I hate the term "Cougar", and I hate manic/shrill tone of this show, so I skipped it. But I also hated this article and found it equally cliche and shrill - but that could be because my partner is 20 years my junior (and no, it's not a 1-night hookup, more like two years) and no, not all of us see motherhood and marriage as what we want or what is "meaningful" for women. So I concluded that I'm a hater, and then I went and got some beer.
My TV guide description said something like it "tells the truth about beauty, dating and youth." And I knew what I hated about it - because portraying 40ish women as sex-starved and whiny is not the truth. The 40 year old male neighbor banging one hot college girl after another is not the truth. They are lies and cliches, in this case dished up without wit or insight. I hope this show tanks hard.
I had no problem finding words. I expect sitcoms to be insulting, but this was especially terrible. It was badly written, overacted in parts and mostly it just made me sad. Busy Phillips had one great line, and I chuckled at another scene. Otherwise it made me aware of the heartbreak of elbow wrinkles. (Elbow wrinkles? Can you fucking leave one goddamned body part alone, world?)
All the older women on Scrubs were kinda shrewish and superficial, too, weren't they?
Maybe that’s because she’s such a twit: so narcissistic, so superficial, so stunted emotionally, so dependent upon deriving her value from her desirability — her currency — in men’s eyes. Maybe it’s because, despite her ostensible sexual power (derived, you’ll recall, uniquely from a young man’s acceptance of her), she’s really so very unthreatening. So very pitiful.
YES! This is why it reeks of bile to me. It's not empowering. It's another way to simultaneously find women pitiful and perpetuate that they are the sum of their fleshy parts.
Wow, if a man said that...way to stick up for the ladies, Tina. The fact is, Hillary is Secretary of State, and Tina has been reduced to calling her fat on "Morning Joe" while odd clarinet music plays in the background. Your life has really gotten sad, Tina, but you earned it.
How is Hillary Clinton supposed to land the cover of Self or Shape if she doesn't tone up her arms? Brown is obviously just looking out for Clinton's best interests...
I was wondering why Tina Brown, whose successes are largely far, far behind her was being invited to opine on this matter at all. Then I hear that she is currently writing a book on the Clintons. I know can hardly wait to see what this slightly more upmarket version of Kitty Kelley has to say about them. This book will surely be as sober & incisive as her biography of Princess Diana.
I watched these this morning, and was bummed they didn't read my STFU, JOE (or similarly stated) email. I think the tone TB is taking is increasingly unnecessary - I do not think she was basically calling HRC fat but was referring to the idea of rejuvenating/getting your mojo back - and Joe really IS a fan of hers as SOS, even if he is a lunkhead. I gave serious props to Mika for calling shenanigans on this this morning and would love for us to be talking about echoing support vs. wtf is wrong with these people? I know, I know, we have to call BS when we see it, and Mika consistently raises the point of "if she were a man, this would NOT be an issue," let us underline that point!
@jezebelacious: Poor Mika has to constantly call crap on so much, only to be tut-tutted and laughed at by the menfolk. One day, I hope, she will have had enough of being treated like a secretary on Mad Men and start slinging boiling hot cups of Starbucks coffee into Scarborough's eyes.
@lionboy: @morninggloria: Punching Glenn Beck in his doughy (body snark on an a-hole) man-parts would return ANY thinking person's mojo. Mika's gonna effing burst one of these days btw Joe and Pat, I don't blame her...
@lionboy: Well, the boys might not tut-tut her if she made an articulate counter-argument. Her huffing and puffing sounded like the beginning of an anxiety attack. Are any intelligent, pulled-together women allowed on this shitfest of a show?
Part of HRC's effectiveness lies in her ability to focus on the task at hand. The opinions of window dressing like Brown, Dowd, et al. are never part of the calculus, and wishing won't make it so.
In the last six months I've just started to appreciate how smart and tough Hillary Clinto really is. She is so far above Tina Brown and Ann Coulter and their ilk, they can't even see her ankles from where they are.
Just keep on truckin', Hillary. You are awesome.
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Maybe that’s because she’s such a twit: so narcissistic, so superficial, so stunted emotionally, so dependent upon deriving her value from her desirability — her currency — in men’s eyes. Maybe it’s because, despite her ostensible sexual power (derived, you’ll recall, uniquely from a young man’s acceptance of her), she’s really so very unthreatening. So very pitiful.
YES! This is why it reeks of bile to me. It's not empowering. It's another way to simultaneously find women pitiful and perpetuate that they are the sum of their fleshy parts.
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Just keep on truckin', Hillary. You are awesome.
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