Sigh. I really really really love my cuddly, cute-overload.com-addicted, no-longer-bicurious-because-he-tried-and-didn't-like-it, baby-loving, giant, burly, hairy, fist-fight-winning man. Whenever I get annoyed with him over something stupid, I all I need to do is read Jezebel to remind myself of what kind of assholes are out there. And it all goes out the window.
@SylvanSylph: That did a very strange thing with my very long hyphenated adjective! Anyway, there are amazing men out there, those of you seeking one take heart!
Um... Thai "girly-men" are typically not affluent dandies. And if they are competitive in Muay Thai, they can kick just as much ass as any "manly-man."
Yeah I'm sure Men In Power (i.e. "reality") care about men being SAHDs. It's telling that whenever men have some alleged grievance with patriarchy (strict gender roles, in this case), they react by whining about the very people fighting it (i.e. feminists).
Eh, I can't get too worked up about a mildly retro book about masculinity. But I do think its funny that he call Starship Troopers "a young man who has to face an enemy straight on and thereby grow into a man" when it takes places in a pretty gender neutral society.
Chris seems to have no idea what Men in Power is about. It isn't a group that includes issues like being a stay at home dad or how to balance fatherhood and work, its about promoting men as a class into greater power, which they don't need.
@clevernamehere: IS he unaware that that movie is a giant attack on fascism and not embracing the culture it shows? Or did that just go completely over his tiny little head(s)
Yikes - so what does that mean about all the guys I know who are neither Dundee nor Seacrest? They're gay? Mutant non-humanoids? Figments of my imagination? HOLOGRAMS???
Isn't getting knowledge from a book rather than the sweat of your balls kind of, well, sissy? Not to Miniter. He thinks men need his guide to help them with important manliness tasks like fending off mountain lions...
No, what he really thinks is that he needs royalties from men who are too afraid to figure out for themselves what manliness is, and God knows there's no shortage of those. Really, there's absolutely nothing in here that can't be solved by introspection, intelligence, and confidence, and there's no need--or means--to gain those things through acts of violence or dominance or original discovery. If they need women to tell them to find another way, then so be it. It doesn't make us better or worse. It doesn't make them dandies. It does make the world better.
Why the fuck would you try and tackle a mountain lion? Why? Real men - and women, natch - have the goo sense to leave wildlife the fuck alone!
/person from country where idiots go swimming in clearly marked and well-known croc-infested waters in the middle of the night & are surprised when they get eaten, other idiots call for cull.
@Fridge Hussy : Isn't it?: I'm the opposite, the reason I am largely adverse to hiking (aside from my laziness) is the possibility of being mauled by a mountain lion. And I am totally serious.
@Penny: I have no idea why people outside Oz think that we have the deadliest wildlife. The Tasmanian Tiger has been extinct for decades. You have bears, dammit. Bears!
@Fridge Hussy : Isn't it?: Oz only has the worst AQUATIC wildlife. If there was one thing I learned from study abroad, it was never, ever swim in the ocean. On land, you just have snakes and funnel web spiders. And drop bears.
@Artemis47: 'Drop Bears'???? Is that a bear that drops on your head to eat you? omg. Another thing to be irrationally afraid of. I've also heard you Aussies have like a trillion bugs that can kill you just by looking at you. I've always wanted to travel there but it just gets scawier and scawier.
Wow, nothing is manlier than applying current, narrow cultural standards to the entirety of world history. "Haha, high heels = ladiez!" Clearly, the manliest of men own NO shoes and get by on the callused soles of their muscley, muscley manfeet. I wonder what Miniter wears?
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No, what he really thinks is that he needs royalties from men who are too afraid to figure out for themselves what manliness is, and God knows there's no shortage of those. Really, there's absolutely nothing in here that can't be solved by introspection, intelligence, and confidence, and there's no need--or means--to gain those things through acts of violence or dominance or original discovery. If they need women to tell them to find another way, then so be it. It doesn't make us better or worse. It doesn't make them dandies. It does make the world better.
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This is HILARIOUS. Really? I'm with you, Anna. Fuck.
What would the female equivalent of this pairing be?
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