yack - has anyone seen the two douche bags that run fucking beautifulpeople.com? i will let you make up your own minds about these two delightful specimens #condoms
Tell your stupid assistant superintendent that he's 15 years behind the times. I took my girlfriend to prom in 1994. The seas did not boil, the earth did not quake, and society did not instantly crumble. A couple of guys came out of the closet a year later, but I'm pretty sure that would have happened anyway.
Don't back down. Prom is silly, overrated, and damn important in this society.
That condom story already had me cringing, but when I got to the part that they were packaged by shirtless men without being sterilized, just....ewww!
I'm guessing the men where shirtless due to it being hot (likely terrible conditions to work in), so I'm picturing them dripping sweat onto the condoms as they are being packaged. Yuck... #condoms
@formergr: I actually don't think regular condoms are sterilized. Legal ones I mean. There's no reason to sterilize them because what they go on and in aren't sterile areas. #condoms
@Tart of Darkness: Here's a little thing on how condoms are made. Everyone making them are wearing protective gear and it appears to be a clean zone that the condoms are being made in. Much different from condoms made by sweaty men without any face masks (presumably) and with probably limited hygienic options. Also, there's no use of veggie oil, but instead safer, more long-lasting lubricants.
@Dancingfrog: I wasn't implying that they are not properly made under clean conditions as regulated for the kind of medical device that they are, but they are not sterilized. They are made under "clean" conditions, not sterile ones. #condoms
@Tart of Darkness: Oh, I didn't mean to imply that you said anything. I just wanted to post that link because it's interesting, and your post was the next one up to reply to. #condoms
@Dancingfrog: And I wanted to say I did enjoy your link. When I rewrote my post because my first one was clumsy (er than what I posted) I left that out. People should know how their protection is made. #condoms
From the article: "But the family remains in need of money for everything from medical bills to rent to food. Big-hearted readers can send checks to the Jaycee Lee Dugard Trust, c/o Viewtech, PO Box 596, Atwood, CA 92811." #condoms
Love the Jimmy Kimmel quote. RIP, Mister Rogers, RIP.
I'm admittedly more than a little prejudiced against the LDS as an institution and faith (though the individual practitioners I know are almost all truly kind and genuine people), but kudos to the Mormons for at least making an effort to demonstrate tolerance, however inadequate it might be. Cynically, I think that with all the recent bad press of the FLDS cults, the church may be scrambling to distinguish themselves from these groups. Look, folks, we're not bigots, swear! We're down with the gays! #condoms
I don't understand how all these prom debacles happen. At my high school, nobody knew who was taking whom to prom until we got there. None of the teachers or administrators asked, we didn't need to tell anyone. And occasionally people went alone, or groups of friends went. I took a girl to my prom (I think she was straight, we didn't ever date or anything even though she was super hot and cool) and my BFF was our other date. Nobody really knew until we got there. Nobody cared, but even if they had we would already have been there, it would have been too late to ban us. #condoms
@Cimorene: Where I went, if you were taking someone from outside the school, you had to get approval-- but i think that was basically to make sure no one older than 21 came. #condoms
@Cimorene: Same at my school. I decided to go to my senior prom last minute because my friend broke up with her boyfriend and needed a date. We didn't alert school officials or anything. What does this principal think is going to happen if they let that girl bring her girlfriend? That everyone is going to start having gay sex on the dance floor? #condoms
@Cimorene: We only had to give the name of people if they didn't go the school. But I can't imagine my school saying no to a female bringing another female. #condoms
@Cimorene: Exactly. I went one year with a girlfriend so we could save on tickets (two tickets together were cheaper than buying two separately) and it didn't matter and no one cared.
@Cimorene: There was a well known no-same-sex dates at my school (1990s) so one gay couple needed to pair up with an an opposite gay couple, switch partners to buy tix and get in the door,and then switch partners later. Dancing? Well, the girls could dance together but the guys had to keep their distance if they wanted to make it home in one piece.
They were young, but they weren't stupid. They knew what would get them harassed by administrators and students if they pulled it at a school sponsored event. Most gay kids have already been harassed by faculty in school. Of course you ask first, before you buy the dress and shoes and rent the limo. #condoms
@Cimorene: I consider myself lucky. Somehow my high school girlfriend was able to bring me, and I had already left the school and was no longer a student. And it was an all girls Catholic School, in Kentucky, no less. None of the faculty or deans said a thing. And it was obvious I wasn't there as her friend and a former student. #condoms
@Cimorene: We had to give our names and our date's names when we purchased tickets at my prom. The prom committee then wrote all of our names ("Terry and Carrie!") on a giant piece of butcher paper in sparkly glitter ink and hung it up in the hall, so that everyone knew who was going with whom, just in case you weren't paying attention to the gossip.
Which made the top of the list ("la.donna.pietra and Lisa!") particularly interesting, in 1994. #condoms
@BytheSea: My school knew damn well that I would call in GLAAD, PFLAG, Amnesty International, Melissa Etheridge, and anyone else I could think of. They didn't even bother giving me shit.
I did get my tires slashed, though. I'm pretty sure that was by a fellow prom-goer. #condoms
How could you post about a statue of Mr. Rogers that allegedly looks like a "mud monster," and then link to a story that doesn't even provide a picture? For those of you wondering. #condoms
@applejuice: It's not the style I was questioning so much as the material. The photo seems to show a maquette rather than the finished piece which would indicate that it's probably made of an oil-based modeling clay but it really doesn't look like it. That type of clay would not have white marbling as this appears to have and I just can't figure out what he could have used to get that effect. Hence, hamburger.
As for the style itself, it seems like a relatively common post-Rodin sculpting technique that I'm not opposed to per se. But the positioning of the figure and the modeling of the limbs is a whole 'nother matter. #condoms
@applejuice: Oh that's good then! I just read this thing once (I went to a very liberal arts college) where imposing people of legend (politicians, "founding fathers," etc.) get huge statues because they're so far above us mere mortals while more "of the people" figures tend to stay life sized. Mr. Rogers was very of the people, but if it's fun for the kids, who am I to second guess :) #condoms
@slowpoke.r: There is a pic of the final piece at the page I linked above and the positioning of the limbs etc looks different. It also looks like it is probably bronze?
@weetziebat: Actually, sounds like it's super illegal. I can only guess without all the fact, but students do have first amendment rights in school. There are restrictions sometimes, but they don't look like they'd apply to the student in this story. #condoms
In an oral history interview Mr. Rogers said that all of those zipper sweaters he wore were hand-knit by his mother (whose maiden name was...McFeeley). For some reason that detail always makes me want to cry.
I also once heard that his car was once stolen. When it made the local news that Mr. Rogers's car had been taken, the thief returned it to the same parking spot the next day with an anonymous note that said "I'm sorry Mr. Rogers - I didn't know it was your car."
Something about Mr. Rogers always makes me tear up. And I am not the type to cry at the drop of a hat.
There's just something so wonderfully heroic about him.
I think he doesn't get enough credit for modeling a version of masculinity for little boys that you can't see pretty much anywhere else.
Mr. Rogers always reminded me of my dad. They're both kind of quite and mellow but their if you need them and both treat kids with a respect that most adults don't give to children.
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@Lizard in the Wires is on Rails: I feel the same way. I'm also sad that Mr. Rogers is no longer shown on my local PBS - if there was ever a time when children needed a calm adult demonstrating kindness, that time is now.
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yack - has anyone seen the two douche bags that run fucking beautifulpeople.com? i will let you make up your own minds about these two delightful specimens #condoms
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Dear Cynthia,
Tell your stupid assistant superintendent that he's 15 years behind the times. I took my girlfriend to prom in 1994. The seas did not boil, the earth did not quake, and society did not instantly crumble. A couple of guys came out of the closet a year later, but I'm pretty sure that would have happened anyway.
Don't back down. Prom is silly, overrated, and damn important in this society.
Love,
la.donna.pietra #condoms
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I'm guessing the men where shirtless due to it being hot (likely terrible conditions to work in), so I'm picturing them dripping sweat onto the condoms as they are being packaged. Yuck... #condoms
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[www.lifestylesplay.com] #condoms
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I'm admittedly more than a little prejudiced against the LDS as an institution and faith (though the individual practitioners I know are almost all truly kind and genuine people), but kudos to the Mormons for at least making an effort to demonstrate tolerance, however inadequate it might be. Cynically, I think that with all the recent bad press of the FLDS cults, the church may be scrambling to distinguish themselves from these groups. Look, folks, we're not bigots, swear! We're down with the gays! #condoms
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[www.post-gazette.com] #condoms
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Are there schools where you need to register your date? #condoms
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They were young, but they weren't stupid. They knew what would get them harassed by administrators and students if they pulled it at a school sponsored event. Most gay kids have already been harassed by faculty in school. Of course you ask first, before you buy the dress and shoes and rent the limo. #condoms
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Which made the top of the list ("la.donna.pietra and Lisa!") particularly interesting, in 1994. #condoms
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I did get my tires slashed, though. I'm pretty sure that was by a fellow prom-goer. #condoms
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How could you post about a statue of Mr. Rogers that allegedly looks like a "mud monster," and then link to a story that doesn't even provide a picture? For those of you wondering. #condoms
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Why does it look like he's made of hamburger? #condoms
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Why is he 11 feet tall? He should be person sized so people could stand with him...Mr. Rogers isn't big an imposing... #condoms
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[www.post-gazette.com] #condoms
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As for the style itself, it seems like a relatively common post-Rodin sculpting technique that I'm not opposed to per se. But the positioning of the figure and the modeling of the limbs is a whole 'nother matter. #condoms
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He's like that x-men made of lava. #condoms
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I also once heard that his car was once stolen. When it made the local news that Mr. Rogers's car had been taken, the thief returned it to the same parking spot the next day with an anonymous note that said "I'm sorry Mr. Rogers - I didn't know it was your car."
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There's just something so wonderfully heroic about him.
I think he doesn't get enough credit for modeling a version of masculinity for little boys that you can't see pretty much anywhere else.
Mr. Rogers always reminded me of my dad. They're both kind of quite and mellow but their if you need them and both treat kids with a respect that most adults don't give to children.
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