I think the U.S already knows that the threats they direct towards Africa really actually do nothing to change the behavior, or the events taking place there. Case in point: Darfur, The Republic of Congo, fill in the blank.
I know Hillary's intentions are good, but after centuries of world powers ignoring the African continent and only taking from it, it's obvious that many of the countries have blocked the U.S government out and could care LESS what the hell they have to say.
It's a shame too. Something has to change, we're already flying down to hell in a handbasket.
Rape has become the ultimate weapon in fighting dissent in many places. I just read an article in the New Yorker about the recent protests in Iran and how sexual violence was used there as well. In Muslim countries especially, the powers that be have made a very cynical, inhumane choice to use sexual violence as a tool of oppression. Islamic beliefs about female modesty have been turned against Muslim women fighting for freedom. The courage of women facing not only violence but sexual assault who STILL go out and fight to freedom is awe-inspiring.
OT, but I keep wondering why the press refers to her as "Mrs. Clinton" instead of "Secretary Clinton." I don't know what is customary here, was Madeline Albright called "Mrs. Albright?"
@sleepingwiththeenemy: I believe the standard is to use the title in the first mention and then change to Mr./Mrs./Ms. for the rest of the article. They do it for Obama too.
@sleepingwiththeenemy: Actually, during the primaries it really bothered me that they called her Mrs. Clinton. But the NYTimes had a "letter from the editor" that said she preferred "Mrs" to "Ms".
I'd be surprised if someone actually gets reprimanded. I can't even fathom what these poor women went through, and what they are going through right now as they wait, day by day, for some sort of punishment.
i could never be a politician like hillary who has to witness shit like this and stay "diplomatic" instead of just frankly speaking her mind. if i were her, i'd immediately insist on this "leader's" home and headquarters be bombed to oblivion.
i don't make good decisions when i'm full of anger.
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Go Hillary. Go France. Slam these criminals with the only consequences that makes sense to them-cutting off their money and influence. Here's hoping that these poor women get some justice, though I doubt it.
@Hooplehead: But didn't France harbour a rapist for 30 years. It's easy to condemn rape in other places but the Polanski case has shown that we have a rape culture of our own, alive and well.
@AuburnPonytail: I agree with you completely. But we have work to do right here in our own culture. There is often a tinge of 'those barbaric Africans' in discussion like this, when we have no legs to stand on. The Polanski case has shown that many right here at home condone sexual assault.
@topsy: Rape isn't appropriate in any situation. But a fucking massive group rape using violence and terror to cease protests, takes misogyny to a whole new level.
@topsy: While harboring Polanski was awful, what they are doing here could be an awesome thing for these many rape and murder victims. And it sounds like they called it out before the US did, so yes, I think that is praiseworthy. I don't think that rightly calling that out necessarily equates to letting them off the hook for Polanski. I can do that while remembering the broader context.
@Hooplehead: But don't you see? It's always easy to 'let them off the hook'. Do you think that people in Africa don't know about Polanski. That they don't sit and sneer about the kind of people who would condone the rape of a child. And then those same people now want to go to Africa and teach that rape is wrong? If I was a person in Guinea I would wonder where the fuck the French got their nerve. That it was the height of hypocrisy, for French government officials to speak about the violence in Africa, when French government officials spoke in support of Polanski. So is rape the problem or are we just talking about numbers? Nobody should be let off the hook.
@sydbarrettsaves, emissary of hell: Come on now, are we really talking numbers here. If one is okay then where do we get off condemning 100 or 1000 or 100000. Zero-tolerance has to mean just that or all our well-intentioned WORDS are just words. If we want to tell others how to live, then maybe we need to start living that way ourselves.
@sydbarrettsaves, emissary of hell: You're right, action has to be taken. But don't you think that the people in Guinea are able to see that hypocricy for what it really is. Just a bunch of western countries telling the dark masses that 'they know better' when they don't.
@topsy: While there is certainly an element of racism, I don't think it's fair to say it's the only motivating factor in the denouncements made by France and the US. Perhaps someone could use this occurrence to generalize about the people of Africa as whole. But as far as I’m concerned, it doesn’t matter which country this occurred in, or which racial group perpetrated these acts. I would denounce it any context, western or otherwise.
@topsy: Honestly, I think people in Africa don't know about Polanski. I think they know about genital mutilation and starvation and malaria and genocide and systemic inequality but I don't think they know about Polanski.
And France has a no-extradition-of-French-citizens... policy; it's not like they have a pro-rape-and-pedophilia policy. And it was the Mitterrand, the "minister of culture" who appealed to Hillary Clinton for Polanski's release, not Sarkozy, who ordered the French government to drop support almost a year ago.
I don't know how I feel about these atrocities being associated with Polanski. The comparison of the two seems to denigrate the nature of these crimes.
@topsy: I think I was pretty clear in saying that I do not let France off the hook for Polanski. In case that wasn't clear to you: I do NOT let them off the hook for Polanski. Are we clear? You can pretend I didn't say that some more if you wish to keep arguing. But we agree on this point, OK?
However, WTHBS, if you really want to break it down, I am at a loss to think of a nation that has not, at some point in time: -condoned a rape. Or many rapes. Like the massive amount of rapes that occurred during slavery-in the US!
-Or given the impression that they do, in order to CTA and avoid international incidents-like the US all over the world, the most recent I can think of the teenager in Japan raped by servicemen.
-Or engaged in sexual trafficking-some of which comes to the US.
-Or been OK with putting women who live in abject poverty to work providing the sexual pleasure of people with more wealth. Like "comfort women" employed for US soldiers during WWII, or like men in the US do when they go for their wild and crazy vacations to Thailand to support the sex trade. Or go to strip clubs, or get "happy ending" massages,or engage prostitutes.
This shit happens everywhere, on everyone's watch. If you're looking for perfect, idealogically pure allies in the fight against rape, you're going to be awfully lonely. The Guineans could just as easily tell us to fuck off for being hypocrites. But that doesn't give much help to the ladies who were raped and killed, does it?
My bottom line is, this abuse of women is wrong, it needs to stop and the perpetrators need to be punished. If France is willing to join the fight, I am happy to have them. If it helps them examine their own attitudes, so much the better. I prefer to have baby steps towards dismantling rape culture than none at all.
@winner: You really don't think they know about Polanski in Africa? They do have electricity, you know. So they have TVs and guess what? They even have cell phones. A lot of Africans get their news from something other than the jungle drum.
You said that I was denigrating the crimes in Guinea. Try looking at it another way (and I'm speaking about the sexual violence that was referred to in this post). In my mind, rape is the worst crime that you can commit. Worse than murder. So the rape of 1 child in Hollywood or hundreds of innocent women fighting for freedom are BOTH monstrous crimes in my eyes. Quibbling about numbers doesn't matter to me. So if we here in the west can dismiss the one crime. where the fuck do we get the balls to tell other people that we are outraged at their crimes. You might be comfortable on that high horse, but I'm not.
@topsy: Yes, thank you, I was born and raised in Africa and I am well aware of the modern comforts Africans enjoy. I appreciate your assumptions but I thoroughly disagree that, outside of white Africa, anyone is aware of what is going on with Polanski. It is probable that French-speaking countries have access to the information but I can't imagine it making headlines in the midst of genocide and civil war.
All I'm saying is that these atrocities deserve their own page and I am bothered by the constant comparison of what goes on in other countries to what happens in America. It like the Tyra Banksification of tragedy.
@topsy: So if we here in the west can dismiss the one crime. where the fuck do we get the balls to tell other people that we are outraged at their crimes.
Further, the foundation of your argument rests on the faulty proclamation that "we here in the west" have dismissed the one crime. I don't think we have.
@winner: Agreed about the Banksification of tragedy. There is, in fact, a difference between a pedophile taking advantage of a child, and soldiers raping women as a vicious form of quelling political dissent. To suggest that they are the same because both involve rapes seems to me to be fundamentally wrong. Polanski is not an army, his victim was not someone who threatened his power. He is just a sad-sack piece of shit child molester. These guys? Are something else.
@topsy: Why do I have to choose? I don't want women raped anywhere, period. Or men, for that matter. Or anyone. I moreover don't want women who are raped to have it done at the behest of the government to quell legitimate political dissent. We can agree that's a bad thing, right? We can agree that it is not something that ought to happen on anyone's watch, right?
I don't understand your overarching point, entirely. Yes, colonialism is bad, yes there may racial attitudes at play in the indignation, yes, France has done bad things too, yes, yes yes. All valid points. However, I'm not sure what you would have us do, given your many and varied objections to calling this particular atrocity an atrocity. It is no less an atrocity that these protestors were raped and murdered because it was committed by Africans. It is no less an atrocity because it was committed by people who are poorer than we are. Would you have no one act to stop it because you think they are too morally compromised themselves to call an atrocity an atrocity?
@topsy: They harbored him due to extradition laws, nothing more. Odds are, the leaders in Guinea aren't thinking that if Polanski got away with it, so can we.
How am I supposed to feel about men when this shit happens everywhere, every day? How am I at fault for finding myself really hating them, as a group? Why are women everywhere just expected to trust men and let them make decisions? How could any logical woman with any memory at all be comfortable with men having power?
This sort of thing dismays me. This is why I don't think that there can possibly be a god.
@morninggloria: I feel the same way a lot of the time. It's so massive an issue that a lot of people can't bear to face it, they retreat into denial, and those of us who do face it live with the double effect of acknowledging it and being told we're crazy for being so overwhelmed by it. "Not all men are like that." Yeah, I know. But enough are.
articulate! and yes. my dad was an awesome man, and i know many of us have relationships with awesome men who would never want to be lumped with these mutations.
@morninggloria: because unless you can do something with that hate, it will just eat you up inside while not correcting this situation. groups of people all around the world commit despicable acts, particularly as a pack. but there are individuals around the world who also work every day, more often in anonymity, to bring some peace and happiness to those who suffer.
@fatmammycat: I hear what you're saying. The men with whom I am close have been good to me-- I have a great father, a wonderful brother, a generally patient and understanding boyfriend.
Thing is, if I had like a dozen friends who had been bitten by dogs and severely injured/scarred by those dogs, no one would fault me for being afraid of dogs or for mistrusting dogs. But when it's men doing the hurting, and it's on a worldwide scale, I'm somehow a feminazi for having my default response to men be "mistrust."
@morninggloria: I don't know who referred to you as a feminazi, what a useless and hateful word. However my argument stands, you cannot castigate entirely half of the population of the world because some of them are brutish raping monsters. It demeans the ones like your brothers, my father, my brothers, my partner, and all the other men out there who would be sickened by such heinous actions. We don't hold all woman accountable for actions of other woman, we should not do it to men.
@morninggloria: You may be able to hear me clapping from across the pond for that dog analogy. I love men individually--dad, stepdad, boyfriend. In general I get on better/more easily with dudes and most of my friends are men. But as a group in power I don't trust them. When men have power and run things, this is what happens. I don't know what would happen in a non-patriarchal society, because as yet I haven't ever encountered one. Which kind of says it all.
@fatmammycat: Nobody is holding all men accountable. But men, as a class, ARE a group, and it is not wrong or stupid or irrational for women to mistrust a class of people that has held power over women, as a class, and used that power to oppress.
@morninggloria: I understand where your anger is coming from. It's so hard to continually hear stories like this and not want to find someone or something to hate But for the most part women raise boys to be men. Should we blame the mothers for raising violent men? I don't know any horrible men (if they're horrible, I don't know them), men who would never ever be violent towards women. My father was a man. I can't hate all men because there are some that I love.
@fatmammycat: "Feminazi" is a word that's thrown around a lot around here in making fun of people who use it seriously. There are people who use it seriously.
And I'm not holding all men accountable for this, I'm just saying that I should not be faulted for my default attitude being cautious mistrust toward a group that has really messed up, collectively.
@winner: Dude. I have been asking myself this question for years. I have an amazing boyfriend, and every now and then he makes me feel that perhaps men, as a whole, are not bad. And then I read HEADLINE after HEADLINE about the abuse and oppression of women, and I cannot reconcile these events. Add to that the misogynistic comments in the workplace, the sexist portrayal of women in the media, and just our generally patriarchal society, and I don’t have much to go on.
@morninggloria: I understand being mistrustful and wary, nor would I belittle any woman for being so- especially taking into account what we see, read and experience. However this "How am I at fault for finding myself really hating them, as a group?" was what I had issue with. Really hating is very different to being mistrustful.
@topsy: But for the most part women raise boys to be men.
And there's the problem with the thinking right there. This line of argument takes the "she deserved it" line to a whole new level. Did you hear that, ladies? We deserve it.
It is easy and possible and even proper to hate and mistrust an oppressor class while loving some members of it.
@kithkin: Bullshit I wasn't saying that at all. What I WAS saying is that it's easy to blame men for all the violence of the world but women play a part in it too. Claiming 'oppressed' status makes it easy to just sit on your ass and complain. It's way easier than trying to make a difference.
I don't hate men because I'm capable of seeing people as individuals. Give it a try.
@topsy: People are responsible for their own behavior. Finger pointing has no place here and has, in fact, been used to justify violence and oppression against women, just as finger pointing and a "... but they also are to blame!" attitude has been used to justify racism.
Seeing that it's physically impossible to get to know every single individual in the world and assess them accordingly, I'm going to err on the side of caution here and consider the fact that a man that I do not know could possibly intend to harm me.
Furthermore, there's no need to get personal attacky.
@morninggloria: You started with hate, which I strongly disagree with, but have ended up with mistrust, which as far as I'm concerned is just sensible.
@morninggloria: I completely understand what you are saying. And I'm married to a great guy who would never lay a finger on me.
I'm going to totally step in it here ... I just think there is something about men that enables them (when circumstances are right) to disengage their brain and be aggressive. Whether it's to fight at a bar, kill people in a war, or rape women in a confrontation, it's just something that tends to be more common for men than for women. And I don't get it, but then, I'm not a guy.
I used to say (when I was much younger) that every guy is a potential rapist. (Yes, this made me very popular with the boys.) But it's true - every guy who rapes a woman is somebody's son, somebody's brother, somebody's friend. When we start trying to divide the world into groups of men who rape (icky) and men who don't (yay!) we ignore the fact that the line is a lot more fluid than that.
Historically, men rape women on a large scale in times of war and conflict. Are all of these men inherently evil? Or is there something about conflict itself that can turn a normally respectful man into a rapist? I think that's what HRC is trying to address on a broader scale - how do we create a world culture where rape is not a part of war strategy vs. something that is just always part of conflict? She's got her work cut out for her.
So, yes, I think it's possible to become weary and skeptical of men in general while appreciating the individual men who are a part of our lives. I don't think those are two incompatible attitudes.
@morninggloria: We can't just hate a whole group for what horrible individuals have done. I know it adds up with men, but really, we can't.
It's like people who hate Americans for what Bush did, and saying all Americans are horrible, selfish, materialistic people. (I live in Canada, and I have actually heard people say this sometimes.) And of course that's not okay - so why should that be okay to say about men?
Lumping people into groups, whether it's nationalities, sexual orientations, religions, or genders, and saying you hate them as a group, has never done ANYONE any favors. People are individuals, and if we want to change atrocities in the world, we have to work on the structures of power relations, education, a million other things - not condemning groups of people as a whole.
@morninggloria: I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. If it's bad to say that all black, yellow or brown people are bad, then why is it okay to say that all men are bad? As a black woman I would be safe in saying that, historically, white people have been dangerous to black people's existence. Would it be okay for me to assume that all white intend to harm me, until I know better?
I don't assume all white people mean me harm, just like I don't assume all men mean me harm. UNTIL they prove otherwise.
Oh and I agree with you about the 'personal attacky' thing. No need at all.
@SisterRay73: Fair enough. "Hate" is a strong word and I agree that it's unfair to "hate" a group of people. I should have been more articulate in expressing the fact that I "hate" feeling like I can't trust an entire group of people that represent half of the population. I hate feeling unsafe and I hate that men do this to women.
@morninggloria: Testosterone. I'm pretty sure that's why my brother is such an asshole. And as a fuzzy appeal to science - don't women who take anabolic steroids or undergo testosterone therapy become more rageful?
@Hiroine Protagonist: Thats a wrong assumption and scientifically wrong. Testoterone cannot create agression, the amygdala sends waves that activate the hypothalamus and cause agression. Testosterone only enhances it.
WTF?! this is the first i've heard of this, and i'm currently alternating between waves of nausea and chills after reading. This is disgusting, abominable behavior. How does shit like this continue to happen!? In what world is it ok to massacre 157 peacful protesters and then assault and rape the ones you didn't kill?!
world, show your condemnation for activites of this type, take action, cut off contact, whatever it takes, we need to show that this is NOT OK
it is too early in the morning for my rage to be channeled into anything more coherent than that...
The people of Guinea have been waiting a long time. Since their independence, they have been ruled by dictatorships that pillage the country and sack away millions to billions of their natural wealth in swiss bank accounts.
Guinea is the world's top bauxite exporter--bauxite makes aluminum. Huge international corporations have a lot of money invested in Guinea--Alcoa, Rusal, Rio Tinto--and more focus needs to be on those companies and how they have colluded with corrupt rulers.
Unfortunately, this conflict will not improve anytime soon, and threatens to destabilize the entire region. Of Guinea's neighbors, only two can be considered stable--Senegal and Mali--and even those nations still have too many people suffering from extreme poverty. Guinea's other neighbors are either narcostates (Guinea-Bissau) or recovering from war (Liberia, Sierra Leone, Cote d'Ivoire). This conflict could reignite the simmering tensions in those 3 states... It's not just the women of Guinea, it's the people of Guinea, and of West Africa.
@ronniedobbs: thanks. i lived for 9 months from fall 07-summer 08, and wrote a big paper about guinea, the econcomy and its prospects for sustainable development for grad school, so i know a little about it. :)
it's a really beautiful country with amazing people, and stories like this break my heart. guinea has never had a chance at democracy, freedom, or prosperity. its history with france is so mixed that the actions france is taking now really don't have much of a sway--when guinea decided to become independent, france took everything from the country from lightbulbs to maps to medical equipment, so guineans aren't too trusting of the french anyway.
my opinion is that the best options we have is to send in international forces to help the situation, it's what i wanted to see happen last year when Conte finally died, but unfortunately, politically it's not feasible. Dadis has said that he does not want peacekeeping troops, and he would probably take his anger out on the people again if the UN/AU sent in outsiders. It's truly tragic.
"France, the former colonial ruler of Guinea - located on the east coast of Africa and bordering Senegal, the Ivory Coast, Mali, Liberia and Sierra Leone - has threatened to cease all business with the country"
Don't threaten--DO. Raping and assaulting women in the streets? I think that's the point of no return. Don't say you're going to do something to try to stop it, just do it.
Although, considering France's role in Rwanda during the genocide always makes me uneasy to see them involved in African relations at all.
I heard about this for the first time in an NPR segment on my commute yesterday morning. They were interviewing an 82 year old woman who had been badly beaten and raped. She kept repeating: "I just can't understand why this happened. Why did this happen?"
@morninggloria: No, I don't. It's not that it's necessarily a male predilection -- it's that for men in positions of authority, with a moral compass that is askew, if given the opportunity, they will avail themselves, because they do not fear retribution. That's why it's such a prevalent weapon in several African states -- they do nothing to punish soldiers who rape, and so rape is seen as another tool in their arsenal of intimidation.
Secretary of State Clinton has stepped up and laid down the law; time for the United States and the U.N. to back it up. This kind of thing has to be stopped, and it has to be stopped now.
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I know Hillary's intentions are good, but after centuries of world powers ignoring the African continent and only taking from it, it's obvious that many of the countries have blocked the U.S government out and could care LESS what the hell they have to say.
It's a shame too. Something has to change, we're already flying down to hell in a handbasket.
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Go Hillary. Go France. Slam these criminals with the only consequences that makes sense to them-cutting off their money and influence. Here's hoping that these poor women get some justice, though I doubt it.
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And France has a no-extradition-of-French-citizens... policy; it's not like they have a pro-rape-and-pedophilia policy. And it was the Mitterrand, the "minister of culture" who appealed to Hillary Clinton for Polanski's release, not Sarkozy, who ordered the French government to drop support almost a year ago.
I don't know how I feel about these atrocities being associated with Polanski. The comparison of the two seems to denigrate the nature of these crimes.
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However, WTHBS, if you really want to break it down, I am at a loss to think of a nation that has not, at some point in time: -condoned a rape. Or many rapes. Like the massive amount of rapes that occurred during slavery-in the US!
-Or given the impression that they do, in order to CTA and avoid international incidents-like the US all over the world, the most recent I can think of the teenager in Japan raped by servicemen.
-Or engaged in sexual trafficking-some of which comes to the US.
-Or been OK with putting women who live in abject poverty to work providing the sexual pleasure of people with more wealth. Like "comfort women" employed for US soldiers during WWII, or like men in the US do when they go for their wild and crazy vacations to Thailand to support the sex trade. Or go to strip clubs, or get "happy ending" massages,or engage prostitutes.
This shit happens everywhere, on everyone's watch. If you're looking for perfect, idealogically pure allies in the fight against rape, you're going to be awfully lonely. The Guineans could just as easily tell us to fuck off for being hypocrites. But that doesn't give much help to the ladies who were raped and killed, does it?
My bottom line is, this abuse of women is wrong, it needs to stop and the perpetrators need to be punished. If France is willing to join the fight, I am happy to have them. If it helps them examine their own attitudes, so much the better. I prefer to have baby steps towards dismantling rape culture than none at all.
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You said that I was denigrating the crimes in Guinea. Try looking at it another way (and I'm speaking about the sexual violence that was referred to in this post). In my mind, rape is the worst crime that you can commit. Worse than murder. So the rape of 1 child in Hollywood or hundreds of innocent women fighting for freedom are BOTH monstrous crimes in my eyes. Quibbling about numbers doesn't matter to me. So if we here in the west can dismiss the one crime. where the fuck do we get the balls to tell other people that we are outraged at their crimes. You might be comfortable on that high horse, but I'm not.
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All I'm saying is that these atrocities deserve their own page and I am bothered by the constant comparison of what goes on in other countries to what happens in America. It like the Tyra Banksification of tragedy.
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Further, the foundation of your argument rests on the faulty proclamation that "we here in the west" have dismissed the one crime. I don't think we have.
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I don't understand your overarching point, entirely. Yes, colonialism is bad, yes there may racial attitudes at play in the indignation, yes, France has done bad things too, yes, yes yes. All valid points. However, I'm not sure what you would have us do, given your many and varied objections to calling this particular atrocity an atrocity. It is no less an atrocity that these protestors were raped and murdered because it was committed by Africans. It is no less an atrocity because it was committed by people who are poorer than we are. Would you have no one act to stop it because you think they are too morally compromised themselves to call an atrocity an atrocity?
Really, I'd like to know.
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How am I supposed to feel about men when this shit happens everywhere, every day? How am I at fault for finding myself really hating them, as a group? Why are women everywhere just expected to trust men and let them make decisions? How could any logical woman with any memory at all be comfortable with men having power?
This sort of thing dismays me. This is why I don't think that there can possibly be a god.
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articulate! and yes. my dad was an awesome man, and i know many of us have relationships with awesome men who would never want to be lumped with these mutations.
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Thing is, if I had like a dozen friends who had been bitten by dogs and severely injured/scarred by those dogs, no one would fault me for being afraid of dogs or for mistrusting dogs. But when it's men doing the hurting, and it's on a worldwide scale, I'm somehow a feminazi for having my default response to men be "mistrust."
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And I'm not holding all men accountable for this, I'm just saying that I should not be faulted for my default attitude being cautious mistrust toward a group that has really messed up, collectively.
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And there's the problem with the thinking right there. This line of argument takes the "she deserved it" line to a whole new level. Did you hear that, ladies? We deserve it.
It is easy and possible and even proper to hate and mistrust an oppressor class while loving some members of it.
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I don't hate men because I'm capable of seeing people as individuals. Give it a try.
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Seeing that it's physically impossible to get to know every single individual in the world and assess them accordingly, I'm going to err on the side of caution here and consider the fact that a man that I do not know could possibly intend to harm me.
Furthermore, there's no need to get personal attacky.
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I'm going to totally step in it here ... I just think there is something about men that enables them (when circumstances are right) to disengage their brain and be aggressive. Whether it's to fight at a bar, kill people in a war, or rape women in a confrontation, it's just something that tends to be more common for men than for women. And I don't get it, but then, I'm not a guy.
I used to say (when I was much younger) that every guy is a potential rapist. (Yes, this made me very popular with the boys.) But it's true - every guy who rapes a woman is somebody's son, somebody's brother, somebody's friend. When we start trying to divide the world into groups of men who rape (icky) and men who don't (yay!) we ignore the fact that the line is a lot more fluid than that.
Historically, men rape women on a large scale in times of war and conflict. Are all of these men inherently evil? Or is there something about conflict itself that can turn a normally respectful man into a rapist? I think that's what HRC is trying to address on a broader scale - how do we create a world culture where rape is not a part of war strategy vs. something that is just always part of conflict? She's got her work cut out for her.
So, yes, I think it's possible to become weary and skeptical of men in general while appreciating the individual men who are a part of our lives. I don't think those are two incompatible attitudes.
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It's like people who hate Americans for what Bush did, and saying all Americans are horrible, selfish, materialistic people. (I live in Canada, and I have actually heard people say this sometimes.) And of course that's not okay - so why should that be okay to say about men?
Lumping people into groups, whether it's nationalities, sexual orientations, religions, or genders, and saying you hate them as a group, has never done ANYONE any favors. People are individuals, and if we want to change atrocities in the world, we have to work on the structures of power relations, education, a million other things - not condemning groups of people as a whole.
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I don't assume all white people mean me harm, just like I don't assume all men mean me harm. UNTIL they prove otherwise.
Oh and I agree with you about the 'personal attacky' thing. No need at all.
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Please join the International Criminal Court.
Thank you,
Winner
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world, show your condemnation for activites of this type, take action, cut off contact, whatever it takes, we need to show that this is NOT OK
it is too early in the morning for my rage to be channeled into anything more coherent than that...
10/07/09
Guinea is the world's top bauxite exporter--bauxite makes aluminum. Huge international corporations have a lot of money invested in Guinea--Alcoa, Rusal, Rio Tinto--and more focus needs to be on those companies and how they have colluded with corrupt rulers.
Unfortunately, this conflict will not improve anytime soon, and threatens to destabilize the entire region. Of Guinea's neighbors, only two can be considered stable--Senegal and Mali--and even those nations still have too many people suffering from extreme poverty. Guinea's other neighbors are either narcostates (Guinea-Bissau) or recovering from war (Liberia, Sierra Leone, Cote d'Ivoire). This conflict could reignite the simmering tensions in those 3 states... It's not just the women of Guinea, it's the people of Guinea, and of West Africa.
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it's a really beautiful country with amazing people, and stories like this break my heart. guinea has never had a chance at democracy, freedom, or prosperity. its history with france is so mixed that the actions france is taking now really don't have much of a sway--when guinea decided to become independent, france took everything from the country from lightbulbs to maps to medical equipment, so guineans aren't too trusting of the french anyway.
my opinion is that the best options we have is to send in international forces to help the situation, it's what i wanted to see happen last year when Conte finally died, but unfortunately, politically it's not feasible. Dadis has said that he does not want peacekeeping troops, and he would probably take his anger out on the people again if the UN/AU sent in outsiders. It's truly tragic.
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Don't threaten--DO. Raping and assaulting women in the streets? I think that's the point of no return. Don't say you're going to do something to try to stop it, just do it.
Although, considering France's role in Rwanda during the genocide always makes me uneasy to see them involved in African relations at all.
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I can't come up with an answer.
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Camara trying to be the new Charles Taylor?
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