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The Dearth Of Women In Politics Is Not Just Due To Sexism
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03/06/09
I have to say, never have I been so glad to have a gender-neutral name as I do know. I used to be proud to be a woman. Now, not so much.
03/06/09
You must run with an extraordinarily shallow crowd, I'm afraid. I did vote for her in the primaries, but many people I know didn't, none of them for anything like that ridiculous a reason.
03/05/09
What isn't useful is a feminist website writing a potentially-helpful post using a tone seriously dismissive of sexism, not only as a legitimate area of concern for the specific campaigns of female candidates, but also as the root cause of a lot of the more specific reasons listed. For example, the power of incumbency as a reason women aren't elected more often. Well, yes, incumbency leads to new politicians having a tough time getting into office. But, still, there are fewer female candidates than male, which has nothing to do with who wins the campaign. Then, the reason that there are so few female incumbents is the naturalizing power that already-male groups of politicians already have, but also (importantly) the fact that there are so few women politicians already. So, it's a self-perpetuating cycle. Are we not allowed to talk about this anymore?
I for one refuse to stop talking about legitimate concerns I have about sexism in politics just because the PUMAs are nuts and have co-opted the vaguest interpretation of my social identity, and everyone in the media just accepting that they, of all people, are representative of women or feminists everywhere. They are the tiny crazy minority, and we should not feel pressured to drop this issue just because they're giving us a bad rep.
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Except that I don't think that PUMAs are even worthy of discussion (although they are brought up here in EVERY post about HRC) because post-election polling shows that there was, in fact, no mass exodus of middle aged women voting for McCain in the general after voting for HRC in the primary. So, you know, bringing them up all the time to point to how stoopid and self-defeating and vagina-above-all-else 2nd wavers is ... is a transparent attempt to avoid talking about reasonable feminists' issues with sexism in the election.
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At 44, I'm the youngest in a family of "older women." My 72 yr old mother, 68 yr old aunt, 48 yr old sister, and I all voted for Obama over Clinton, because we preferred his politics and policy ideas, and felt he had a better chance of saving our country. All of us volunteered with the campaign. Among my wide circle of older women friends, I know exactly one who voted for Clinton in the primaries, and took the rest of us to task for not voting "for a woman." The minute Obama was the candidate, she threw her vote behind him. We are all loud and proud feminists, and (possibly save that one friend) were deeply irritated by those PUMA types.
I think that those particular older women made a splash because they provided a good story, not necessarily an accurate reflection of the women of their generation(s). I think it's unfortunate that if someone were to look at my age and self-declared feminism, they might leap to an absolutely inaccurate assumption about my vote, or feelings about Clinton. I'm glad that she's Secretary of State -- I'm way glader that she's not President.
Also, I don't see that this in anyway contradicts my understanding that yes, sexism plays a role in politics. Of course it does! Megan did an excellent job here of laying out a great number of factors, some of which I'd never considered, that also play a role in whether or not women are elected. The world is complex, politics is complex, and there is no one explanation for any human condition. The sooner we learn to hold several concurrent truths in our minds at the same time, the better off we'll all be.
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It's been a long day, and I am very cranky, so please no one take gigantic offense to this, but: this is where feminism--or should I say many people who identify as feminist--frustrate me. There seem to be a lot of people demanding that the world acknowledge SEXISM. The Big Ism! See it, feel it, know it's there! Okay, great. But now what do you do? Giving a problem a name and identifying it as a problem is a good first step, but there is no activism without an act. We can't tear down the walls that sexism has created simply by yelling about "sexism", because there is no simple way to get rid of it. Instead we have to look at things like those that Megan describes and start small, working our way up.
I don't know if that all made sense, but I hope it did.
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Thank you for your clarity and tact.
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It's a very uncomfortable discussion to have. But we (society) still have to have it if we want to make any progress.
Like, if someone was denied a job based on race, would it be okay to say, "get a better education, that way they won't be able to turn you down without explaining themselves"? Of course not. But this argument seems to say that women have to dot every i, cross every t, outperform men, and then if that doesn't work society will entertain a conversation about what the problem could possibly be. I don't accept those terms.
03/05/09
Or so I am told.
I guess I should focus more on theory.
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Being involved in politics means more than simply taking sides in "us versus them." It means being critical. I think Megan is setting an excellent example of how to become involved in the process. She doesn't gloss over the fact that politics is a complex machine, that there is incredible tertiary diversity among individuals who espouse a single given primary interest.
I don't ask that anyone "be nice to me," just not judge me by my sex, but rather my acts.
03/05/09
Look! A man who does the minimum required of him to be a person! He considers women human (but not as important as him, judging by his need to make unrelated comments that are all about him!)! He donates money to egalitarian causes! Let's go get him a cookie!
You don't get points for being decent. You have to actually go above and beyond. And this post that you just posted? Speaks volumes about the way you see yourself in relation to the patriarchy. Do you pat yourself on the back every night before you go to bed? Are you a Nice Guy? Are you, like, real mad that women keep getting upset about sexism? Do you feel judged by your penis? Boo fucking hoo.
03/06/09
Pointing out sexism is good. Not practicing it, even better.
03/05/09
I would have been more irritated to read that a majority of women didn't feel like there were different requirements of women candidates, as clearly there are. 21% do not believe a woman can be as good a leader as a man, and that is based on only one criteria: being a woman. As someone else said on here, that number is not insignificant.
Thus, maybe sexism isn't the only reason why there are not more females in office, but it surely seems a factor on some level.
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But when you try to do the same with HRC's run, people immediately jump to "I'm not voting for someone just because she has a vagina, that would be WRONG!!!!!", or, she lost a race. Well, losing is part of politics. And not every woman loses because of sexism.
So, riddle me this: Why don't people want to have this discussion honestly? It's not like Obama will have to forfeit the presidency if you acknowledge that sexism negatively impacted her candidacy.
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If we look at the Lifetime poll out of the listed reasons (experience, not tough enough, family concerns) that are listed in the quote the only thing that I can see impacting her is "not tough enough," but for the opposite reason. I heard her described as an immovable ball-breaker on more than one occasion. Yes, that's sexism, but I don't think it lost her the election. If anything I think that people saw her as not being all that far removed from the old patriarchal guard. In an election where people were searching for change, they saw Obama as a bigger step away from the past.
03/05/09
And if you try to point out the sexism she encountered, people shift focus to Obama, or to Palin, or even to Bill. These are red herrings. Because NO ONE wants to talk about it!
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I just think it's amazing that there are such blinders on about societal sexism, especially here. The only response is, "well, that's not why I didn't vote for her!" as though that negates what she faced. It's amazingly similar to the "well, I know I'm not racist" posts you get on any race discussion. Um, not helpful.
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In fact, most men I encounter seem to think that women have it better, and that they are actually the ones affected by sexism the most, for various reasons including that women "can get away with anything."
03/05/09
Seriously. he said this to me. After I called him out on making a rape joke.
People. I went to prom with this person my junior year of high school.
I wanted to reach through facebook and shove reality down his throat.
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I think that sexism played a large role in it, more than people can really identify consciously. It's a valid point to bring up. But I also really like Megan's analysis here. Brilliant as always, madam :)
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I'm in the minority, though.
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There are a number of more complex structural issues that keep women minorities, and any non WASP males from running for office.
So a one-word catch-all isn't going to catch those nuances, as Megan demonstrates.
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I think Obama had a better chance on the national stage because of that.