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In my experience, people usually think of people who never attended regular school as being either religious or famous or stupid somehow. There are a lot of us who wish so hard we could have that "normal" experience, but we couldn't for health or monetary or any other number of reasons.
There's nothing wrong in my mind about saying that high school is a normal experience or that Dakota Fanning is a pretty normal girl. But implying that she is normal because she is going to high school can feel hurtful if you're used to seeing reminders about how your life has completely veered off the regular path.
Also, completely unrelated, but I love your username! Westing Game FTW! #dakotafanningteenvogue
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And thanks about the name :) #dakotafanningteenvogue
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I'm not trying to fight or anything, it just struck me as someone being a bit overly sensitive. Going to high school is a normal experience for a kid in America. That doesn't mean it's universal, but it is normal.
Anyway, cheers and all that :) #dakotafanningteenvogue
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It is technically illegal, yes, but for health reasons it is allowed, and there are several outside organizations that will enroll a kid and say they are in high school without having them attending any classes.
Perhaps I was being overly sensitive. It is a very personal issue that has brought me a lot of pain, and that most people never think about or notice. Normal can become an extremely loaded concept and I think it could be used slightly more cautiously. Saying that the majority of kids attend highschool isn't really hurtful, but saying that normal kids do (as this article implies) can be. When you have a condition that makes your life completely out of control, it's hard when you hear people talking about how normal and regular an experience is that you just never got a chance at, that seems so magical and foreign to you.
I've also been having a very difficult period with these very issues, so I am very reactive. But I don't think that more awareness of the variety of people's experiences is a bad thing. #dakotafanningteenvogue
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