<![CDATA[Jezebel: maiden name]]> http://tags.gawker.com/assets/base/img/thumbs140x140/jezebel.com.png <![CDATA[Jezebel: maiden name]]> http://jezebel.com/tag/maidenname http://jezebel.com/tag/maidenname <![CDATA[You'll Be Mrs. Dikshit-Spitzfarger And Like It!]]> Jeebus! According to a new study half of female respondents say that - wait for it - women should be mandated by the government to take their husband's name. We are...troubled by this:

Now, don't worry: this study, presented by the American Sociological Association, wasn't actually taking the lay of the land for a possible law. Rather, the researchers, from Indiana University and the University of Utah, used this question -less politically charged than many, but a good indication of general inclinations - to get the 815 respondents (an admittedly fairly small sample) to open up about a range of social issues. Said one researcher, according to USA Today, "Because it's not politicized, people just answer the question without really thinking about it...It sort of taps into people's views about all kinds of things."

Overall, 70% of those polled felt, according to USA Today, "either somewhat or strongly, that it's beneficial for women to take her husband's last name when they marry." And the divides did not appear to be generational. The same researcher called the enthusiasm for government-mandated name-change "interesting"; I'd probably use another word - especially if this is, indeed, an indicator of people's larger views. (Although I'm wondering what the results were "code" for: "no socialized socialist medicine socialists," paradoxically?) People feeling a single name encourages family unity, as many proponents stated, is one thing; taking away choice from something so wholly personal is quite another - and is one of those awful things that, like Michael Jackson's death, is initially shocking - and then, after a moment's depressed reflection, not at all.

Study: Wives Should Take Husbands' Surname [UPI]
70% Say Brides Should Take Husband's Name [USA Today]

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<![CDATA[ When Michael Buday married Diana Bijon,...]]> When Michael Buday married Diana Bijon, he decided he wanted to take her last name. "It was personal. I feel much closer to (Diana's) father than I do mine... I never imagined the state would make it so difficult," he says. It took a $350 fee, court appearances, a public announcement and mounds of paperwork to have his name changed on his driver's license. California and some 40 other U.S. states have no place on the marriage license application or drivers license for the groom to choose the bride's surname. Michael took his case to the ACLU and a lawsuit led to a new California state law: Married couples and registered domestic partners can now choose whichever last name they prefer on their marriage and driving licenses. Says the ACLU's Mark Rosenbaum: "This disposes of the rule in California that the male surname is the marital name to the same trash bin where dowries were once tossed out." Baby steps! Now if we could get rid of the term "maiden name"... [Reuters]

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<![CDATA[In something we never thought we would find...]]> In something we never thought we would find ourselves saying, it seems that the state of Georgia is against traditional marriage customs. Women across the state are having their driver's licenses canceled as a result of having their married names printed on them, as opposed to their maiden names, which appear on their social security cards. Different names on social security card and license = no license. As a native Georgian, this Jezebel never ceases to be amazed at what The Peach State deems "logic." [AJC]

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