So one of my besties is getting married next summer and she is going to India to buy all her wedding clothes because it's cheaper. And as her wedding planner/maid-of-honour/MC she's going to bring me back a sari. Now I can tell her what I want! #willsindiafashionweek
I went to the wedding of an Indian friend this summer and I was so, so jealous of the bright red and gold, sparkly, gorgeous sari she wore. And the sweet henna tattoos all over her hands. And the gold headdress. Ok fine, I was jealous of everything. #willsindiafashionweek
I really wish there was some kind of Indian heritage festival anywhere near me, because I would KILL for a chance to purchase a sari even if I only got to wear it in my house. #willsindiafashionweek
@Zombie Ms. Skittles: Does your city have an Indian section? There's a great area on Devon Avenue in Chicago that's filled with saris, Indian jewelry, and some of the best food in town. Oh, and pashminas, though no word if they are nautically-themed. #willsindiafashionweek
@Pandorasvoicebox: I live near Houston. I know we don't have one in my town and I don't actually ever know what's going on in the city, but you're right that there probably is one in Houston. #willsindiafashionweek
@Zombie Ms. Skittles: There is probably an "Indian heritage festival" in Houston, but regardless, the Indian community in Houston is huge so even if there isn't one central "festival" there is definitely shit going on continuously. Hit up the Indian grocery stores (there's probably at least a dozen since Houston's a big city) because they usually post advertisements for various Indian events going on locally (movies, concerts, services, sales, etc.) Sari shops are another good choice, so ask around to find one, or shamelessly ask one of your Indian friends to bring you back a good sari from India if they visit. And if you want a two-in-one cultural experience, check out a temple or a Hindu mission center. I know there are some in Houston. #willsindiafashionweek
@Chivone: Let me be very clear. I am not making these women "Other" or "Exoticized" by answering charliekohler's question about how to get shiny hair. Before you call anyone out for anything, ensure that you know whether any of the commenters are Indian themselves.
I'm sure that if every commenter were Indian asking about how to get shiny hair, you might have kept your comment to yourself.
Also, because I myself am not white, I resent your condescending tone.
@Master.And.Everyone: If it isn't about you, don't try to make it about you.
The way that all of these commenters are talking about Indian womens hair is indicative that they are not Indian. They're the same every time there's a SJ in India. And as an Indian person, most of the exoticizing comments I've gotten IRL about my looks have been from nonwhite, mostly black people. So for you to pretend that you could do no wrong because you're not white just makes no sense whatsoever.
@Hana Maru: I resent *her* condescending tone because, as a non-white person, I have also been exoticized.
I never, not even once, implied that because I am not white, I "can do no wrong."Do not put words in my mouth. Your reading comprehension might need work. Although I appreciate your input, it was neither solicited nor necessary to the conversation.
Right back at you with the, " If it isn't about you, don't try to make it about you."
@Master.And.Everyone:
I wasn't the one who interpreted that comment as being about me; you did. You pretended it was all about your comment, then you spouted some nonsense about how it wouldn't be said in response to a bunch of Indian women. Well, DUH. Indian women don't talk about how all the Indian women they know have awesome hair.
Your race and whether you have been exoticized is irrelevant to your non-argument. Since you did claim some kind of immunity by virtue of your non-whiteness, my paraphrase stands.
Although I appreciate your input, it was neither solicited nor necessary to the conversation.
This part made me LOL. Welcome to the crazy world of internet comments, honey. You'll get used to it soon enough.
oooh, i've been there. during ramadan also. god, i have not traveled anywhere since way too long. it's inspiring but painful looking at these kinds of pics...you know that feeling where you want to travel so badly it actually hurts? damn recession.
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Poor Gurdeep. I can't even imagine how awful that must have been, and must still be. #sikhriots
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I'm sure that if every commenter were Indian asking about how to get shiny hair, you might have kept your comment to yourself.
Also, because I myself am not white, I resent your condescending tone.
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The way that all of these commenters are talking about Indian womens hair is indicative that they are not Indian. They're the same every time there's a SJ in India. And as an Indian person, most of the exoticizing comments I've gotten IRL about my looks have been from nonwhite, mostly black people. So for you to pretend that you could do no wrong because you're not white just makes no sense whatsoever.
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I never, not even once, implied that because I am not white, I "can do no wrong."Do not put words in my mouth. Your reading comprehension might need work. Although I appreciate your input, it was neither solicited nor necessary to the conversation.
Right back at you with the, " If it isn't about you, don't try to make it about you."
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I wasn't the one who interpreted that comment as being about me; you did. You pretended it was all about your comment, then you spouted some nonsense about how it wouldn't be said in response to a bunch of Indian women. Well, DUH. Indian women don't talk about how all the Indian women they know have awesome hair.
Your race and whether you have been exoticized is irrelevant to your non-argument. Since you did claim some kind of immunity by virtue of your non-whiteness, my paraphrase stands.
Although I appreciate your input, it was neither solicited nor necessary to the conversation.
This part made me LOL. Welcome to the crazy world of internet comments, honey. You'll get used to it soon enough.
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