Mostly for better but occasionally for worse, I think most guys see being able to pleasure a woman as something that proves their sexual prowess. (It is only for worse when you meet those unfortunate guys who insist that they won't stop until they make you orgasm multiple times, even if you are not interested).
I hate to inform you lucky few but there are alot of guys that don't offer and if you do manage to convince them to you get that 10 sec lick like a lollipop thing. I always thought I hated receiving until I met a guy that offered before I did and he had me gasping for air. I wish there were more guys like that because personally I love going down on an appreciative guy.
i'm just waiting for my boyfriend to tell me "tonight I'm gonna eat your pussy like you already got your master's degree, and not just one semester shy"
Last year, I hooked up with a guy who practically dove into my undies to give me head, and he was exceptionally good at it too. However, I think he had developed this talent to make up for the fact that despite his 6'7" frame, size 13 shoes, and big, dextrous hands, he was lacking in other departments. If you know what I mean.
My mother always taught me you only get what you give. And I want to gets it, so I gives it. And if you don't give it, you ain't gonnna get it. And I have NEVER met a guy who didn't want to give it.
I dunno. I think it's got something to do with the sense of power that comes with having money. Or maybe sense of entitlement? Anyway, I don't think money=power, at least not for everyone, so it seems to me that the women getting the most head wouldn't necessarily be the wealthiest. I'm collecting unemployment, for craps' sake. I get it on the regular without asking. Then again, mr. terrible is one of those rare gems. He's highly skilled AND always willing. Oh yeeeeeeaaahh.
95%?!?! You've got to be shitting me. I must know a LOT of outliers. Nowadays, men know they need to step up to the plate and give a little if they wanna get a little. I'd even go so far as to say that over 10% of men actually ENJOY doing it. I get it every single damn day (if I want it) because my fiance LOVES to do it. He'd do it if I was asleep and not even aware just because he loves it so much. He also earns twice what I do. However, I will go ahead and add my own stereotype. Black guys seem to not enjoy it as much as white guys. But, they could be faking their distaste (I know, I know) in order to appear more "manly".
I"m an educated high earner who has always asked men NOT to give me oral sex - its my least favorite things to do and I hate that, since I tended to date younger, there were so many eager boys wanting to please.
Of course, I don't need things like oral sex because I pretty much orgasm at the drop of a hat.
I only give up that part of my anatomy to my husbands mouth when I OWE him something.
@FourInchHeels: and I know you are calling me a bitch, affectionately :)
also being ultra orgasmic can be as rough as not being orgasmic at all - some things are simply un-doable if I'm too worked up and a few times the pain was like what I imagine getting jumped with jumper cables would feel like
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Of course, I don't need things like oral sex because I pretty much orgasm at the drop of a hat.
I only give up that part of my anatomy to my husbands mouth when I OWE him something.
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also being ultra orgasmic can be as rough as not being orgasmic at all - some things are simply un-doable if I'm too worked up and a few times the pain was like what I imagine getting jumped with jumper cables would feel like
(followed by "don't touch me! don't touch me!)
so, great in theory not always in practice