I am a Wyoming native, and live here still. I do not know a single person who was not disgusted and horrified by what happened to Matthew Shepard. It is sad that I must feel so much pride for this fact, but considering how damn conservative this state is, it was something that worried me in the days surrounding Matt's beating and death, and I was so amazed at the outpouring of grief from everyone here.
Matt's funeral took place in my home town of Casper. The Westboro Baptist church flocked to the small episcopal church where the service was held, wielding their "God hates fags" signs. Anticipating this, many Casper residents also went to the churchyard. They stood side by side, and turned their backs on the Westboro demonstrators. It was something that moves me still to this day when I think about it.
In May of this year, nearly 11 years after Matt's death, our state's lone representative voted against the Matthew Shepard Act. While this only reaffirmed my poor opinion of Cynthia Lummis, it also draws into question what this will mean for Wyoming. And what it will say about us if she is reelected in 2010.
It's so great to see this post. I work at La Jolla Playhouse in San Diego, and along with 100 other theatres around the country, we are presenting a new piece by Moises Kaufman and the Techtonic Theatre Project, creators of the play "The Laramie Project." On Oct. 12, all the participating theatres will do a reading of their new piece, "The Laramie Project Epilogue." The performance group went back to Laramie 10 years later to see how the death of Matthew had affected the community; how it changed, or if it even had. NY Theatre Workshop will then live webcast the Q&A for all the theatres to show, and our audience members can participate too by tweeting, Facebooking, etc. It's a really cool project, and should raise a good amount of funds. If you want to see if it's playing in your town, check out the website: [laramieproject.org]
I really appreciate her comment that she wants people to remember Matthew how he really was: he wasn't an angel or perfect, and it's important to be able to hear that for many people. I can't imagine the awful pain that comes in having this happen to someone you love.
Fully, fully support this. Along with homosexuals, transgender people are targeted for violence at a higher rate, for much the same reasons. They are hate crimes, pure and simple.
I also like the working "actual or perceived sexual orientation". While it's nowhere near the same, I have several friends who have been assaulted/discriminated against to different degrees for their perceived homosexuality. Usually men who don't conform to rigid gender roles by having long hair, or dressing androgynously. Their sexuality is, of course, irrelevant...but the perception of it has made them targets.
@tiredfairy: I also appreciate the inclusion of perceived sexual orientation. I imagine it's not the same as being bashed for actually being homosexual but it all comes back to homophobia, the hate and fear of gender performance and sexuality that is non-heteronormative.
Shortly after this, a group of four grown men drive into the Castro district of SF looking for a gay man to beat up. They saw my friend, who weighed 130 pounds, walking down the street, and pulled over to beat him badly enough to land him a couple days in the hospital. Total evil cowards.
I remember when this happened because it was my twelfth birthday. I had never met a gay person and had only ever been in tiny Catholic schools, and I'm ashamed to say that my first thoughts were something like "Whatever, gay people don't matter."
And the more I heard about the details of the case, the more horrified I was, and I realized that stuff like this should never, ever happen to anyone. I just hope his story can continue to change people's minds like it did mine.
I remember listening to all of the details of this awful murder come out during the trial. I vividly remember the interview of the police officer who was the first responder. She rode with him in the ambulance and tried to comfort him, saying "Baby boy, I'm so sorry this happened to you."
I went to college in Foxx's district and once had the unfortunate pleasure of meeting her. She is evil. Seriously, evil.
I was a camp counselor and we took a group of HS seniors to visit her and ask questions. Firstly, she didn't even take us into her office, she met us in the hall. The first question one of our kids asked was how the recent London subway bombings (it was 2005) would impact US security. She gave a pat political answer about how we're safe but take threats seriously...then added that London really brought this on themselves because they "tolerate mosques". She seriously said that. I will never forger her exact words and how quickly I had to pick my jaw up off the floor to be professional.
She also told a group of students in a program to help underprivileged kids be the first in their family to go to college that the government shouldn't pay for higher ed because if you can't do it on your own, you really don't deserve it. Icing on the cake? She founded this group decades earlier.
@Jack_Burton: "The most despicable thing said on the floor of the House in decades... callous, insensitive, criminally misinformed...she is "our shame"....
Ah Keith, sometimes your wonderful rants can gallop off into hyperbole, but you hit the nail on the head this time.
I don't even understand what she was alleging, and Carrie Prejean already made my head want to explode, so sorry Ms. Foxx, I'm just not going to try that hard for you.
She is from my district. I hate her. I didn't vote for her this year, and she replaced Richard Burr. I wish we still had that dickhead because she is totally cuckoopants and a complete heterosexist.
@Alys Brangwin is one smartass pawn: By the way Burr is a senator. I hate these people. We have Kay Hagan, though, and she's great! She threw Elizabeth Dole out of the Senate! Go Kay!
@Alys Brangwin is one smartass pawn: Here, here. She's my rep, too. I didn't vote for her, but still feel like I owe the public an apology. I also get a little frightened when I think that the majority of my neighbors think like she does. Yikes!
@pupsnpies: I was so disappointed when one of my neighbors, who is a nice guy, had a sign for her out. I wanted to ring the doorbell and tell him why she's crazy. Maybe I should have!
@Alys Brangwin is one smartass pawn: I was once in a long distance relationship with a guy going to school in Laramie, and I went out to visit him a couple times. He said that basically the town had a hush-hush policy on the whole thing - he once tried to ask some friends about it and they just looked at him and said "We don't talk about that here."
Do you think the event and subsequent activism made any real progress toward queer tolerance in that area? I couldn't really tell when I was there, but I do remember seeing a couple of rainbow flags in some downtown storefronts, which was nice.
@Alys Brangwin is one smartass pawn: Used to be my district growing up. She is insane. Does Kay Hagan have a sister we can get to run against her? Ugh, Foxx makes me sick. I wanted Matthews Shepard's mom to slap her.
@Alys Brangwin is one smartass pawn: My Mom was born in Johnson City right over the border - I'm glad I'm in the relatively liberal Triangle. An GO KAY! I was never so happy to see the back of someone as Liddy Dole after her NASTY-ass campaign.
@Schmalerie: OMG I feel like such an idiot. I didn't even comprehend the part where it says she's the NC rep; for some reason I saw Matthew Shepard and assumed it was for Wyoming.
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Matt's funeral took place in my home town of Casper. The Westboro Baptist church flocked to the small episcopal church where the service was held, wielding their "God hates fags" signs. Anticipating this, many Casper residents also went to the churchyard. They stood side by side, and turned their backs on the Westboro demonstrators. It was something that moves me still to this day when I think about it.
In May of this year, nearly 11 years after Matt's death, our state's lone representative voted against the Matthew Shepard Act. While this only reaffirmed my poor opinion of Cynthia Lummis, it also draws into question what this will mean for Wyoming. And what it will say about us if she is reelected in 2010.
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I also like the working "actual or perceived sexual orientation". While it's nowhere near the same, I have several friends who have been assaulted/discriminated against to different degrees for their perceived homosexuality. Usually men who don't conform to rigid gender roles by having long hair, or dressing androgynously. Their sexuality is, of course, irrelevant...but the perception of it has made them targets.
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And the more I heard about the details of the case, the more horrified I was, and I realized that stuff like this should never, ever happen to anyone. I just hope his story can continue to change people's minds like it did mine.
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That really does need to change immediately.
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There are no words for this type of hatred.
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That detail made me cry.
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I was a camp counselor and we took a group of HS seniors to visit her and ask questions. Firstly, she didn't even take us into her office, she met us in the hall. The first question one of our kids asked was how the recent London subway bombings (it was 2005) would impact US security. She gave a pat political answer about how we're safe but take threats seriously...then added that London really brought this on themselves because they "tolerate mosques". She seriously said that. I will never forger her exact words and how quickly I had to pick my jaw up off the floor to be professional.
She also told a group of students in a program to help underprivileged kids be the first in their family to go to college that the government shouldn't pay for higher ed because if you can't do it on your own, you really don't deserve it. Icing on the cake? She founded this group decades earlier.
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Ah Keith, sometimes your wonderful rants can gallop off into hyperbole, but you hit the nail on the head this time.
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I love how she called it a "poor choice of words". I would love to know what a great choice of words would be
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*stretches out hands as far apart as they will go*
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Do you think the event and subsequent activism made any real progress toward queer tolerance in that area? I couldn't really tell when I was there, but I do remember seeing a couple of rainbow flags in some downtown storefronts, which was nice.
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