I'm not one to say all childless people are sad, but I read an interview where Patrick and his wife hinted that they wouldn't have minded kids, but it never happened for them, or maybe she had a miscarriage? I think there was some quote about how they just waited too long to try. If they weren't able to have kids and wanted them, I feel bad for them, but it sounds like they had a great relationship. 34 years, man oh man.
Demi Moore's Twitter, quoting Ghost, made me want to cry.
@tinydundie42: I'm feeling the same way about Dirty Dancing, and realizing that it was a pretty revolutionary movie, and a reason I'm so disappointed in a lot of movies today. A coming-of-age story about a girl? Written by a woman? The class issues? A shot of Patrick Swayze's naked ass as he gets out of bed?
@minnesotameltdown: Yes, on all of those counts. (Don't forget, about a Jewish family, and realistic treatment of pre-Roe abortion as well.) I think Dirty Dancing is often unfairly maligned as mindless girl-fluff for those reasons and more.
@BlondeGoddess: My God, I was in love with him as Orry Main. I had his name scribbled all over my school stuff, and as he seemed a relatively old guy to my pre-teen friends, no-one else shared my love. Of course, a couple of years later, when Dirty Dancing came out and all the other girls discovered his hotness, I stuck my nose up and pretended I was sooo over him.
@heykoukla: And how awesome was the name "Orry" anyway? I always subconsciously do the "ride me, big Sheldon" test on any name I encounter, and yeah. That one...stands up? To the test?
That sounds wrong.
My favorite thing about Patrick Swayze is that he was a cult icon who had a great sense of humor about himself. He knew he was hot in a cheeseball Chippendale kind of way, and was unafraid to exploit it for laughs. He was awesome and I'll miss him.
@Yahtzii: I agree with this comment completely. He clearly had a sense of humor, and in his recent interview with Walters I thought he revealed a rare attitude of realism and gratitude. Here was a classically trained dancer, who danced on screen and kicked ass in equal measure.
And that Chippendale's sketch with Farley is pure comedy gold.
@Yahtzii: By all accounts he was a great guy with a terrific sense of humor. It also seemed like he and his wife were devoted to each other. There was a lot to admire about him.
@Yahtzii: I agree. He was unusually smart and self-aware for the kind of work he did, I thought. It makes it that much harder to lose him. He was definitely one of the good guys.
@CherriSpryte: I'm snagging it from my mom when I see her this weekend. So many good lines.
"When you are a man who dresses as a woman you are a transvestite. When you are a man who is really a woman, you are a transexual. But when you are a gay man with too much style for one gender, you are a DRAG. QUEEN."
Seriously, ask my father, stepmom, mother, cousins, you name it, I am on a personal mission for everyone to see this movie. Good for the soul. Granted, there are some easy stereotypes that bother me, but otherwise, one of the more life affirming things I can think of off the top of my head.
@Lady Skittlehattington: you know, I just re-watched it and it kind of sends a fucked-up message: now i'm all conflicted. I need to stick to FB's Day Off, I think...
I think I'll be spending my evening in detention with the brain, the athlete, the princess, the basket case, and the criminal.
(PS: could someone go check on Tiffany? First Michael Jackson, now John Hughes... my 80s icons are in a perilous position.)
While I'll always remember John Hughes for bringing me Sixteen Candles at a time in my life when I most needed it, (with Breakfast Club and Pretty in Pink soon to follow along my teenage arc, as if written specifically for me) I will forever be most grateful for Uncle Buck.
(Sorry this was so rambling when, basically, I just wanted to say: Thanks, Mr. Hughes.)
Mr. JB's going to be late home from work, so I've pulled out Some Kind of Wonderful in lieu of listening to Caillou for the 500th or so time. Question: am I the last person on earth not to be sure that Amanda and Hardy were having sex during the opening credits? I was wondering if they'd cover it in the commentary, but they don't. Later in the movie, he alludes to her being "used." Charming.
Such a contrast after Valley Girl and Fast Times At Ridgemont High. Everyone got laid in those movies.
"Screws fall out all the time, it's an imperfect world."
"The Donger is here for 5 minutes and he has somebody. I've lived here my whole life and I'm like a disease."
"I can't believe I gave my panties to a geek."
"You do everything everyone ever tells you to do. That is a problem."
"He's not gonna ride his bike past your house anymore". So sad. Hughes characters were so memorable and he really understood teen angst like no other director.
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Demi Moore's Twitter, quoting Ghost, made me want to cry.
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RIP -- and bon courage to his amazing wife.
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That sounds wrong.
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Orry def works.
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My favorite thing about Patrick Swayze is that he was a cult icon who had a great sense of humor about himself. He knew he was hot in a cheeseball Chippendale kind of way, and was unafraid to exploit it for laughs. He was awesome and I'll miss him.
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And that Chippendale's sketch with Farley is pure comedy gold.
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"I thought you'd be bigger...Yeah, I get that a lot"
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R.I.P. Patrick Swayze
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You have definitely forgotten his greatest role: I'm dead serious.
"Miss Vita Boheme, I love you."
"Oh honey, I've waited my whole life to hear those words with that name."
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Also, sometimes it just takes a fairy.
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"When you are a man who dresses as a woman you are a transvestite. When you are a man who is really a woman, you are a transexual. But when you are a gay man with too much style for one gender, you are a DRAG. QUEEN."
09/15/09
Seriously, ask my father, stepmom, mother, cousins, you name it, I am on a personal mission for everyone to see this movie. Good for the soul. Granted, there are some easy stereotypes that bother me, but otherwise, one of the more life affirming things I can think of off the top of my head.
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Don't be crazy, Pete. Don't be crazy. Tell the voices you just killed somebody.
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I'm watching Sixteen Candles.
Thanks for everything, John.
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(PS: could someone go check on Tiffany? First Michael Jackson, now John Hughes... my 80s icons are in a perilous position.)
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(Sorry this was so rambling when, basically, I just wanted to say: Thanks, Mr. Hughes.)
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Such a contrast after Valley Girl and Fast Times At Ridgemont High. Everyone got laid in those movies.
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"The Donger is here for 5 minutes and he has somebody. I've lived here my whole life and I'm like a disease."
"I can't believe I gave my panties to a geek."
"You do everything everyone ever tells you to do. That is a problem."
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