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    Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?

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    Image of RobertaFisk RobertaFisk
    06/17/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    Well, of course a website with a column called "Slutty Feminists" is going to dislike this site.
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    Image of HereComesMyBaby HereComesMyBaby
    06/17/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    In your '20s, it's not even really possible to not have sex with someone you just started dating. I mean, what else are you supposed to do with them?
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    Image of That_little_attention_whore That_little_attention_whore
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    oxytocin...didn't Rush Limbaugh have to go to rehab for that?
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    Image of Jack_Burton Jack_Burton
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    Oxytocin? Forget roofies, imagine the bishes one could recruit...


    Oh, wait. Fairytale pseudoscience fail.

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    Image of Little Time Bomb Little Time Bomb
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    "Guys will do anything for homemade baked good?" what? I know everyone loves brownies and all but I'm pretty sure in this day and age almost anyone can make a package brownie mix. Can you read? Do you have thumbs? If a guy can be convinced to date you with pastry I'm guessing you may not have the rock solid foundation Laura Sessions Stepp implies you are building.
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    Image of Hana Maru Hana Maru
    06/16/09

    @Little Time Bomb: Yeah, but that's not the same as homemade.
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    Image of Le Kangourou de Kataroo Le Kangourou de Kataroo
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    My boyfriend and I weren't officially boyfriend and girlfriend for the first 4 months of our relationship, though we were "exclusive" after the first month. We started having sex the 3rd week.


    WE LOVE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER AND STILL HAVE "RELATIONS." HE HAS HIT A "HOMERUN" AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO. DESPITE THE FACT HE WAS NOT MY BOYFRIEND FOR THE FIRST THREE MONTHS WE WERE SLEEPING TOGETHER, I REGRET NOTHING. NOTHING. WHAT DO YOU DO FOR EMPHASIS WHEN YOU ARE TYPING IN CAPS?

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    Image of hydrogen_jukebox hydrogen_jukebox
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    I'm going to start a Church. It's only tenet will be this:


    Every Person in the World is Completely Different. Etcetera.


    You will do well always and everywhere remembering this. Any converts?

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    Image of HuckleberryFriend HuckleberryFriend
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    I wonder what a companion site for men would look like?


    Want sex? Have sex. Hide your sperm so she doesn't steal it and impregnate herself. The end.

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    Image of DangerMouse DangerMouse
    06/16/09

    @HuckleberryFriend: Don't forget to rinse the condom afterwards!
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    Image of lolacat lolacat
    06/16/09

    @HuckleberryFriend: Because all she really wants is your money and to keep you on the hook for child support so she can live like a queen without ever having to work for the rest of her life.
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    Image of shorty63136 shorty63136
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    The last person I'd ever want to see writing a blog like that? I totally imagined Pat Robertson. *shudder*
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    Image of kithkin kithkin
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    Whoo boy, Laura Sessions Stepp may advocate for a prudish lifestyle but boy oh boy has the patriarchy ever gone to town on her!
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    Image of lolacat lolacat
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    STOP RIGHT NOW! I'VE GOTTA KNOW RIGHT NOW- DO YOU ,LOVE ME, WILL YOU LOVE FOREVER, DO YOU NEED ME, WILL YOU NEVER LEAVE? WILL YOU MAKE ME SO HAPPY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE, WILL YOU TAKE ME AWAY AND MAKE ME YOUR WIFE?


    (I hate people who write in all caps)

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    Image of violet333 violet333
    06/16/09

    @lolacat: Let me sleep on it, Baby, Baby. I'll give you an answer in the morning.
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    Image of lolacat lolacat
    06/16/09

    @violet333: Seriously, I thought most people abandoned the homerun metaphor after they had either 1) had sex or 2) gotten tired of that damn song.
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    Image of DangerMouse DangerMouse
    06/16/09

    @lolacat: Who does she think she is, Kanye?
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    Image of lolacat lolacat
    06/16/09

    @lolacat: I thought the song appropriate because it seems to be her personal anthem for pre-marital sex- get a ring before you give it up. Or, at least get a relationship.


    Yes- you can get tired of the song. Go to a Midwestern college and live next to a couple of douche's who have just discovered Meatloaf. Then, realize they really think that the fictional woman in the song is a reality. A hold-up just before penetration to get a commitment.


    When will people realize that uncomplicated sex in the back of a car, the basement, or in someone's bedroom at a party is, for many of my acquaintance, a rite of passage for both genders? Perhaps when we allow girls the right to experiment sexually they'll break free from a lot of the stupid double standards that lead to so much pain.


    Sorry, soapbox. Standing on it.

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    Image of WantToTouchtheWahine WantToTouchtheWahine
    06/16/09

    @lolacat: Now, sex in the back of the car isn't uncomplicated. There are all sorts of sharp objects and confined spaces and such.


    Shame on you for spreading incorrect information!!!

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    Image of WantToTouchtheWahine WantToTouchtheWahine
    06/16/09

    @WantToTouchtheWahine: Or, maybe, I just need to buy a Range Rover.
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    Image of andBegorrah andBegorrah
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    Would the url not work with the properly-punctuated version of the name:

    "Sex?... Really? :/.com"
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    Image of sequined sequined
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    In Sessions Stepp's view, women trade sex begrudgingly in return for access to the socially-protected role of "girlfriend" and the supposed privileges that come with it.


    I feel like this attitude is also what makes people say "he won't buy the cow if he gets the milk for free!"


    I fucking hate that expression and underlying attitude more than ANYTHING!

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    Image of morninggloria morninggloria
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    Laura Sessions Stepp, what goes on in and around my panties is not your concern.
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    Image of kithkin kithkin
    06/16/09

    @morninggloria: "She wants me! She wants my cock! She wants my cock in or around her mouth!"


    Thanks for getting Superbad stuck in my head all night, lady.

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    Image of casi nadie (loves MCC forever) casi nadie (loves MCC forever)
    06/16/09

    In reply to Is It Too Soon To Call SexReally The Worst Sex Website Ever?
    OH MY GOD I JUST READ THE TAGS. I have so much love for the tags. I could just read the tags and be happy. THIS IS WHY JEZEBEL IS AWESOME.
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    Image of Saltine Saltine
    06/16/09

    @o português é muito sexy de Curly Crown: I know they are so full of amazingness!
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