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Feel-Good Alert: Recently-Deceased D.C. Woman Kept It "Classy"

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angryblackgurl
06/18/09

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I found a wallet in Key Food in Brooklyn last weekend, stuffed with cash, and a medicare card. I walked to the front of the store and saw a older gentleman in his 80's looking befuddled at the cashier searching for his wallet. The look on his face when I handed it to him was PRICELESS!!
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slowburn
06/18/09

@angryblackgurl: Oh, good for you!!
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angryblackgurl
06/18/09

@slowburn: Even better for him!!!!
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thesciencegirl wields the truth like a mighty axe.
06/18/09

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I'm sending this story to my sisters.
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rednrowdy
06/18/09

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as amazing as classy's promise is to her sister and her brother even with her advancing age, it is not even remotely close to a reality for most people to be able to take care of their loved ones in their homes full time who have alzheimers and dementia, regardless of their age.

with most memory care facilities being private pay agencies ONLY and not even accepting medicare or medicaid and a rapidly aging population and no surgeries or treatment for alzheimer's/dementia that is more than palliative, it's only going to get worse.
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labeled
06/18/09

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Sadie, of all the authors here, I find your voice to be the most distinct. I'd have known this was you in a heartbeat w/out your byline.

In other non-fangirl news, I've found that for me, it's generally just easier to be nice to people than not. (And I have some weird thing where I *love* to make people laugh unexpectedly.)
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BlackFrancine
06/18/09

@labeled: You know, you're right about it being easier to be nice to people. I wish I could take that advice and act on it. My boyfriend goes through life almost never taking out his frustration or bad mood on others. I've always admired that about him. One of the things I love most about him is his kindness and his ability to befriend strangers. He makes lasting friendships with the guy at the deli, the UPS man, the postal worker. I just love that.
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labeled
06/18/09

@BlackFrancine: I mean, it does help that I live in a friendly part of the world anyway, but yeah, for me, it just takes more energy to put up the shield.

And to this day I will occasionally run into our old Fedex & UPS drivers, which results in hugs and discussions over how everyone's kids are doing. LOL
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Zombie Ms. Skittles
06/18/09

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I used to work at a grocery store in a very economically depressed area in North Carolina (which is REALLY economically depressed right now) and last year at the height of the recession, on two different occasions I had three different customers help other people buy groceries. That always made me happy all day when it happened. It also made me a lot friendlier in stores, to the point that I started randomly complementing people in Target if I liked their coat.
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labeled
06/18/09

@MissSkittles is not your kind of lady: I am a big fan of this during the holidays - I'm that random chick that will, if I'm in a drive-thru line, pay for the car behind me. (Note - this can be a pita if you use a credit or debit card, it's easier to do w/cash.)

I need to do it more the rest of the year, because I love it.
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NellMood
06/18/09

@MissSkittles is not your kind of lady: I think I must be particularly teary today, because your story about people buying other people's groceries is totally making my eyes well up. It's nice to be reminded of small kindnesses.
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keldo
06/18/09

@MissSkittles is not your kind of lady: Someone complimented me on my coat in Target a few months ago! Was that you? Anyhow, it was really nice and made my day.
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Maritsa
06/18/09

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WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO MAKE ME CRY. LaComtesse, where are you when I need you? They're talking about old people!!
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Maritsa
06/18/09

@Maritsa: Also, the human will can be an amazing thing. To stay alive to 104 and to die only a few months after she kept her promise - that's astonishing.

(Also, I am in no way suggesting that people who died didn't have the will to live. My dad wanted to live more than anything, but died of cancer anyway. And my godmother who wanted to make it so she could take care of her daughter with Down's Syndrom didn't. Just saying that sometimes it seems like it makes a difference.)
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thesciencegirl wields the truth like a mighty axe.
06/18/09

@Maritsa: This post made me cry too.
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sportz.star
06/18/09

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It's easy, especially in NYC, to harbor negative thoughts to any stranger on the street. I find my days/general mood is better if I smile, and even respond to a random hello. It's good to receive reminders that being a good person benefits far more than just you.
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kookla
06/18/09

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I hope someone tells a tale of Klassy Kookla some day.
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kookla
06/18/09

@kookla: Also thanks for the inspiring post.
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BabyJane
06/18/09

@kookla: With a name like Klassy Kookla, you kould be a Kardashian.
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MizJenkins
06/18/09

@BabyJane: No, I think that would be one too many 'K's ;)
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BabyJane
06/18/09

@MizJenkins: Holy crap! Good point, I hadn't even noticed that!
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kookla
06/18/09

@BabyJane: Minus the Klassy!

@MizJenkins: Uh...yeah...I see what you're saying there!
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portia_sue
06/18/09

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What wonderful stories! I hope that Classy really does rest in peace...I think she's earned it.

I love hearing people's feel good stories of good deeds they've done or seen. Since I'm a bit agoraphobic, I don't often have the chance to touch other people in a positive way, but I do try. My mother always made it a point to let people go ahead of her in line at the store when they only have a few items, and I try to do that.

If Classy could be so strong at her age, I'll definitely try to step it up a bit!
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NellMood
06/18/09

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Thank you for this, Sadie. Both Classy's story and your story of the ladies in the grocery store are making me feel better about today.
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saintbernadette
06/18/09

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I heard this this morning and it made my day. I was so happy they devoted time to the story.

Yesterday I hit a parked car and left a note. The owner called me a few hours later, and it turned out to be the guy who ran the deli I'd just eaten at. He told me not to worry about it and that he hoped I'd enjoyed my lunch. Some days I love people.
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gangey
06/18/09

@saintbernadette: And I'll go ahead and love you back for being the kind of person who leaves a note! (We've had our bumpers hit 3 times leaving big dents and have never had anyone leave a note).
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Maritsa
06/18/09

@gangey: A high school kid hit my husband's car and left a note - I was surprised. He asked us to call him on his cell because he didn't want to get in trouble with his dad.
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Penny
06/18/09

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Sadie, what a lovely post. Both stories point to the importance of simply being kind, smiling, patience and generally trying to be a good person. Nothing puts me in a better mood than when I have or see a positive encounter such as yours. I am not a softie by any means, but it gives me the warm fuzzies.
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BabyJane
06/18/09

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This is a lovely post, Sadie. Thanks for the smile.
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sarahxo
06/18/09

@BabyJane: Seconded. What a nice, happy post. It is a good reminder that we should always go out of our way to be kind, because even the little things can make or break someone's day.
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BabyJane
06/18/09

@sarahxo: That's very true, sometimes the smallest gestures have the biggest impact.
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