At least some of the resentment must stem from the sense many people have that Giuliano's success is disproportionate to her success. Her books are fine, but simple. Plenty of people could have written them -- the conversational tone, the common sense advice, the dash of Francophile. But Giuliano actually did write them (and was helped, no doubt, but access to publishers not exactly available to your average Jane), and she's made tons of money off of them and had the opportunity to write yet more bestsellers.
It's Dan Brown syndrome. It's easier to hate on someone who seems no more talented than you are. #mireilleguiliano
The "Skinny Bitch" authors deserve more ire here, for 1. Writing a book with "bitch" on the title solely for the gratuitous-titillation factor, 2. Promoting the idea that it's cool to be a nasty, obnoxious, self-centered diva, especially if you're thin.
@ihateyourescalade: I HATE those books. My sister came home from college with all of them and I didn't even bother to mask my utter contempt. First of all, the lingo that they use in the books is incredibly grating. (Example: kitch=kitchen). Secondly, their entire pitch is, as you said, that vanity is a good thing and that anything with fat in it is "gross" and therefore, will make you "ugly." The entire series reads like an ED handbook because it combines fucked-up eating philosophies with crackpot science and psychology. Ugh, I could go on for days... #mireilleguiliano
@femme-bot: Not sure if this will help or hurt my rant, but I've never read them either. I am already skinny and I work really hard NOT to be a bitch. #mireilleguiliano
This is the first I've heard of this movie and I'm already insulted by it. I'm sure it will be a weight loss journey to a handsome man! With champagne and shoes! And a kiss under the Eiffel Tower! And all because she lost fifteen pounds! By living fabulously in the 7th arrondissement! #mireilleguiliano
I will never trust a woman who tells me to eat small portions of high quality, non-diet, non-ersatz food and then tells me to make an apple tart out of cabbage leaves instead of pastry.
There should be a special circle of hell for that. Maybe it's circle 5.5 (between wrath and heresy). #mireilleguiliano
Not trying to say nobody would ever hate a man for being smug, but I'm saying that she faced certain criticisms that men do not.
I was going on the reasons sadie gave for people disliking her based on "smugness," etc rather than a substantial reason which is much of the criticism hillary faced and faces. So i think the comparison still stands. #mireilleguiliano
@chinaplate: It stuck out with flashing lights as "Moms vs. Non-moms." Urgh. Yes, if you don't have children, your life is full of wild single activities, but you won't get the best gift in the world, parenthood. And if you choose to have children, you are completing the circle of life, yet are tied down to an orchid-less life, yadda yadda yadda. I wish this would die. #mireilleguiliano
@midwestdesigner: I totally read that as "Moms vs Noms," which I thought was rather unfair because just because you like cookies and maybe your Mom tells you that you can only have two, that is no reason to pit them against one another. #mireilleguiliano
@AndPreciousLittleofThat: its just an extra thing to hate about french women, they're big eyes and short hair and adorable accents... and the fact that men find them irresistable. If their only steriotypical trait was skinniness maybe i wouldn't have such an irrational hatred. :-) #mireilleguiliano
What don't French women get about fat? It's a semi-solid lipid composed of glycerol and carboxylic acid that frequently serves as an energy source when converted into glucose and also is necessary to metabolize several vitamins.
There, if French women read that (translated, naturellement), they'll get fat. #mireilleguiliano
I read this book because when I was in high school I had a Frenchwoman as my dorm mother, and the tone reminded me so much of her. So I never link this book with Mme. Guiliano, only with Mme. Stanton.
That being said, I like her writing style, and most of what she says is sound - don't eat when you're bored, take a half-hour walk everyday, etc. - but I'm still a little baffled that she's managed to construct an empire around what strikes me as little more than common sense. #mireilleguiliano
@sableized (just like starting over): Common sense that won't make you thin unless you happen to be blessed with the "right" genes, stay away from the many medications that cause weight gain, and don't have any problems with your endocrine system.
I'm thinking of writing a whole series of books based on the awesomesness that is Canadian women.
Hmmm. What kind of BS would sell? Canadian Women Don't Get Bored? Canadian Women Don't Wear Uggs? #mireilleguiliano
I didn't find that my weight was impacted by being in a more active country (Australia) vs a less active country (the US). I had only public transport and my legs while living in Melbourne, and while it certainly effected my brain chemistry (I was much saner, if circumstantially lonelier until I made friends towards the end of my time there), my weight didn't change. I would say that my eating habits were better (fewer preservatives, more veggies) while in Melbourne, too.
There will always be outliers, I suppose, and my body likes to be chub? It's frustrating for me, because I would like it to be a bit less chub for the sake of my continuing to have it for many, many more years.
I think that France has a culture around thinness and take great pride in not looking like us sloppy Americans. One huge headline when I was in Paris the first time that made me think: "France: Suivre Regime!" Which basically called out how FAT everyone in France was getting and that the whole country needed to go on a diet. I am heavier, so I looked around like..."Where are all these supposed fat people?!?!?!"
I live in Paris and here are partial explanations:
- tiny apartments and no tv. There is no way you can stay home in front of the tube all night. Fridges are small in most apartments.
- The streets are a big catwalk where everyone shows off all day just for fun.
- I keep being surprised that everyone systematically eats dessert at every meal too. But I rarely see anyone snacking.
- EVERYBODY smokes.
-The service in restaurants is really slow which might also explain the little food consumed in a a very long period of time.
- no one drinks lattes and the other Starbucks drinks.
- you spend your money shopping and not eating.
I moved here 7 months ago and I am still losing weight, even though I am totally fetishizing food here and have stopped "controlled exercising" completely.
Having spent some time in Spain, I'm going to take a bet that even though you have laid it out and live there, people on the thread are still going to argue with you.
The interesting thing about weight in France is that here in the US, if you say "I'm feeling heavy/I think I'm gonna go on a diet" people immediately start indignantly exclaiming that you look fine! and you're totally healthy! and the media has convinced you have to look a certain way! whereas in France, if you say the same thing, there's this "Oh, Ok." reaction. Like, French people think diets are legitimate and sometimes necessary, and people should want to look their best, and in the US, a lot of times people feel the need to establish that diets are a warped tool of mass media. It's a really striking difference.
@ChildBride: I've never been to France, but I've noticed that about other countries, too. Here people will just silently judge you while you reach for a slice of cake or whatever.
Not surprising that people's view of what is normal weight is influenced by their neighbors. I live in the thinnest state in the US, and I bet the county I live in is one of the thinnest in that state (Boulder County in Colorado for the curious).
Although by national standards I'm probably quite thin, walking around town makes me realize I should probably be exercising more. If I still lived in Florida, I'd probably feel like I was thin and would be more comfortable with my current weight.
@Ozyman: Depends where you live in Florida. My family lives in Palm Beach County, and when I went to my brother's and sister's school, I was one of the fattest women there. I am a size four.
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It's Dan Brown syndrome. It's easier to hate on someone who seems no more talented than you are. #mireilleguiliano
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There should be a special circle of hell for that. Maybe it's circle 5.5 (between wrath and heresy). #mireilleguiliano
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Sounds like Giuliano's got a case of the Hillary Clintons--hated for stupid reasons people would never hate a man for. #mireilleguiliano
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And I swear I'm not a smug TV non-owner.
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Not trying to say nobody would ever hate a man for being smug, but I'm saying that she faced certain criticisms that men do not.
I was going on the reasons sadie gave for people disliking her based on "smugness," etc rather than a substantial reason which is much of the criticism hillary faced and faces. So i think the comparison still stands. #mireilleguiliano
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Snark snark snark. Hate observations like this. #mireilleguiliano
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Americans don't like being unfavorably compared with the French, period. #mireilleguiliano
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There, if French women read that (translated, naturellement), they'll get fat. #mireilleguiliano
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That being said, I like her writing style, and most of what she says is sound - don't eat when you're bored, take a half-hour walk everyday, etc. - but I'm still a little baffled that she's managed to construct an empire around what strikes me as little more than common sense. #mireilleguiliano
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I'm thinking of writing a whole series of books based on the awesomesness that is Canadian women.
Hmmm. What kind of BS would sell? Canadian Women Don't Get Bored? Canadian Women Don't Wear Uggs? #mireilleguiliano
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There will always be outliers, I suppose, and my body likes to be chub? It's frustrating for me, because I would like it to be a bit less chub for the sake of my continuing to have it for many, many more years.
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- tiny apartments and no tv. There is no way you can stay home in front of the tube all night. Fridges are small in most apartments.
- The streets are a big catwalk where everyone shows off all day just for fun.
- I keep being surprised that everyone systematically eats dessert at every meal too. But I rarely see anyone snacking.
- EVERYBODY smokes.
-The service in restaurants is really slow which might also explain the little food consumed in a a very long period of time.
- no one drinks lattes and the other Starbucks drinks.
- you spend your money shopping and not eating.
I moved here 7 months ago and I am still losing weight, even though I am totally fetishizing food here and have stopped "controlled exercising" completely.
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Having spent some time in Spain, I'm going to take a bet that even though you have laid it out and live there, people on the thread are still going to argue with you.
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Although by national standards I'm probably quite thin, walking around town makes me realize I should probably be exercising more. If I still lived in Florida, I'd probably feel like I was thin and would be more comfortable with my current weight.
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