Made homemade waffles this morning, had leftover chinese for lunch, and now I'm making this awesome potato chowder soup.
AND there's roller derby tonight! It's been a very good day.
Everyone else having a good weekend?
So last night I went on my third date with a guy I met recently. I'd been kind of "meh" about him but figured a third date would help me decide if I want to keep getting to know him, or look elsewhere.
Turns out that getting us out of public and into my apartment was the best thing! There was no kissing or sexy stuff. We just had a few drinks and watched "The Big Sleep." My cats even liked him. I realized that *I* really like him and want something to happen here.
Then he turned to me and said, "Do you have plans for New Year's? Maybe we could do something." I almost shouted for joy. It's been a while since I've dated and this is FUN!!
Ah, shit, you guys. I got wasted last night, drunker than I've been since college, and hooked up with a guy that I'm not interested in and thereby creating a complicated situation where there wasn't one before. Also, I feel like death today.
Wooo, Husband and I are actually leaving the house tonight! For fun! Owwww!
OK, so we're just going like a block away to a friend's house, but still! First time out of the house together for a non-grocery reason in a friggin' long time.
Last night we put the baby in the crib in his brother's room, which means OMG MY HUSBAND AND I WERE ALONE IN OUR BEDROOM ALL NIGHT.
Okay, so only the other parents out there will really understand the enormity of this, but it was awesome. Haven't yet put away the pack-n-play, but if it continues to go well I'll have extra space on my side of the bed again! Wooo!
@spamanda: OK, I am a hard-ass big proponent of kids sleeping on their own. I think my son was about a month old when I put him in his bassinet in his own room. I'm a light sleeper, and the normal sounds a baby makes while sleeping sound alarming in the middle of the night. We all slept better when he moved into his room because I stopped waking him up to check if he was still alive every 20 minutes.
Congratulations! It's a major milestone for a parent.
@spamanda: congrats! take it from me - my boyfriend's daughter lives with her mom full time, and comes over on weekends, and was sharing a bed with her mom until she was nearly 5 years old. Weekends were a battle. Also, you can sleep better!! Hooray!
@spunkay: We've been sleeping fine, actually. He wasn't in our bed -- just next to it because we only have 2 bedrooms and our 3 year old is in the other. We've been SOOO hesitant to mess with the older son's sleep schedule! But it's definitely time to at least work on getting him into the kids bedroom. #groupthink
@WagaMama: Oh man, I never could have moved him into another room at a month. For starters, he was breastfeeding every 2 hours - no way I wanted to walk down the hallway four times a night! Also, we've got an older son, so we didn't want to make his life even MORE difficult by putting the very awake infant in his room.
Ranty McRanterson here, using the proverbial "you":
OK, so. I make mixes for my friends (technically compilation CDs, but who wants to type that all the time?) and, just for the record, it's really effing annoying to me when people say they like "everything" when I ask about their musical tastes.
Here's the thing: you may think it makes you sound all, you know, cultured and open-minded, but it's less than helpful. A few reasons why:
1) Nobody likes everything. You may like everything except Norwegian death metal, but there's no way you honestly enjoy all genres of music equally. I'm sorry, it's just not something that actually happens.
2) I am trying to make you a mix you will like, not tolerate. If you don't honestly tell me, say, "I don't care for musicals," and then I put a song from, you know, Avenue Q on there and you hate it, then I feel like crap for not somehow magically guessing that you don't like Broadway. Also, if you loooove "Boys Don't Cry" and you do tell me, I will totally try to find a version you'll love and your CD will be so much more enjoyable!
3) I have over 3500 tracks on my iPod, plus literally a floor-to-ceiling bookshelf full of CDs and, oh yeah, the whole Internet full of music. It can be a bit overwhelming when I've got no direction at all. Even something as simple as, you know, "I like dance-y stuff" can so, so, so help me make a CD you'll like.
Phew. OK. Back to making a mix for someone who doesn't know these things. I feel better. Sorry for the ranting. <3
@ucelluccia: I was super traumatized when my boyfriend of five years (now ex), towards the end of our relationship, mentioned he didn't like a lot of the music on the mixed CDs I made him. I had spent hours agonizing over which songs to put on there, the lyrical meaning, whether he would like them, their order on the CD, and was heartbroken. I never wanted to make another mixed CD for him or any other boyfriend again.
Now, looking at it, I think it's his problem: he also didn't get an obvious reference to a song that was supposedly one of his favorite songs from his favorite band (The Ataris have a song about making a girl a mixed tape, and it has the lines "I decorated it with lots of stars/It had all my favorite songs..." and I had decorated the CD case with star stickers). He admitted he didn't get it, and I pointed out the CD had the song on it as the first track. He said he didn't listen to the CDs very closely, and I realized he didn't get the reference to King of the Hill ("I Go Walking After Midnight" by Patsy Cline is the song Hank and his dog dance to) or that I included a song that kept coming on during a road trip we made to San Diego, or the song that was my ring tone for him (Tom Petty's "You Got Lucky"). We didn't fight about it any further because I found it depressing. He's the dummy, not me.
@ucelluccia: Uh oh, I'm one of those annoying people. But honestly I like mixes for what they say about the person who MADE it. And I really do like listening to new music.
I don't say I like everything, though, lol. Usually I say "hey what was that song playing in your car the other day? Make me something with THAT on it." I always thought I disliked R&B until one of my best friends made me a mix of a bunch of songs, and I went, "OOOOOH!" lol
And just for the record, Norwegian death metal freaks me out.
@ucelluccia: HAHA that's a pet peeve of mine. I never know how to answer the "so what music do you like?" question, because naming 8947654 artists gets kind of boring. But I made a promise to myself: I'll never, never, say "everything".
I've also found out that people who say "everything" actually like about four bands of slightly different genres. #groupthink
@Marla Singer: No, I completely understand not trying to name everything you like. My usual answer is something like, "I'm really into the Mountain Goats, ABBA, and Nirvana. And country. So...yeah, a bit eclectic."
I am semi-drunk and at the airport! Yay! Jezebel should have a breathalyzer test that one must pass before submitting comments, because I get sharey when I'm drunk.
@Jessysaurusrex, all: Aw man, my flight boarded on time for once, so I didn't get the chance to drunk share :( I did, however, watch this week's 30 Rock on the plane and, as predicted, I laughed riotously.
@curiousgeorgiana: I have no idea what it would have felt like to go in to a final feeling ready. I managed to pass them and you're much smarter than I am, so no problem.
@curiousgeorgiana: You probably are ready. If you're a perfectionist like me, you could have studied all year and not felt "ready." I'd say "good luck," but luck's got nothing to do with it - you'll do well!
@token_illiterate_commenter: LOL--good point. It's my first "law school exam" so I think I'm forgetting that it's really not that different from a normal exam. Do what you can do-- bull shit the rest.
@dcdulce: It should be a violation of some law of nature to require exams on Saturday. My neighbors are already having happy hour damn it. It's not fair!!!
I'll take a nice plate of brie and apples to go with my whine.
@curiousgeorgiana: :) My favorite was always Grumpy. They don't really make stuff with him on it anymore. The Husband gave me a Grumpy Bear doll he found in some terrible little flea shop for Christmas last year. I luuuuuv the Bears.
@ucelluccia: Too cute. Confession: I still sleep on a Care Bear pillowcase that I've had for 20 years. The fabric is transparent at this point, but I still love it.
@curiousgeorgiana: GOOD LUCK!!!!!!! Goddamn, I do NOT miss law school exams. The whole semester, boiled down into one four-hour clusterfuck of crazy.
Although I'm sure you've got this covered, one thing that always helped me get calm and centered was putting together my binder the night before. It was a ritual, sliding my short outline into plastic sheets, putting my long outline and notes behind tabs, and making the cover page and sliding it into the front of the binder - title of the class huge in the center, professor, exam date, semester and year, and my name in the bottom right corner. I still do that today, in preparation for things that I feel unprepared for and nervous about; in fact, the last thing I did at work on Wednesday was to put together the binder I took to a Super Crucial deposition on Thursday, complete with cover page.
I'm not sure if it helps performance to have a little ritual like that, but there comes a time with law school exams that you have take a deep breath, close your books, and (try to) go to sleep. And may I reiterate: GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
@Penny_Esq: I'm cutting myself off from working on my outline at 9:00 pm. Then I'm just focusing on organizing my binder, getting a feel for my tabs, and doing a few easy hypos :o) Binders rock.
@Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny.: I believe you. I used to spend a lot of time on hold with the IRS, in my former life as an accountant. Their hold music? The Nutcracker Suite. Not even kidding.
@la.donna.pietra: Disney is my favorite client to call because they play music from their movies on hold. Somehow listening to "HI! HO!" makes me less grumpy.
Hey! I just noticed that the hearts are back to appearing next to the names of all your followers, not just the eight randomly chosen on your main profile page. So anyone who has hearted me over the last, oh, six months, and hasn't shown up on my main profile page in the four or six times I've fired it up? You are now hearted in return. Love to all!
@Ailatan: I know, right? As long as everyone understands that hoop earrings are *my* thing, I'm all over the reciprocal hearting. (And, obviously, the hearting of any and all Jezzies who are hilarious and/or way smart and insightful.)
@Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny.: I saw! I was going to email you last night after I got home from work and school and shit but it slipped my mind after my chem review. Stupid science.
Anyway, I'll email you after work today. Finals week sucks.
@Zombie Ms. Skittles: My name is Elizabeth too. I think we have a lovely name. But the nicknames do kind of suck. My common name rhymes with death and I think there's nothing worse than that.
I'd tell people you favorite grandmother always called you Birdie :)
World Cup 2010 Draw Results (I don't know if any one cares)
Group A: South Africa, Mexico, Uruguay, France
Group B: Argentina, Nigeria, Korea Republic, Greece
Group C: England, USA, Algeria, Slovenia
Group D: Germany, Australia, Serbia, Ghana,
Group E: Netherlands, Denmark, Japan, Cameroon
Group F: Italy, Paraguay, New Zealand, Slovakia
Group G: Brazil, Korea DPR, Côte d'Ivoire, Portugal
Group H: Spain, Switzerland, Honduras, Chile
@Ailatan: I don't know much about soccer, but it looks like you guys have a pretty good shot at cruising right through. We have to play England first and I don't think we have a shot against them.
@token_illiterate_commenter: England Usa will be an interesting match. England had a wonderful qualifier, and it will be tough, but not impossible. The rest of the group is quite easy.
Argentina has been playing so poorly, it's great we have a relatively easy group. Yet Nigeria is always threatening, our players are much much smaller than theirs, Messi will have to outwit and outrun their defense.
I wouldn't want to be in groups G or H. Though group A is also quite difficult.
@sayah:
A: Uruguay
B: Argentina Argentina Argentina!
C: England (my husband is English)
D: Australia (we lost too many important matches to Germany)
E: Netherlands
F: Paraguay
G: Cote d'Ivoire
H: Spain (my whole family is from Spain)
@Ailatan: G and H do look tough. I didn't know Argentina had been doing poorly lately. I thought you had a pretty tough team. Hopefully for you they'll get their shit together. As for us, how could we possibly beat England when they'll have Mr. Posh striking poses for them. The aura of his masculine perfection will throw our guys totally off their game.
@token_illiterate_commenter: It doesn't matter if you don't beat England! I think the U.S. has chances, two teams per group will go through, so I'm sure you can make it.
@Ailatan: This makes me sad my co-worker from Ghana will be back in Ghana during the World Cup. Now who will I get to hassle when Germany (hopefully) wins the group?
As for my hopes:
A: South Africa (Really any of them that aren't France, but go home team!)
B: Nigeria (saw them trounce Argentina 13 years ago and they can maybe do it again?)
C: USA
D: Germany
E: Japan
F: New Zealand
G: Brazil
H: Switzerland
@Ailatan: Oh I know, but my wishful thinking prevents me from wanting to see Italy get out of the Group round. The other two were just random selections based on not knowing/minding any of group E or F's teams.
@sayah: I'm obsessed with the World Cup. But that's cause I'm from a country that pretty much feeds this addiction. Today we stopped our activities at work to watch the draw.
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AND there's roller derby tonight! It's been a very good day.
Everyone else having a good weekend?
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Turns out that getting us out of public and into my apartment was the best thing! There was no kissing or sexy stuff. We just had a few drinks and watched "The Big Sleep." My cats even liked him. I realized that *I* really like him and want something to happen here.
Then he turned to me and said, "Do you have plans for New Year's? Maybe we could do something." I almost shouted for joy. It's been a while since I've dated and this is FUN!!
He stayed 'til 5:00 this morning.
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OK, so we're just going like a block away to a friend's house, but still! First time out of the house together for a non-grocery reason in a friggin' long time.
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Okay, so only the other parents out there will really understand the enormity of this, but it was awesome. Haven't yet put away the pack-n-play, but if it continues to go well I'll have extra space on my side of the bed again! Wooo!
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Congratulations! It's a major milestone for a parent.
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OK, so. I make mixes for my friends (technically compilation CDs, but who wants to type that all the time?) and, just for the record, it's really effing annoying to me when people say they like "everything" when I ask about their musical tastes.
Here's the thing: you may think it makes you sound all, you know, cultured and open-minded, but it's less than helpful. A few reasons why:
1) Nobody likes everything. You may like everything except Norwegian death metal, but there's no way you honestly enjoy all genres of music equally. I'm sorry, it's just not something that actually happens.
2) I am trying to make you a mix you will like, not tolerate. If you don't honestly tell me, say, "I don't care for musicals," and then I put a song from, you know, Avenue Q on there and you hate it, then I feel like crap for not somehow magically guessing that you don't like Broadway. Also, if you loooove "Boys Don't Cry" and you do tell me, I will totally try to find a version you'll love and your CD will be so much more enjoyable!
3) I have over 3500 tracks on my iPod, plus literally a floor-to-ceiling bookshelf full of CDs and, oh yeah, the whole Internet full of music. It can be a bit overwhelming when I've got no direction at all. Even something as simple as, you know, "I like dance-y stuff" can so, so, so help me make a CD you'll like.
Phew. OK. Back to making a mix for someone who doesn't know these things. I feel better. Sorry for the ranting. <3
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Now, looking at it, I think it's his problem: he also didn't get an obvious reference to a song that was supposedly one of his favorite songs from his favorite band (The Ataris have a song about making a girl a mixed tape, and it has the lines "I decorated it with lots of stars/It had all my favorite songs..." and I had decorated the CD case with star stickers). He admitted he didn't get it, and I pointed out the CD had the song on it as the first track. He said he didn't listen to the CDs very closely, and I realized he didn't get the reference to King of the Hill ("I Go Walking After Midnight" by Patsy Cline is the song Hank and his dog dance to) or that I included a song that kept coming on during a road trip we made to San Diego, or the song that was my ring tone for him (Tom Petty's "You Got Lucky"). We didn't fight about it any further because I found it depressing. He's the dummy, not me.
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I don't say I like everything, though, lol. Usually I say "hey what was that song playing in your car the other day? Make me something with THAT on it." I always thought I disliked R&B until one of my best friends made me a mix of a bunch of songs, and I went, "OOOOOH!" lol
And just for the record, Norwegian death metal freaks me out.
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I've also found out that people who say "everything" actually like about four bands of slightly different genres.
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I'll take a nice plate of brie and apples to go with my whine.
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Thanks for the memory :o)
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Ahem.
I'll stop yelling now.
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Although I'm sure you've got this covered, one thing that always helped me get calm and centered was putting together my binder the night before. It was a ritual, sliding my short outline into plastic sheets, putting my long outline and notes behind tabs, and making the cover page and sliding it into the front of the binder - title of the class huge in the center, professor, exam date, semester and year, and my name in the bottom right corner. I still do that today, in preparation for things that I feel unprepared for and nervous about; in fact, the last thing I did at work on Wednesday was to put together the binder I took to a Super Crucial deposition on Thursday, complete with cover page.
I'm not sure if it helps performance to have a little ritual like that, but there comes a time with law school exams that you have take a deep breath, close your books, and (try to) go to sleep. And may I reiterate: GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
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Thanks so much!!
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See, my actual name is Elizabeth. I don't like Elizabeth. It's a dull name. It annoys me to be called Elizabeth.
I have started going by Birdie (ripped shamelessly from Mad Men), but that makes people start asking me where I got that nickname.
I would like a better story than "I stole it from a TV show." and need some ideas.
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Or, you have a propensity to flip people the bird when they piss you off?
I'm sorry, I'm not sure either of those were helpful...
Can you sing? You could say it has something to do with your singing voice?
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You can always just say that it's an old childhood nickname that you've resurrected.
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:)
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You secretly play badminton professionally?
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Anyway, I'll email you after work today. Finals week sucks.
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I'd tell people you favorite grandmother always called you Birdie :)
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Group A: South Africa, Mexico, Uruguay, France
Group B: Argentina, Nigeria, Korea Republic, Greece
Group C: England, USA, Algeria, Slovenia
Group D: Germany, Australia, Serbia, Ghana,
Group E: Netherlands, Denmark, Japan, Cameroon
Group F: Italy, Paraguay, New Zealand, Slovakia
Group G: Brazil, Korea DPR, Côte d'Ivoire, Portugal
Group H: Spain, Switzerland, Honduras, Chile
#argentinacampeon2010
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Group by group/step by step:
A: France.
B: Argentina
C: England
D: Germany
E: Denmark
F: Italy
G: Portugal
H: Spain
Go Bastian!
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Argentina has been playing so poorly, it's great we have a relatively easy group. Yet Nigeria is always threatening, our players are much much smaller than theirs, Messi will have to outwit and outrun their defense.
I wouldn't want to be in groups G or H. Though group A is also quite difficult.
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A: Uruguay
B: Argentina Argentina Argentina!
C: England (my husband is English)
D: Australia (we lost too many important matches to Germany)
E: Netherlands
F: Paraguay
G: Cote d'Ivoire
H: Spain (my whole family is from Spain)
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As for my hopes:
A: South Africa (Really any of them that aren't France, but go home team!)
B: Nigeria (saw them trounce Argentina 13 years ago and they can maybe do it again?)
C: USA
D: Germany
E: Japan
F: New Zealand
G: Brazil
H: Switzerland
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Wheeeeeee
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My country didn't make it to the World Cup so I'll just cheer group for group. Although I have a week spot for several countries and players.
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what happened why didn't you make it? you have been in the last World Cups
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I don't like Portugal, the way they handled themselves in 2006 rubs me the wrong way.
Also I find Christiano Ronaldo annoying.
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Favorite. line. ever.
I love this video. I want a follow-up!
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"I got 3 papers this week, but that's cool, cuz I GOT IT LIKE DAT".
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