<![CDATA[Jezebel: mommy bloggers]]> http://tags.gawker.com/assets/base/img/thumbs140x140/jezebel.com.png <![CDATA[Jezebel: mommy bloggers]]> http://jezebel.com/tag/mommybloggers http://jezebel.com/tag/mommybloggers <![CDATA[Mommy Blogs Pack A Political Punch]]> A while back we wrote about the growing economic clout of mommy bloggers — according to Ms. Magazine, they're starting to exert influence in the political arena as well.

In an article called "Cyberhood Is Powerful" (link is an excerpt, full article is magazine only), Kara Jesella writes that "a strong subset of the mommyblogosphere is overtly feminist and proudly activist." She mentions Veronica Arreola of Viva La Feminista, who recently blogged about Bill O'Reilly and healthcare protester Katy Abram, and Lawyer Mama, who posted on Henry Louis Gates Jr.'s arrest.

But moms aren't just commenting on politics, they're influencing it too. Blogger Lisa Frack organized a group of political moms called Activistas to campaign for paid maternity leave in Oregon. The bill they spearheaded didn't pass, but a similar one in New Jersey, also supported by moms, did. And the group MomsRising (Angela Sasseville, pictured, is a member), which has a blog and campaigns for such issues as health care reform, surpassed a million members this year. MomsRising executive director Kristin Rowe-Finkbeiner says reaching women online makes advocacy much more effective: "it's very different to be able to have direct access to people in their homes. That is huge to not have to leave home."

Blogging is helping moms influence national policy, but political engagement also influences moms. Joanne Bamberger of PunditMom tells Jesella, "I think a lot of moms who don't identify as political activists or feminists are writing on sites increasingly about issues that are important to them." She adds that they are "finding their political selves." Some moms might counter that they have always had political selves, but blogs do give mothers a public voice — and a piece of online real estate to call their own. Jill Smokler of Scary Mommy writes,

As a mother of three, there are very few things that are entirely mine. My bed is inevitably invaded by all of the kids sometime throughout the night. My favorite foods are devoured by mouths other than mine and my cosmetics are used for dress up these days as often as on my own face. [...] But this blog? It's mine. All mine. And that's what I love about it.

Jesella closes her piece with a few words from blogger JJ Keith: "Americans have become accustomed to thinking of motherhood as a trial, but with some activism and support, it could be a joy again." Americans have also become accustomed to thinking of motherhood as selfless, to assuming, in some ways, that mothers have no identity outside their kids. But mommy blogs are providing mothers with a mode of expressing their individual and political identities. Not only might this make life better for moms and children in practical ways — Jesella mentions that over half of American women have no paid sick or family leave days, which seems like a good place to start — but it might also help moms reclaim some respect from a society that sometimes devalues the work they do.

Arreola of Viva La Feminista wrote recently,

Having more women in the newsroom, in media itself, just might ensure that there is a critical enough mass that if something is offensive to one woman, she'd feel like she could say something.

Maybe having more women like them in the blogosphere will make moms feel like they can say something too.

Cyberhood Is Powerful: Moms Increasingly Taking Up Blogging [Alternet]
Ms. Magazine [Current Issue]

Earlier: Mommy Bloggers Feud Over Swag

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<![CDATA[Mommy Bloggers Feud Over Swag]]> Mommy bloggers used to call their craft "a radical act," but now it's a profitable one — in partnership with corporations, moms can get everything from free stuff to payment for product reviews. But is this damaging their cred?

Wal-Mart has a network of popular mom bloggers, like Tara Kuczykowski of DealSeekingMom.com, who "get products they can review from vendors, plus extras to give away on their sites." Wal-Mart doesn't pay them, but Kuczykowski says, "There have been a couple of situations where we've also been asked to do a video for a vendor and have gotten paid. You're giving your opinions on [a product], but they're not paying you for a positive opinion." General Mills has started a similar program, providing bloggers with free products as well as coupons. Though General Mills says it doesn't control what bloggers write, the program's website says, "If you feel you cannot write a positive post regarding the product or service, please contact the MyBlogSpark team before posting any content."

Jessica Hogue, research director of Nielsen Online, says many mom bloggers have come to the conclusion that, "Hey, maybe my blog could be my business." It's hard to fault moms for wanting to make some money, especially in this economy. At the same time, it's tough to be truly objective when one particular company is providing you with free stuff. And this lack of objectivity may be behind blogger Lindsay Ferrier's complaint that, "I no longer believe that mommy blogging is a radical act. It is a commercial act."

Blogger Alice Bradley says before the advent of the mommy blog, "you didn't necessarily get the raw honest truth of motherhood in both its hilarious and horrifying moments." The strong reactions of many moms to the commercialization of blogging shows how much they've come to rely on the "raw honest truth" — a commodity still hard to come by in a society that judges its mothers harshly. Yes, the "bad mommy" is now a cultural trope, but the fact that moms apply this label to themselves when they let their kids cry in a store or eat hot dogs for dinner is evidence that the archetype of the perfect mother still has power, and that women still notice, every day, that they don't live up to it. Motherhood can be lonely and scary, and it's no wonder that moms crave voices they can trust. And when these voices ally themselves, however loosely, with corporations, they necessarily become a little less trustworthy. For many moms, reading a mommy blog is about connecting with women like them — not with General Mills.

Trusted Mom Or Sellout? [Newsweek]

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<![CDATA[Heather "Dooce" Armstrong Makes Kathie Lee Uncomfortable]]> Talk about ice queens on the Today show: This morning, Heather B. Armstrong met with Hoda Kotb and Kathie Lee Gifford to talk about her award-winning, groundbreaking blog Dooce  is it just me or doesn't it seem a bit unfair to call it a "Mom Blog"?  and sat on the couch with her arms crossed the entire time, looking cold. (In temperature, not in spirit.) Maybe she was simply preparing herself for Kathie Lee's line of questioning. About three minutes into the interview, Kathie Lee admitted that she has "mixed emotions" about Armstrong's chosen line of work, then quickly changed the subject to tease the show's next segment about home decorating. Clip above.


Earlier: Dooce: Proof That Not All Our Pregnancies Need To End In Abortion?

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