that will really encourage people to get tested. Logic fail.
And honestly, if you're in a country where the person you have sex with has a 33% chance of being positive, everyone is branded. It's everyone's problem.
@tailfeather: I love that this guy refers to himself as a "Christ Ambassador" because I am certain that's what Jesus would be all about, branding people.
One of my favorite Old Hollywood anecdotes involves an actress auditioning for a lech and, finally, removing her falsies, handing them to him and saying 'Here's what you're after.'
You'd think with being told that she's the greatest living actress/of her generation over and over would make her untouchable and holier than thou. But I swear, at least in interviews, she's so damn charming and gracious it seems like she would be down to drink a beer and shoot the shit.
Dude, how incredible is it to be Amy Adams? She's done two movies with and has become friends with freakin' Meryl Streep. That's like a basketball player being mentored by Michael Jordan.
@Dayman-Fan: I was just thinking that! I think it's a HUGE compliment to Amy Adams and a testament to how talented she is and how much potential her career had. Ms. Streep has better things to do than befriend any old starlet, you know?
@suck_it_monkeys: I've been loving Ms. Adams ever since she played a bit role on Charmed, and having Meryl be all BFF with her just solidifies my admiration for her.
My love for this woman knows no bounds. She's so good it's intimidating. I find myself picking up ticks from her characters after one viewing of a movie. Thanks to her I am NOT waiting tables.
@andBegorrah: Her fault. She's the one that turned down the Bond girl role. I mean, Michelle Yeoh did it, and Halle did it and she has an Oscar. I have nothing but schadenfreude.
Poor Meryl, imagine how many anecdotes she has had to tell at how many interviews over the course of her career. At the same time I do sort of long for a Hollywood with enough innocence that paper towels qualified one as sexy enough (to play a 50 year old Danish writer).
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Its not that I doubt that sex workers by choice exist, its that sex workers by choice are so glamorized and so able to convey their stories to the media that it overwhelms these stories. I know someone is going to say that all they see in the media are down-trodden hookers, but while I can think of two tv shows about happy, affluent sex workers I can't think of one about this. The most this kind of sex work gets is a very special episode.
When people talk about legalization, I think these stories are what they need to think about. The affluent, out-call sex worker is doing okay already. But it legalization really going to help someone who already feels forced into sex work? Does she have time to make it to the sex workers union to make sure her voice is heard? Is legalization going to help her get out of sex work? Stories like these exist all over the world and legalization hasn't gotten rid of them anywhere. Maybe that has to do with how legalization is handled, but it so far hasn't shown to be a solution for women at the bottom of the sex worker totem pole.
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"Slavery still exists, but now it applies only to women and its name is prostitution." --Victor Hugo
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Oh, go save a soul.
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And honestly, if you're in a country where the person you have sex with has a 33% chance of being positive, everyone is branded. It's everyone's problem.
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@tailfeather: I love that this guy refers to himself as a "Christ Ambassador" because I am certain that's what Jesus would be all about, branding people.
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