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lmarmst
09/23/09

In reply to The Small Screen: A Professional Fatass Gives Drop Dead Diva A Second Look
I've never seen the show (don't have cable!) but I'm curious as to whether the issue of age ever comes up in the Deb/Jane transition. For a 24 year old woman to be shape-shifted into the body of a 30-something seems like it would cause another layer of disappointment, given the young old, thin fat message to which women are constantly subjected. Does this issue ever come up? Or does fat trump age in the hierarchy of undesirable female traits?
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mariamariamaria
09/23/09

@lmarmst: I have this whole season DVR'd but have yet to see it... but I do recall seeing commercials for the "Oh my God I'm 30!" episode, so yes, New Jane also addresses being older too (I think!)
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Alessar
09/23/09

@lmarmst: Lifetime.com does have whole episodes available for online viewing.
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lemniskate67
09/22/09

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Just FYI, the "old" Jane didn't die so that Deb could live. Jane died when she was fated to die, and that just happened to be at the same moment Deb pushed the button and got herself sent back to earth - they took over Jane's life, but she had lived as much of it as she was originally fated to do.

Yes, weak story - but Jane didn't die so Deb could Learn A Very Valuable Lesson. She died in the confrontation with the gunman who was after her boss, plain and simple.
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Trulymadlyme
09/22/09

@lemniskate67: yup. That was going to happen regardless according to the terms of the universe the show created.

I love the quirky legal stuff mixed in with the crazy universe this character is living in. In an odd way, it reminds me of Ally McBeal. It's fun, fluffy, and they actually are handling the whole death of both women pretty well. I also love, love, love that Jane's (I mean, er Deb's) model friend is not the typical magical "black best friend."
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Le Kangourou de Kataroo
09/22/09

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This show is probably my biggest guilty pleasure. Sure, it can be contrived and over the top, but I think it, while it takes steps back with size stereotypes, it also brings to light issues that people may not think about if they're not above a size 10 (the biggest size in the boutique Jane sued). I also like the Jane/Kim interaction, especially with Deb getting used to the judgement in Jane's body that she gets from Kim, and Kim not trying to hide it.
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Scal
09/22/09

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This is a great article and I don't want to detract from that, but I am not sure why you call yourself a PUF? In your headshots you look like a healthy woman - not skinny, sure, but hardly "fat". I'm curious then as to what your motivations for identifying as "fat" are. Is it because you wish to normalise the use of the word to describe certain physical characteristics, thereby removing the judgmental subtext?

Also, while I am not a "fat" woman, I am probably 14 or 15 kgs over my ideal weight. I am healthy and exercise, but my portion control is pretty bad. I recently went to the doctor to talk about my weight to work out how concerned I should be, and she point-blank refused to discuss it with me, even though I have good self-image and objectively need to loose weight. Some doctors are so concerned about body image and self-esteem that they won't discuss what is essentially a medical issue.

So while I agree that the "normal" fat-person interaction with doctors is unhelpful, I think the reverse issue is also problematic.
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Kate Harding
09/22/09

@Scal: Short version: I'm clinically obese, and yes, the reclamation of fat is partly about normalizing it/removing the judgment. Long version: [www.salon.com]
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Bitingpika
09/22/09

@Scal: Hmph. I'm almost exactly the same size as Kate Harding, and my last doctor suggested weight loss surgery within 10 minutes of meeting me. No, he did not ask what I actually eat. No, he did not bother reading the chart that included information about my endocrine disorders. Maybe he's a freak who enjoys the idea of destroying functioning digestive systems or maybe his Porsche needed serving, but he's far from rare.
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Vidya108
09/22/09

@Scal: So, you're faulting a medical professional for refusing to buy into a medically unsupported cultural myth that higher body weights are unhealthy and can/should be altered?
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Scal
09/22/09

@Kate Harding: thanks for the link. It's good to know.
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Scal
09/22/09

@Vidya108: Carrying an extra 14kgs is bad for your knees, if nothing else.

If I am objectively overweight, and I have questions about it, it seems odd that the doctor wouldn't talk about it with me. I wasn't asking for surgery or diet pills - I was asking whether it was an issue that required immediate redress, or if I could aim to loose the weight over a period of time. She became flustered and brushed my question off.

I once went to the doctor to talk about my greying hair (I was 22). Sure, grey hair is a cosmetic issue only, and perhaps on that basis you would think that a doctor refusing to look into it a aplaudable. However, I would say that it - like weight gain - can suggest underlying problems. Also, even if it's not a a problem in itself or a symptom of a problem, if you want to have it fixed, and medicine can provide that fix, wouldn't you expect your doctor to talk to you about it if you asked her to?
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rixatrix
09/22/09

@Scal: My doctor doesn't really want to talk about it with me, either, but I'd guess I'm only 20-30lbs overweight. (And I say I guess because I've had my body fat percentage tested and carry an above-average amount of lean mass, so I'm going by those calculations rather than the height/weight charts.)

But the thing is, your doctor isn't there to help you improve your proxy of health. Your doctor is there to make sure you are healthy. If your bloodwork, blood pressure, hormones and knees are all functioning at a good level, then there would be no reason for them to suggest you go to lengths to lose weight. Dieting can be even unhealthier than staying a bit heavy but in good health. And unfortunately, a lot of people don't think, "I have a few extra pounds, I'd better eat sensibly and get some more exercise," they think, "I'm fat, time to eat nothing but grapefruits and chicken broth for a week."
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philoclea
09/23/09

@rixatrix: I have to say, I really get Scal's point on this one. I've also gained weight in the past years, and you know what, for my body, it's really *extra* weight. My back is weaker, I've had knee pains, gall bladder problems. Most of this time I've been under BMI 25 (and yes -- BMI is bullshit), but I've been unhealthy. It's not a huge amount either -- 15 lbs -- and I wasn't skinny to begin with, but for my body, it's too much.

A good general practitioner should be concerned with any unusual signs. Maybe the weight gain is due to a birth control pill? Maybe due to stress that will also have other negative effects on health? I also had my OB/GYN brush off my mentions of my weight gain, and yeah, it made me feel better, but that feeling went away when I realised I had health problems I didn't use to have.
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iheartapocalypse
09/23/09

@Bitingpika: I'm only like 15 lbs overweight and the first thing my new doctor said to me is "Have you tried Weight Watchers?" I was like, first of all, "Wow," second of all, "What can you tell me about the other doctors in your practice?"
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Lolita Hazed
09/22/09

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My mom's boyfriend's sister writes for this. We're not sure how we feel about it.
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Acefreakly
09/22/09

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ugh - You are so right about the gulf between a straight 14 or 16 and a plus. I'm a straight 12/14 and I can't tell you how many times I've gone shopping and tried something on that I either swam in or busted out of. Can anyone recommend a store that does it right?
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Kate Harding
09/22/09

@Acefreakly: The best solutions I found at that size were junior plus sizes, where the 1X will often bridge the gap (missphit.com, some b&lu, faith 21, several brands at alight.com, a couple of Target brands, and I think SWAK Designs) and stuff geared toward a somewhat older market -- Eddie Bauer, Land's End, J. Jill, etc. -- where everything tends to run a bit bigger.
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NewsBunny
09/22/09

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I'm fat and can go fifteen rounds with a heavy bag.

I can also go twenty miles on my bike in a little over two hours.

AND my new activity running -- I'm up to 3.5 m iles.

When, O when, will society realize that an overweight woman can kick ass?
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brokenscope
09/22/09

@NewsBunny: About the time it starts to associate health with fitness not thinness and health magazines stop touting cardio as the only form of exercise.
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boobookitt
09/22/09

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What bothered me about this weeks show was the utterly distracting amount of Botox in Liza Minnelli's and Delta Burke's faces. They could barely move their lips. It was creepy. And made me wonder if the lesson is - it may be ok to be chubby, but don't get old!
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sassyredhead
09/22/09

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I have said before on this site that I adore this show, faults and all. It's just so cool to see someone that looks a bit like me(big girl) on tv. I think it's a funny, charming show. And yes, More Fred please!
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boobookitt
09/22/09

@sassyredhead: Fred is way too good for stacie!
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Kate Harding
09/22/09

@boobookitteh: Co-signed! I actually wish Stacy were a more interesting character to me -- it actually seems too easy that the conventionally beautiful foil is dumb as a stick. And because of that, I find Fred's all-consuming attraction to her incredibly disappointing. (I mean, on one level, it's realistic, but I'd expect that character to go for a smart chick, regardless of what she looks like.)
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tessa
09/22/09

@boobookitteh: I think that chemistry-wise, Fred and Jane are much better suited. I know that we are supposed to ponder whether or not Jane and Grayson can be together (read: can this dude who was with a model love a fatty fat fatty?), but I hope they recognize that it comes across differently on screen.
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Kate Harding
09/22/09

@tessa: And I will co-sign that as well. I keep forgetting I'm supposed to give a damn about Grayson. (I mean, I like him fine. But do I care if he's with Kim instead of Jane? Not really.) I've been all about Jane/Fred from day one, because that's where I actually see chemistry. Like to think maybe they're going there eventually, with Stacy and Grayson just being distractions at the moment, but who knows?

I do like that she's apparently going to date a guy who's not in the regular cast now.
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sequined
09/01/09

In reply to Chris Brown Does Remember Assaulting Rihanna, He Just Won't Talk About It
I would just like to point out, because I think it's awesome, that Paula didn't say AI was good for her, but rather that she was good for it. That is what a diva does, my friends!
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Lolita Hazed
09/01/09

In reply to Chris Brown Does Remember Assaulting Rihanna, He Just Won't Talk About It
Tia & Tamara's new movie: R. Kelly's "Same Girl", but as a movie.
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lisas
09/01/09

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God damn it all to hell, I'm going to be super pissed if I end up taking a shine to bloody Rumer bloody Willis. Fuck.
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Jezebabe
09/01/09

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Re: Pete Wentz item: You know what? Something tells me 9-month-olds appreciate giant breasts very much. Just sayin'.
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Cunning_Linguist
09/01/09

@Jezebabe: I'm amazed that his 9 month old can read.
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euterpe35
09/01/09

In reply to Chris Brown Does Remember Assaulting Rihanna, He Just Won't Talk About It
Dear Joanna Lumley,

You're a wonderful actress. Yes, it's true that we "crones" can't expect to play young lead roles in movies. However, I respectfully disagree that we should just go quietly.

I think there should be more roles for older female actors. Now, how do we go about changing that?
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flamesonthesideofmyface
09/01/09

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I must need more coffee or something, but the thought running through my head right now is "Heh heh. Stephen Fry said 'moobs'" I gotta say though, there's not enough Stephen Fry news in general. Moar plz.
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Mrs. Stephen Fry
09/01/09

@flamesonthesideofmyface: Absolutely agree.
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