So many questions Blair. Was Jesus alone or was Madonna there too? What are they doing at your little hoodunk church? And what preytell is "unchurched"? #lindsaylohantwitter
@phantom lady: Translation: "I love when people bring their heathen friends to church where we can hard-sell them into shambling shame-facedly down to the front of the church where strangers will then hug and pray with them for their many, many, MANY sins. If no one caves at first, the pastor just keeps talking and the music just keeps playing until someone cracks!" #lindsaylohantwitter
@phantom lady: I always thought "churched" was something they did in the middle ages after women had a baby to cleanse them of the sin of birth... or something... #lindsaylohantwitter
@JoStockton: Exactly. Husbands couldn't sleep with their wives until they had been properly "churched" after childbirth or major illness. #lindsaylohantwitter
Oh, Lindsay, just when I thought we could no longer be friends, you had to bring the Duchovny love. I guess I just can't quit you yet. #lindsaylohantwitter
Blair, I think you're done repenting for stealing that poem from Emily Dickinson and turning it in as your own and for being a mega-bitch to Jo for all of those years. #lindsaylohantwitter
@MalinaMango: Mine too. Let's have a party for our 15-year-old selves. I'll bring Ghost World and sneak some wine coolers from my mom. #lindsaylohantwitter
I hope that after all is said and done, she is does not fade into obscurity.
Pardon my skepticism and call me jaded but given the lack of Hollywood roles for seasoned African-American actresses, I sadly do not envision Gabby's acting career taking off after this role. I can only hope that there are people around her managing her expectations (and earnings from the movie).
Moreover, the public is notoriously fickle when it comes to stars in popular indie flicks. Keisha Castle Hughes, anyone? #gaboureysidibe
@AtelierCeleste: Keisha Castle-Hughes didn't move to Hollywood after Whale Rider. (Also she was only 11.) But she is in the upcoming film The Vinter's Luck, based on a book I really loved.
@Dodai: Good point. Are you therefore suggesting that you expect that Gabby will have a long and prosperous career? Because as much as I'm rooting for her, I seriously do not see that happening. #gaboureysidibe
@sportz.star: The sad thing is that Hoda used to be Gabby's awesomeness-twin. I remember watching her as a kid on New Orleans' WWL-TV channel 4, and she was so smart and funny (when not super-seriously investigating crime and corruption), and really comfortable in her own skin despite being the only woman of color on a newsdesk at any of the three major channels. I looked up to her, and now it brings me down to see the craziness that is the 'Hoda-n-Kathy Lee Nutjob Extravangaza {sponsored by Haterade!}' #gaboureysidibe
This actress is my new favorite person on earth. First because she's my skin-twin (and how often do you see that on television?), secondly because her name is so beautiful it could be Burkinabe or Senegalese or Dagomba or something, and thirdly because she defies every single bullshit stereotype of temperament that the world tries to put on people like her.
Daniels said when they auditioned the girls they found a bunch who "were" Precious--girls who had survived horrendous things and were still standing---and though those actresses were a dead ringer for the character he felt like casting them would be making a documentary. It would be too close to their lives and their lived truth and would end up being exploitative because it would be microscoping their personal stuff and trying to make it a stand-in for fiction. He also felt like they would be overpowered by the material because they would have to relive stuff all the time.
Though this might come across to someone else as judgmental or elitist (i acknowledge that it is to a degree) I found a kernel of truth to his statement. Because in most movies of this kind from what i've seen they do find someone just like the lead character, and make it a real rags to riches story. The young star is thrust into a life they do not have the emotional resources to cope with. And then the young star in interviews unwittingly universalizes the experience of what a (insert movie trope here) looks like or sounds like because in real life they are pretty much the character. It does such a disservice to all the other people living in similar bodies or similar existences because then it suggests that all overweight dark-skinned women are downtrodden and sad. Which of course then implicitly suggests that being discovered by Hollywood is the only thing that gives them some measure of redemption in their lives. The next logical conclusion then is that since most dark-skinned, overweight women aren't in Hollywood they must thus be all near-suicidal. Cue, well-intentioned folks treating every fat, dark-skinned girl they see like she must a "Precious." Gabby turns this shit completely on its head. And it couldn't have come a moment too soon. #gaboureysidibe
Who cares? Roles in Hollywood aren't the end all and be all of a person's life. She has a world of opportunities out there that don't end with the lack of roles for her in Hollywood.
Edited by Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny. at 11/09/09 1:11 PM
Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny. was starred
Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny. was unstarred
@rumpelshowsskin: He was amazing when he said he didn't want to exploit girls who WERE Precious - he loved her because she was a real actress who could BE Precious. I got ya... #gaboureysidibe
@Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny.: That's exactly the point that i'm making though. For her, if this acting thing doesn't work out she can go become a psychotherapist like she was planning to. She is choosing to do more acting; she's not forced to. For the other girls Daniels might have chosen for the part, who were still in the welfare system or working at McDonald's or its equivalent, they would have few options except acting. This role would be the beginning of the rest of their lives.
Like Gabby said in an interview "People act like I did this movie and then I became awesome. I was awesome all my life. Then I did this movie"
She has a world of opportunities out there. The other girls might not have had that. For them that would have created a psychological dependency on the film and the fame it brings that ultimately rendered them emotionally fraught. Gabby doesn't have to deal with that. #gaboureysidibe
@rumpelshowsskin: That's like what happened with Slumdog Millionaire. I thought it was totally inappropriate to cast those kids from the actual slums of Mumbai. Didn't work out too well for Danny Boyle... #gaboureysidibe
@HereComesMyBaby: Exactly. Or like with the little girl from Rabbit Proof Fence. Or the kids from The Kite Runner.
FWIW I don't know if casting like that is always inappropriate. I just think it encompasses a ton of dynamics that the filmmakers are usually not thinking through because they are seeing everything clouded by the lens of their own privilege. Daniels thought it through and I respect him for it. #gaboureysidibe
@Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny.: Hahaha. Not a problem. You forced me to clarify, which with my hasty typing, comma abuse and penchant for run-on sentences is always a good thing =)
FWIW though, I think it's very nice of you to let me know it was a mistake. You didn't have to and could just have let it stand and no one would have been the wiser =) #gaboureysidibe
Kathy Lee and Hoda need to shut the fuck up. I don't want to listen to you two mindless chatter machines vomit words all over my new imaginary best friend, Gabby Sidibe. Let her talk more, dammit! More Gabby! #gaboureysidibe
@morninggloria: I had the same thought. I can just imagine her cringing inside as Kathy Lee and Hoda simultaneously congratulate themselves for their ability to pronounce their interview subject's name.
At least Gaby was kind enough to be gentle with them after she realized that they share a single manic yet slow-functioning brain. #gaboureysidibe
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Dear lord, I think I'm going to have to actually join twitter to get my fix. #lindsaylohantwitter
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Also, some stuff at Happy Ending tonight and some upcoming shows at Santos Party House. [twitter.com]
You're welcome. #lindsaylohantwitter
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Just another reason that she's my new favorite person. #gaboureysidibe
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Pardon my skepticism and call me jaded but given the lack of Hollywood roles for seasoned African-American actresses, I sadly do not envision Gabby's acting career taking off after this role. I can only hope that there are people around her managing her expectations (and earnings from the movie).
Moreover, the public is notoriously fickle when it comes to stars in popular indie flicks. Keisha Castle Hughes, anyone? #gaboureysidibe
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Daniels said when they auditioned the girls they found a bunch who "were" Precious--girls who had survived horrendous things and were still standing---and though those actresses were a dead ringer for the character he felt like casting them would be making a documentary. It would be too close to their lives and their lived truth and would end up being exploitative because it would be microscoping their personal stuff and trying to make it a stand-in for fiction. He also felt like they would be overpowered by the material because they would have to relive stuff all the time.
Though this might come across to someone else as judgmental or elitist (i acknowledge that it is to a degree) I found a kernel of truth to his statement. Because in most movies of this kind from what i've seen they do find someone just like the lead character, and make it a real rags to riches story. The young star is thrust into a life they do not have the emotional resources to cope with. And then the young star in interviews unwittingly universalizes the experience of what a (insert movie trope here) looks like or sounds like because in real life they are pretty much the character. It does such a disservice to all the other people living in similar bodies or similar existences because then it suggests that all overweight dark-skinned women are downtrodden and sad. Which of course then implicitly suggests that being discovered by Hollywood is the only thing that gives them some measure of redemption in their lives. The next logical conclusion then is that since most dark-skinned, overweight women aren't in Hollywood they must thus be all near-suicidal. Cue, well-intentioned folks treating every fat, dark-skinned girl they see like she must a "Precious." Gabby turns this shit completely on its head. And it couldn't have come a moment too soon. #gaboureysidibe
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Like Gabby said in an interview "People act like I did this movie and then I became awesome. I was awesome all my life. Then I did this movie"
She has a world of opportunities out there. The other girls might not have had that. For them that would have created a psychological dependency on the film and the fame it brings that ultimately rendered them emotionally fraught. Gabby doesn't have to deal with that. #gaboureysidibe
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This is a beautifully written comment. I think it vocalizes exactly what it is about her that I like.
(that's why I promoted it) Sorry!!! #gaboureysidibe
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FWIW I don't know if casting like that is always inappropriate. I just think it encompasses a ton of dynamics that the filmmakers are usually not thinking through because they are seeing everything clouded by the lens of their own privilege. Daniels thought it through and I respect him for it. #gaboureysidibe
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Still, good thinking, Daniels. #gaboureysidibe
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FWIW though, I think it's very nice of you to let me know it was a mistake. You didn't have to and could just have let it stand and no one would have been the wiser =) #gaboureysidibe
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At least Gaby was kind enough to be gentle with them after she realized that they share a single manic yet slow-functioning brain. #gaboureysidibe
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