When offered to go to the small park (which had a single swing and nothing else) because there was not time for the real park with the jungle gyms and slides, I calmly told my dad, "That park is shit." I was two. Still have a potty mouth, but it was on hiatus until I was 17 or 18.
I'm entertained by cursing children. A lot of the kids at my work swear up and down, and the little ones are pretty funny.
I was visiting a friend and her four-year-old daughter was showing me her dress-up clothes. She had her dollhouse perfectly arranged and then said "There's a dinosaur in my dollhouse; What the Fuck?!" We couldn't help but laugh because she said it perfectly in context.
Language when just an expletive is one thing, but when it's abusive and accompanied with physical violence-there are some serious issues.
Apparently, when I was three-ish, I walked by the television, which was on with the volume way up, said "Shut the fuck up" to it, and turned it off. I am proud of little me.
What's the point of showing the clips where they curse, really? I guess to make an impact, but since you can't even tell what they're saying, it kinda... muffles the impact.
I have to wonder if there is significant domestic violence or abuse in the homes, especially with the "Andrew" boy. Obviously, I don't know, but I would suspect that these kinds of things are modeled in front of him (whether by accident or on purpose). Yeah, little kids get angry and hit, little kids say bad words, but something is off about him. "Thomas" seems to just be kindof a normal kid, but just says bad things and throws a tantrum. He looks like he knows he gets more mileage from his words for shock, rather than actually meaning them. His tantrum looked... "normal" to me.
I don't know much about kids, so I could be totally off here, but I wonder if they aren't seeing domestic abuse.
I love it when parents blame the daycare. While I'm sure bad language does happen occasionally in daycare, most daycares go out of their way to curb bad language if only so they can stay in business. If you truly think your kid curses because of daycare, find a new place. Take some responsibility.
My first memory of swearing actually came via my little brother, who once called my mother a 'fucking nono' mid-tantrum.
I think that was the first memory I have of someone using the F-bomb, and I didn't even realise at the time! nono is the Maori word for 'bum', and Wh (pronounced 'f') is a pretty common letter of the Maori alphabet (see: Whakapapa Ski Field)...
I just thought he'd said something bad in Maori! Ha, the penny didn't drop until at *least* a year later.
Sigh, I wish I was still that innocent...
Do you guys renmember the Octomom documentary where they showed one of her little kids call her a stupid bitch? I mean, that kid learned it from somewhere...most likely his mother.
I think that there is a level of positive reinforcement that goes on when children first start saying these things (because it's cute or funny) and the whole issue just balloons from there. Parents feel like they can't scold a child for doing something they once encouraged.
According to my mother, I used to pronounce Kentucky Fried Chicken, KenFUCKY Fried Chicken when I was little...I don't think she ever tried to correct me.
@clb1020: Lots of little kids do this. My brother had a phase where "truck" was pronounced "fuck," as in "wanna see my fuck?" yikes! Chalk it up to poor enunciation.
@spazztastic: My sister learned some pretty fancy swearin' from my grandma when she was little.
I'm a little afraid of potential future children that I may or may not have with my boyfriend, as his Mexican mother is constantly swearing. And not English swears. The really fancy Spanish swears.
I saw this as I was recouping from some badness on my couch yesterday. The kids are the products of their stressed out Moms, both of whom are it seems trying to hold in down in the wake of absent dad. (Thomas' dad had died recently and it hadn't been addressed a la Sally Draper). The cursing is a meh problem but the anger is heartbreaking. These little boys already think hitting is the answer.
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I'm entertained by cursing children. A lot of the kids at my work swear up and down, and the little ones are pretty funny.
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Language when just an expletive is one thing, but when it's abusive and accompanied with physical violence-there are some serious issues.
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I have to wonder if there is significant domestic violence or abuse in the homes, especially with the "Andrew" boy. Obviously, I don't know, but I would suspect that these kinds of things are modeled in front of him (whether by accident or on purpose). Yeah, little kids get angry and hit, little kids say bad words, but something is off about him. "Thomas" seems to just be kindof a normal kid, but just says bad things and throws a tantrum. He looks like he knows he gets more mileage from his words for shock, rather than actually meaning them. His tantrum looked... "normal" to me.
I don't know much about kids, so I could be totally off here, but I wonder if they aren't seeing domestic abuse.
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wise beyond his years
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I think that was the first memory I have of someone using the F-bomb, and I didn't even realise at the time! nono is the Maori word for 'bum', and Wh (pronounced 'f') is a pretty common letter of the Maori alphabet (see: Whakapapa Ski Field)...
I just thought he'd said something bad in Maori! Ha, the penny didn't drop until at *least* a year later.
Sigh, I wish I was still that innocent...
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I asked him where he learned it (I knew it wasn't me or my STB-Ex) and he said he learned it from GRANDMA.
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I'm a little afraid of potential future children that I may or may not have with my boyfriend, as his Mexican mother is constantly swearing. And not English swears. The really fancy Spanish swears.
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