<![CDATA[Jezebel: home economics]]> http://tags.gawker.com/assets/base/img/thumbs140x140/jezebel.com.png <![CDATA[Jezebel: home economics]]> http://jezebel.com/tag/homeeconomics http://jezebel.com/tag/homeeconomics <![CDATA[Did You Take Home Ec? Did You Learn Anything?]]> A few days ago, the Times of London had a story about old-fashioned home economics. There's a place in the UK called the Women's Institute, which educates ladies in skills such as cooking, needlework and knitting. These days, with many people strapped for cash, the interest in home economics comes with the emphasis on the economics. Sue Bridger, a WI course instructor who has taught microwave cooking since the '80s, says: "As well as being useful, domestic science can help to save money. But now we have two generations of children who have not been taught even the basics. We are losing vital life skills." Did you take Home Ec? Do you wish you had?

I never took Home Ec. I think I had to sew in gradeschool, and my mom taught me some stuff. I opted for shop in high school. But I'll never forget the day my sister called from college, curious about how to clean her hardwood floors. My mom's method involved hiring someone. I asked the other editors if they took Home Ec. Anna says: "I did and I don’t remember anything." Jessica claims, "We learned how to bake French bread pizza and use a sewing machine. I had the boxers I made (they were a frog print fabric!) for years afterwards." Intern Margaret explains, "The idea was that we would learn to use a sewing machine, but all the machines were broken and they couldn't afford to fix them, so I hand sewed a stuffed bunny and learned the invaluable skill of pulling stuffed animal fur out of a seam. Shop class was way more awesome. I learned to use a jigsaw." Megan says: "I sewed an ugly sweatshirt that I wore to gym class for years. but I also learned how to sew buttons and stuff like that."

I've written about living alone, about being the CEO, CFO and janitor of your life; of learning to enjoy and thrive on autonomy. And shouldn't that be what Home Ec is all about? Budgeting, balancing a checkbook, making the best of leftovers, getting red wine out of the rug, realizing that you don't need as many lattes and heels as you think you do? "Thrift is a dying art," the Women's Institute believes. But would you be open to learning such a skill? In the past, Home Ec came with the stigma that a woman was expected to learn to be a housewife. But what if there were a revamped course in which women learned to run their lives in a financially responsible way?

Old-Fashioned Home Economics [Times of London]

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<![CDATA[The Management Perils Of Having Two Or More Nannies]]> Yesterday's Page Six Magazine attacked the subject of mommies who find themselves needing multiple nannies. (We thought it would be challenging for them to match the pathos and capacity for conveying human suffering reached by last week's story about Wall Street traders who go to massage parlors, but they did.) We meet Yael Halaas, a 38-year-old plastic surgeon and mother of three, who calls having two nannies "the best damn thing in the world to make life function." We learn that some women find themselves needing a second nanny for basic "one is illegal and can't come to Bermuda"-type purposes, others when they want their kids to be exposed to a blend of different personality traits and/or world cuisines ("I wake up to her cooking buckwheat crepes from scratch!" cooes one) others when the first one simply proves too competent at "management" functions, such as finding a second nanny.

Of course, that can also be a double-aged sword: "Those with two full-time nannies say that, since each is aware of what the other is doing, there are times when each one feels unfairly burdened with too much work and thinks the other is slacking. "You have to explain, 'You're here looking after the baby and the house, but she bought groceries and went to the post office to send a certified letter for me, and she got the kids to the tailor and playdate,' says Yael. "You wish they could figure it out on their own, but you have to intervene." Perhaps someone should get a team of McKinsey consultants in to optimize these work flows?

In other cases, too many nannies may mean that children don't learn to do things for themselves. "Sometimes nannies do things the child should be doing, like picking up toys," says Stacy Rosenthal, a West Village resident who works in product development.
Sounds like a little bit of a power vacuum in child rearing middle management there!

Or um alternately like the recession could not arrive soon enough.

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