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11/02/09
In my experience, the dudes that are grossed out by pubic hair, have other issues. They're the ones overly obsessed with their own appearance, and also– they just don't love women. I don't mean they're homosexual, but they don't love, honor, and respect women they way they should. Perhaps I'm getting too deep on this, but I really think it's indicative of how much a man truly loves women. If he'll enthusiastically go down on you regardless of how long your pubic – or leg! – hair is, ignoring it along with granny panties and any other obstacle? He's the definition of a real man in my book! #advice
11/01/09
I think that makes sense.
I trim mine, but I'll NEVER wax. (Too scary). When my boyfriend told me he'd like it if I didn't do anything to them, I decided that I liked him even more. :)
I guess he missed the "conditioning" day in high school. #advice
11/01/09
I'd say that two more important influences are swim-suit styles and (most importantly) the fact that oral sex is no longer as taboo as it was. In my experience, personal preferences vary a lot more than the line about how porn is influencing expectations allows for. #advice
11/02/09
I think "threatening" is taking it too far, but porn is the biggest influence. #advice
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Some women seem to have the idea that men can always get hard at the drop of a hat with minimal stimulation... as seen in porn... except in reality, a lot of those male porn stars pop viagra like it's candy.
On the subject of pubic hair... personally I prefer if a woman has pubic hair. Being completely shaved/waxed to me sends the message of having sex with a "girl" rather than a "Woman".
But as well, I'm not a fan of mainstream porn with the completely hairless bodies, fake overdubbed sounds and same overdone procedure (BJ, followed by vaginal, followed by anal, followed by facial). The sex I see in mainstream porn is too formulaic and fake. It doesn't resemble what a real woman looks like when she climaxes for real. To me, there is nothing more hot than watching a woman's body shudder as she climaxes and feel her squirt all over me.
Many men and women don't even know that women are capable of squirting... or don't even realize it's NOT urine.
This is one of the consequences of not having REAL sex education in school. What we have right now in schools is a sterilized sorry excuse for sex education that seems to be more focused on instilling fear into kids (by mainly focusing on pregnancy and STDs) rather than teaching the WHOLE picture. Honestly I think it would be healthy if, as part of sex education, everyone had to get totally naked and see themselves as they are and realize what real people look like. Yeah there would be embarrassment... but part of growing up is actually having to deal with stuff like that.
But when it comes to sex and *intimacy*, many quarters of society want to deal with things by *not* dealing with them. #advice
11/03/09
I forget who it was, but some porn star's autobiography had a chapter titled "Dear Sweet Jesus, Please Let Me Get An Erection".
It's the reason 99% of guys can't hack it in porn. If it happens to you once or twice, you're basically washed out of the business. #advice
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That's what these men want - a little girl.
Yuk! #advice
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It's decent now, but it just doesn't seem to be progressing as fast and Chewbacca-like as I want it . . . #advice
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[www.videosift.com] #advice
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So these men exist, but they are extremely weird. #advice
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my bf is very very hairy and it is a big turnoff to me. i try so hard to get over it but its hard and some days I look at that bear rug next to me and just can't be turned on. any advice? #advice
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I refer to him as my furry orangutang. I love him. Just the way he is. If he waxed anything, I'd hate it. I was upset when he shaved his beard.
I can also easily find him in a crowd. He glows like a tiki torch. #advice
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The last I heard, having or not having hair near one's vulva doesn't affect a person's overall health or ability to get proper sustenance. The comparison is ludicrous. #advice