Oh gosh-
"Gynocrat" is a horrible word. I'm getting these dystopic sci-fi novel-images of gynoid police with evil plastic boobplates and a big purple and green vagina-in-the-roof commanding us all to VOTE GYNO and OBEY, OBEY, MOTHER KNOWS BEST. Light shines out of it. Martin Amis smiles serenely.
Sir, I think you need to take a step back and look at the culture of your own gender. When you've had a nice, long look, you can come back and tell me that it's feminism's fault that your sister was victimized. If you want to keep blaming this woman for being abused and such, look at who was abusing her, not at whether or not she had the gall to be sexually empowered.
Dear Mr. Amis (or is it Sir Amis?),
Writing a book that deals mostly with women, and features a woman as a central character does not make the book "feminist". Referring to feminists as "they", blaming the sexual revolution for moral decline, and your concern for your late sister's sexuality betrays your antiquated notions of gender and sex. Liking to shag women does not mean that you yourself are a feminist. Please read some books on feminism, take women's studies classes, or hell just TALK to women and men about feminism.
Sincerely,
A woman who identifies as a feminist
I think what she was doing was seeking protection from men, but it went the other way, she was often beaten up, abused and she simply used herself up,"
Yeah, the men had nothing to do with that. Damn sexual freedom for making my sister beat herself up.
"I think what she was doing was seeking protection from men, but it went the other way, she was often beaten up, abused and she simply used herself up"
Sounds like she wasn't a victim of the sexual revolution but a victim of the men who beat her & abused her.
Wow, just reading the blurb in The Guardian, seems like he's missing the whole impact of her "depression and alcoholism" on her behavior. Likely her illness lead to her acting out in many ways, not just sexually, so to blame it on the sexual revolution is as ludicrous as asserting that people with mental illnesses are possessed by demons. Seems like he manages to trivialize both feminism and mental illness in one fell swoop.
@zu_zu: I'm not sure - he's on to a powerful metaphor here: after a revolution we are left with "not an heir but a pregnant widow".
"In other words, revolution isn't a flip," said Amis. "It's a churning process that goes on for a long time before the baby is born. It's not the instant replacement of one order by another."
I think that the article is the bigger problem. It doesn't really get him to elaborate, the crucial threads that tie together these themes are absent. It doesn't even really try.
It seems like a cheap ploy to get publicity by focusing on the author's peculiarities.
@J.D.Regent: On the one hand, we're uptight boner-killers who need to be more "sex positive", on the other, we're forcing women to have so much sex we end up all messed up.
One personality disorder ... er "trait" that many ultra-conservatives have is that they tend to be able to hold two opposing and contradictory thoughts in their head at the same time without cognitive dissidence. Go figure.
I'm not sure he understands how little control women had over their sex lives in the times before the sexual revolution. Also, quit worrying about your sister's vagina.
@shevralay: I guess it's good for her sake, then, that he waited until after her death to be so offensively dismissive of both her personal experiences and those of women in general
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"Gynocrat" is a horrible word. I'm getting these dystopic sci-fi novel-images of gynoid police with evil plastic boobplates and a big purple and green vagina-in-the-roof commanding us all to VOTE GYNO and OBEY, OBEY, MOTHER KNOWS BEST. Light shines out of it. Martin Amis smiles serenely.
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Writing a book that deals mostly with women, and features a woman as a central character does not make the book "feminist". Referring to feminists as "they", blaming the sexual revolution for moral decline, and your concern for your late sister's sexuality betrays your antiquated notions of gender and sex. Liking to shag women does not mean that you yourself are a feminist. Please read some books on feminism, take women's studies classes, or hell just TALK to women and men about feminism.
Sincerely,
A woman who identifies as a feminist
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Parents who use contrarian sexist banalities have children who use contrarian sexist banalities.
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Yeah, the men had nothing to do with that. Damn sexual freedom for making my sister beat herself up.
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Sounds like she wasn't a victim of the sexual revolution but a victim of the men who beat her & abused her.
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And exactly.
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after a revolution we are left with "not an heir but a pregnant widow".
"In other words, revolution isn't a flip," said Amis. "It's a churning process that goes on for a long time before the baby is born. It's not the instant replacement of one order by another."
I think that the article is the bigger problem. It doesn't really get him to elaborate, the crucial threads that tie together these themes are absent. It doesn't even really try.
It seems like a cheap ploy to get publicity by focusing on the author's peculiarities.
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One personality disorder ... er "trait" that many ultra-conservatives have is that they tend to be able to hold two opposing and contradictory thoughts in their head at the same time without cognitive dissidence. Go figure.
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