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11/11/09
Dear Cynthia,
Tell your stupid assistant superintendent that he's 15 years behind the times. I took my girlfriend to prom in 1994. The seas did not boil, the earth did not quake, and society did not instantly crumble. A couple of guys came out of the closet a year later, but I'm pretty sure that would have happened anyway.
Don't back down. Prom is silly, overrated, and damn important in this society.
Love,
la.donna.pietra #condoms
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I'm guessing the men where shirtless due to it being hot (likely terrible conditions to work in), so I'm picturing them dripping sweat onto the condoms as they are being packaged. Yuck... #condoms
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[www.lifestylesplay.com] #condoms
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[www.post-gazette.com] #condoms
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Are there schools where you need to register your date? #condoms
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They were young, but they weren't stupid. They knew what would get them harassed by administrators and students if they pulled it at a school sponsored event. Most gay kids have already been harassed by faculty in school. Of course you ask first, before you buy the dress and shoes and rent the limo. #condoms
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Which made the top of the list ("la.donna.pietra and Lisa!") particularly interesting, in 1994. #condoms
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I did get my tires slashed, though. I'm pretty sure that was by a fellow prom-goer. #condoms
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10/26/09
The men in positions of power (there are no women who hold the priesthood) bare more than religious swords over their followers heads. They control the economic, emotional, and social power from birth until death. This is a system of abuse from start to finish.
Jessop is part of that system and indeed, a family, of patriarchs that practice extreme control over others, and will not hesitate to inflict violence and death for subversion (blood atonement). Whether or not he is guilty of this particular charge or set of charges, the pattern is clear, and traceable for about 100 years, with escalation in the past 30 or so. I hope he, and the others, are convicted and that it brings a spotlight bright as the sun upon the 'Yearning for Zion' compound and other FLDS strongholds.
I wish I wasn't so angry about this. I've lived my life in the two states most accepting of FLDS practices, and I'm infuriated that these state governments do nothing but turn a blind eye to what is happening. I understand that they go after charges they think they can win, but it still really gets me riled up. Clearly I'll never sit on a jury in one of these cases. #fdls
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that being said, i hope these guys get whats coming to them, because they disgust me. #fdls
10/26/09
Perhaps we are not providing what our founders expected in the constitution, but considering they had no problem trying women and blacks in front of juries made completely of white men, I doubt they would complain. #fdls
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If it is financially viable and all parties are amenable, I don't see the point of making polygamy (as encompassing both polygyny and polyandry) illegal. #fdls
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I think by legalizing polygamy and encouraging people to get marriage licenses from the country/state, you could eliminate some of the problems because there's a way to track these relationships and determine who is responsible for whom.
Marriage in a legal context isn't about sex, its about determining who has what rights and responsibilities towards another. People can have polyamourous relationships, but this isn't really what its about. #fdls
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But then, wouldn't polygamy as a whole being illegal make it so that issue is somewhat ignored? It's just, "oh, that's an illegal type of marriage," and not, "this woman was not given another choice". #fdls
10/26/09
I know "Big Love" makes it seem like polygamists are basically standard-issue, suburban Relief Society ladies with interesting personal lives, but the majority of cases (like the FLDS in Hilldale/Colorado City) are more like Nikki's family on the compound.
Not that there aren't consenting adults making it work in the suburbs like the Henricksons, but that's not what we're dealing with most of the time. #fdls
10/27/09
You can have amenable parties even if young men are expelled from the community.
Unfortunately, I think you're right in that these practices limit choice and in many cases amount to coercision. #fdls