All of the women that I know that have messed up relationships with their sexuality are not Catholic. they're Buddhist, or were raised agnostic and stuff and the religion wasn't at fault so much as the culture/ their parents who basically told them that sex was dirty and that it was what a women did to please a man but that it wasn't for them to enjoy. I was never taught nor do I believe that sex is dirty. If anything, I was taught the opposite. That sex is sacred and intimate and beautiful, and just like you don't stuff yourself with a crappy meal from McDonalds before going to a five star dinner you don't fill yourself with shitty sex because why would you settle for a crap substitute?

I haven't had many partners and my friends generally treat me like the little innocent naive (I'm 29) but the reality is that based on their stories I've had the best consistent sex out of any of them. And I'm not saying this in an my orgasm is better than yours way (though many of them still haven't orgasmed from sex and they're in their mid-to late twenties as well and I have so nyah), but in the sense that I've never had a guy do some of the horrible asshat things that they've had happen to them (guys pulling off condoms midway through because it feels better even though the girls weren't on BC, nevermind STDs). I've never had "bad sex" there are no notches on my bedpost that I wish weren't there. I keep joking that I've been ruined, because now that I've only had filet mignon I can't possibly settle for ground round.

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