When I think about the amount of gumption that I have to muster to stand up to groups of pigheaded guys (and some women) at bars, at parties, and at work when confronted with views that are openly or tacitly hostile to women, I am struck dumb by women like Ms. Rossi.
Imagine the courage and determination she must've had to face up to an establishment that so plainly dictated the worth and rightful "place" of women in our society. To go in against the prevalent cultural mileau and make huge, bold strides towards true equality is inspiring beyond words. Her accomplishments should leave all of us not only grateful but breathless. No less than a true hero. #alicesrossi
R.I.P. To the outward, glorious Skies;
So th' immortal Spirit may,
When descended to our Clay,
From a rightly govern'd Frame
View the Height, from whence she came;
To her Paradise be caught,
And things unutterable taught.
Give me then, in that Retreat,
Give me, O indulgent Fate!
For all Pleasures left behind,
Contemplations of the Mind.
Let the Fair, the Gay, the Vain
Courtship and Applause obtain;
Let th' Ambitious rule the Earth;
Let the giddy Fool have Mirth;
Give the Epicure his Dish,
Ev'ry one their sev'ral Wish;
Whilst my Transports I employ
On that more extensive Joy,
When all Heaven shall be survey'd
From those Windings and that Shade.
Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea,
from THE PETITION FOR AN ABSOLUTE RETREAT
Thank you for your contribution to making my life easier. Thank you for your dedication to equality between the sexes. Thank you for your organization. Just, thank you. #alicesrossi
Um, question - can't they do both? By which I mean issue scathing PR statements about big news stories like the Polanski or Letterman cases AND also work on more prosaic but wider reaching issues?
I mean honestly, it doesn't take that long to write and issue a PR statement, so this sort of feels like a false dichotomy. Why assume it's one or the other? #now
While I think it is fine for them to speak out about this kind of stuff, they have to be careful because they risk turning into feminist "ambulance chasers." Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson have both lost a great deal of their credibility because they are perceived to go where the publicity is. Gloria Allred is the same way. These three used to have a lot of influence, but they have squandered it and are now sometimes seen as a liability for a cause. This is the risk for NOW if they constantly make the news for just the big publicity stuff. #now
Oh come ON Anna, these NOW statements only 'made the headlines' because shallow news agencies pick up on them, while ignoring other, more structurally and institutionally substantial campaigns NOW might be waging. A simple glance at their website shows that they also have a lot to say on abstinence-only education and the healthcare bill debate. But of course, these issues aren't as sensationalist and celebrity-oriented, and therefore don't get reported on. This post strikes me as unfair and a little too quickly written. #now
When feminist groups speak out, they get criticized for doing so. When they don't speak out, they get criticized for doing so. Sometimes by Fox News and sometimes by other feminists. It's a really difficult dance, and I want to say how much I appreciate the way Anna acknowledges that these issues are legitimate, even as she questions whether NOW is the right organization to tackle them. It's heartening to see that we can talk about how to set feminist priorities on our own terms without having to denigrate any set of concerns as "less important." (I'm looking at you, anti-feminists who tell American women to quit whining because women in Afghanistan have it so much worse.)
I agree that NOW has been most effective as a liberal feminist political player in Washington. Not all of us can lobby congress, whereas plenty of us can speak out against unrealistic beauty ideals. For what it's worth, here's what I think is going on. The feminist movement in the US has frequently been criticized for focusing on symbolic issues like changing names upon marriage, calling adult women "girls," shaving legs (or waxing labia, as the case may be), pop culture representations of women, etc. It has never been true that advocates for women's rights have focused on these questions to the exclusion of advocating for policy changes, but these are the questions that tend to get debated most often. My theory is that these symbolic issues feel like things that we can change more quickly than structural, systemic sexism. It's much easier to fix our vocabulary than our economic structures, and it's a lot less daunting to take on problems that involve individuals behaving badly than to advocate for overhauling the social infrastructure. I think maybe all of us are feeling a little bit of fatigue right now with all of huge issues that need to be addressed. It's no wonder airbrushing makes NOW's VP want to cry. I mean, we've been fighting that battle forever, and if we can't get the basics down, it can make it feel like we aren't equipped to take on the bigger challenges. #now
I think I might like NOW putting themselves out in front more. I hardly hear about them until there's an election going on. Maybe they should be sweating some more of the smaller stuff if for nothing else but to make themselves more visible and remind everybody that there's still a fight on for women's equality. Because people seem to forget oftentimes.
Non-NOW-related example: The DUI charges against Mel Gibson were dropped recently and his arrest was mentioned in the news again. Usually, news reports refer to Gibson's "antisemitic rant," but in this one report I happened to catch, they said his rant was against "jews and women," which nearly knocked me on my ass because no one ever mentions the 'and women' part. The fact that somebody finally recognized that sexually degrading a police officer for being female isn't any less of a problem than saying Jews run the media was probably the result of a lot of organizing and phone calls and letter-writing. That's the kind of thing I want NOW to make happen. I want sexism to be taken as seriously in the media as racism and antisemitism and homophobia.
I also want pro-women awards ceremonies, like the NAACP Image Awards. Why don't we have something like that? #now
I think I might like NOW putting themselves out in front more. I hardly hear about them until there's an election going on. Maybe they should be sweating some more of the smaller stuff if for nothing else but to make themselves more visible and remind everybody that there's still a fight on for women's equality. Because people seem to forget oftentimes.
Non-NOW-related example: The DUI charges against Mel Gibson were dropped recently and his arrest was mentioned in the news again. Usually, news reports refer to Gibson's "antisemitic rant," but in this one report I happened to catch, they said his rant was against "jews and women," which nearly knocked me on my ass because no one ever mentions the 'and women' part. The fact that somebody finally recognized that sexually degrading a police officer for being female isn't any less of a problem than saying Jews run the media was probably the result of a lot of organizing and phone calls and letter-writing. That's the kind of thing I want NOW to make happen. I want sexism to be taken as seriously in the media as racism and antisemitism and homophobia.
I also want pro-women awards ceremonies, like the NAACP Image Awards. Why don't we have something like that? #now
11/09/09
Imagine the courage and determination she must've had to face up to an establishment that so plainly dictated the worth and rightful "place" of women in our society. To go in against the prevalent cultural mileau and make huge, bold strides towards true equality is inspiring beyond words. Her accomplishments should leave all of us not only grateful but breathless. No less than a true hero. #alicesrossi
11/09/09
11/09/09
Thank you, Ms. Rossi, for everything. #alicesrossi
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11/09/09
To the outward, glorious Skies;
So th' immortal Spirit may,
When descended to our Clay,
From a rightly govern'd Frame
View the Height, from whence she came;
To her Paradise be caught,
And things unutterable taught.
Give me then, in that Retreat,
Give me, O indulgent Fate!
For all Pleasures left behind,
Contemplations of the Mind.
Let the Fair, the Gay, the Vain
Courtship and Applause obtain;
Let th' Ambitious rule the Earth;
Let the giddy Fool have Mirth;
Give the Epicure his Dish,
Ev'ry one their sev'ral Wish;
Whilst my Transports I employ
On that more extensive Joy,
When all Heaven shall be survey'd
From those Windings and that Shade.
Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea,
from THE PETITION FOR AN ABSOLUTE RETREAT
11/09/09
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I mean honestly, it doesn't take that long to write and issue a PR statement, so this sort of feels like a false dichotomy. Why assume it's one or the other?
#now
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10/16/09
I agree that NOW has been most effective as a liberal feminist political player in Washington. Not all of us can lobby congress, whereas plenty of us can speak out against unrealistic beauty ideals. For what it's worth, here's what I think is going on. The feminist movement in the US has frequently been criticized for focusing on symbolic issues like changing names upon marriage, calling adult women "girls," shaving legs (or waxing labia, as the case may be), pop culture representations of women, etc. It has never been true that advocates for women's rights have focused on these questions to the exclusion of advocating for policy changes, but these are the questions that tend to get debated most often. My theory is that these symbolic issues feel like things that we can change more quickly than structural, systemic sexism. It's much easier to fix our vocabulary than our economic structures, and it's a lot less daunting to take on problems that involve individuals behaving badly than to advocate for overhauling the social infrastructure. I think maybe all of us are feeling a little bit of fatigue right now with all of huge issues that need to be addressed. It's no wonder airbrushing makes NOW's VP want to cry. I mean, we've been fighting that battle forever, and if we can't get the basics down, it can make it feel like we aren't equipped to take on the bigger challenges. #now
10/16/09
Non-NOW-related example: The DUI charges against Mel Gibson were dropped recently and his arrest was mentioned in the news again. Usually, news reports refer to Gibson's "antisemitic rant," but in this one report I happened to catch, they said his rant was against "jews and women," which nearly knocked me on my ass because no one ever mentions the 'and women' part. The fact that somebody finally recognized that sexually degrading a police officer for being female isn't any less of a problem than saying Jews run the media was probably the result of a lot of organizing and phone calls and letter-writing. That's the kind of thing I want NOW to make happen. I want sexism to be taken as seriously in the media as racism and antisemitism and homophobia.
I also want pro-women awards ceremonies, like the NAACP Image Awards. Why don't we have something like that? #now
10/16/09
Non-NOW-related example: The DUI charges against Mel Gibson were dropped recently and his arrest was mentioned in the news again. Usually, news reports refer to Gibson's "antisemitic rant," but in this one report I happened to catch, they said his rant was against "jews and women," which nearly knocked me on my ass because no one ever mentions the 'and women' part. The fact that somebody finally recognized that sexually degrading a police officer for being female isn't any less of a problem than saying Jews run the media was probably the result of a lot of organizing and phone calls and letter-writing. That's the kind of thing I want NOW to make happen. I want sexism to be taken as seriously in the media as racism and antisemitism and homophobia.
I also want pro-women awards ceremonies, like the NAACP Image Awards. Why don't we have something like that? #now