@AfroJezeBella: I read it as a teenager and hated it. Funnily enough, I read it in my late 20s and really loved it. But I can still see how someone would totally hate it.
@yearofthewoman: Maybe she's one of the crazy pants teenagers you see on television who ruin older men's lives with their budding sexuality and fully developed manipulation skills.
Wow, television is sexist. Now that I articulate that story line it is so disgusting to me.
@Lymed: I've spent the last three days watching Buffy on DVD and every time Angel comes on screen, I start desperately wishing that teenage girls would become obsessed with him instead.
But, I guess it's a good thing for me. Less competition.
@tonilost: Spike is no better than Edward, what with the creepy stalking and the BuffyBot and abusive sex and isolation from her friends and the "I only tried to rape you because you're such a bitch and you make me crazy!" self-justification. Spike is and always will be a complete asshole. At least when Angel was sneaking into Buffy's room at night, he was one of the bad guys.
@Pennyfeather: Well, I'm not sure about that entirely. In season 5, yes. Season 6, maybe. But by season 7 Spike was definitely getting the "champion" treatment, which annoyed the shit out of me.
Poor thing. Though I kinda feel like we should be saying, 'Told you so.'
'Told you' that in actuality, Edward is a creepy old guy who wants to get it on with virginal teenagers and not a super-sexy boyfriend-hero.
@thecameralovesyou: I always think of the line about, "Wherever women are, we have a man on the scene. He may not be one of our better men, since we have a lot of ground to cover, but..."
Which is not to say that I think this all is a joke. But it's almost the holiday and I wanted to not be as cranky as I was yesterday.
@pantsless economist...access RESTORED: How the hell did he get away? How could they NOT find the ONE guy at the Twilight movie? That's some fine police work, Lou.
@sayah: Hehe. My favorite thing about Glee is that all their teenagers are in their 20s, so when I feel the uncontrollable urge to do naughty things to Puck during Sweet Caroline, I'm actually being tempted by a 27 year old.
@Zombie Ms. Skittles: Back when Party of Five was on (this dates me, I know) I felt vaguely guilty about my attraction to Bailey. I found out that he was actually 26, which was sort of a mixed blessing, because it was then okay to find him sexy... but then I had to face the fact that I was the same age and there was no way in hell I could pass for a teenager.
@KatyLou: This site has a fine tradition of posting articles on how horrible it is to objectify women then posts images and articles that do exactly the same thing to men.
Honestly I don't mind the older women getting hot and bothered over some shirtless himbo. It's natural to be attracted, no matter who it is.
I just wish there was a little more introspection when it comes to this. It makes it easy to ignore positions on these things when you have obvious examples of hypocricy.
@NerD: Blattella: You do realize all other things aren't equal, right? In other words, you're not dehumanizing the male gender by sexualizing a representative of that group. That's because sexuality hasn't been used to dehumanize them on the basis of gender the way it has with women and girls (Mind you, men and boys of color have been dehumanized but it's mostly based on race).
For example, look at race: you can see all sorts of white males being arrested on Cops and that won't cause you to dehumanize them as a group the way it would to see a string of black men being arrested on those same charges.
I know it's way late, but still it's off to think that they're the same thing.
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That's adorable. I mean, that is like "Kids Say The Darndest Things" cute.
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Yep and it's still gross even if she wanted it.
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Wow, television is sexist. Now that I articulate that story line it is so disgusting to me.
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But, I guess it's a good thing for me. Less competition.
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'Told you' that in actuality, Edward is a creepy old guy who wants to get it on with virginal teenagers and not a super-sexy boyfriend-hero.
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Which is not to say that I think this all is a joke. But it's almost the holiday and I wanted to not be as cranky as I was yesterday.
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She should be glad he loved her enough to refrain from drinking her delicious blood. this man is a god-damned hero.
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That's what some guy whowas With the Band said Beatlemania smelled like to him. Rivers of urine in the Sullivan theater...
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Btw: team Puck or Finn?
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Hypocrites.
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Here are a couple of examples:
[jezebel.com]
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The gist being sexualizing:
17 year old girl = BAD!!!
19 year old girl = bad
17 year old boy = just expressing ourselves.
Honestly I don't mind the older women getting hot and bothered over some shirtless himbo. It's natural to be attracted, no matter who it is.
I just wish there was a little more introspection when it comes to this. It makes it easy to ignore positions on these things when you have obvious examples of hypocricy.
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For example, look at race: you can see all sorts of white males being arrested on Cops and that won't cause you to dehumanize them as a group the way it would to see a string of black men being arrested on those same charges.
I know it's way late, but still it's off to think that they're the same thing.
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Except the examples I listed were talking about two specific girls (Miley Cyrus and Emma Watson), and then generalizing to suit their argument.
If you are going to have a double standard, know you have a double standard. Don't parse.