"The Cats Don't Criticize": A Single Writer's Semi-Sad Celibacy

Kit Naylor says she's "55 years old, a spinster long past my sell-by date, no kids — and I haven't had sex in a decade and a half." In her article on Salon, she writes that she could probably score some casual sex, but she wants to be in love — and historically, she's fallen in love with unavailable men. So for the past… » 12/09/08 2:00pm 12/09/08 2:00pm

Dry Spells: Bad For Your Health, Good For His 'Gasm

I am not a fan of dry spells » 8/18/08 2:40pm 8/18/08 2:40pm. I know they're supposed to give you time to think, or to grieve the end of a relationship, but all I ever do is think about how I'm getting laid and how the loss of the relationship means the loss of access to regular sex, which means I'm and how much of a pain in the ass it is to to…