The Secret To Marital Success Is Not Being a DickErin Gloria Ryan12/09/11 1:15pm2272EditInvite manuallyPromoteDismissUndismissHideGo to permalinkFinally, after all these years and all these self help books written by therapists with bangs photographed in soft focus, scientists have definitively discovered the secret to marriage. Are you ready for it? Here it is: Be nice to each other.