You know, as a child I was technically classified as obese. I have very dense bones, and I was built like a brick shithouse. From the time I woke up to the time I went to bed, I was moving. Running, biking, swimming, jumping on the trampoline, playing with the dog, playing street hockey... I ate healthy food because my mom was very health-conscious (still is), and I dare say I was one of the most fit children in my school. In grade 6, I was 135lbs and I was still under 5'. That's the cusp of overweight and obese according to the BMI.
That fitness, that childhood of playing and swimming, it saved my life when I was hit by a car. Anyone with less muscle on them would have been hurt a fuckton more than I was. I suffered multiple fractures to my left leg around the knee, and a completely shattered left shoulder. A couple years later, I had to get my right knee surgically broken to stop my growth, as my growth plates had fused together in my left leg, and I was growing like a god damn weed. All of my height is now in my torso.
Unfortunately, my injuries while not life-threatening, were still severe and many of those things I loved doing before were all but impossible to me. My knees popped easily, twisted easily, my left arm lost much of its range of movement, I couldn't run anymore as my gait is altered uncomfortably, I lost my sense of balance, and I gained weight.
By the time I got to grade 9, I was 5'5" and 160lbs, which is not obese but is still classified as overweight. I didn't think much of it, I didn't have many body issue images, I was pretty comfortable in my own skin until my grade 9 gym teacher made us all weigh each other for some "fitness module." I was the heaviest in the class. She took one look at my chart, gave me the "body check" with her eyes, anyone whose ever been called fat knows that look, and announced to the class while holding me by the shoulder that THIS is what happens when you eat junk food and don't exercise. I was absolutely shocked, and my self-esteem crumbled. People started calling me fatty, I stopped eating. I would pretend to eat my dinner at night so my mom wouldn't know, and I was so ashamed of myself for the first time in my life.
There were no pools near where I lived in my teen years, no bike paths, everything was spread out... While I can walk all day, I have to take frequent (every 20 minutes or so) breaks so my knees don't twist. I was anorexic through high school and didn't get over my "disordered eating" as it were until I moved in with my partner at 18.
Shaming "obese" children is not the way to advocate healthier lifestyles. I have never eaten any worse than my skinny friends and skinny partner, I come from a long line of hardy stock. People with dense bones, big frames, and lots of muscle. I'm bigger because I'm meant to be. Even when I was eating a handful of peanuts every day as my only meal, I never once went below a size 14. That one stupid fucking bitch, that god damn gym teacher who was 5'2" and slim and blonde and gorgeous, ruined my self image for nearly a decade.
Why can't we just want people to be healthy and happy with how they are? Why must we lace in "fat loss" and "weight loss" with healthy lifestyle programs? There is no fucking ideal weight, no ideal body type. People are different, people are always going to be shaped differently and weigh in at different weights. I'm so fucking sick of this "war on fat" bullshit.
@Hahaue: Oh man, we could be twins. I was a chubby, dense kid, but did swim team and tennis lessons all summer, then tennis team in high school, so no one can accuse me of being sedentary. When I was 14, I weighed 155, and my dad looked at the BMI charts and told me I needed to lose 5 lbs. And the next year, I sank into clinical depression and gained 15, and would've killed to be back at 155.
The thing is, BMI measurements and those goddamn overweight/obese/normal categories are only a PROXY for health, a PROXY for fat to lean mass ratios. Having my body fat tested by my trainer was the best thing I've ever done. Sure, I may be carrying more fat than your average gym bunny, but I'm also carrying 123lbs of lean mass (bones, muscle, blood, etc.), which clearly illustrates it would be nigh on impossible for me to be 120lbs without sacrificing a lot of beneficial tissue in my body. Perhaps if I starved the muscle off, but then I'd be just flabby and weak - but I'd be less effected by gravity? Something like that can put things in perspective.
@rixatrix: Yep, the BMI is a load of crap and I don't listen to it anymore. My apparently ideal body weight is what I weighed when I was anorexic, and I would never ever ever go back to that. I was abso-friggin-lutely unhealthy and out of shape. I felt awful, I was tired, depressed, hungry, irritable, irrationally angry.
I'd much rather be labeled fat, and be able to play with my dog and eat good meals and enjoy life. I think I'll stick with my 190lbs.
@Hahaue: Oh yes. Don't even get me STARTED on good food! It seems like the more I try to create lovely, delicious meals full of flavors I love - anchovies, olives, good cheese, sourdough bread, etc. - the more I also happen to add really beneficial foods into my diet. Like a good, homemade Greek salad, piled high with radishes and onions and greens and cucumbers and feta and homemade dressing made with olive oil. Way better than trying to choke down dry chicken with green beans and brown rice because I think it's what I should be eating.
Interesting that no concern for mental health is demonstrated by these body-hatred-inducing government 'initiatives'. I guess they've realized that a self-loathing population focused on policing superficial bodily characteristics is much easier to herd than a self-loving, body-diversity-embracing, critically thinking one.
Is it possible that this was not roundly supported because we have a switch when it comes to kids, all of our "but the children, such as!" jokes aside?
It is not healthy to smoke, but I do.
It is not healthy to drink too much, but I probably do.
It is not healthy to ignore exercise, but I do.
That's why my kids have heard "Do as I say, not as I do."
I would love to see the results of a largely disseminated, totally anonymous survey that would ask the following yes & no questions:
1. Would you be willing to have your right arm removed 3" above the elbow if the procedure guaranteed you would be thin for the rest of your life without having to diet or (not for fun) exercise?
2. Would you be willing to have a non-fatal heart attack at 45 if you were guaranteed to be thin throughout your lifespan without dieting or (not for fun) exercise?
3. Would you be willing to weigh 350lbs if you were guaranteed to be healthy, feel great, have perfect mobility and live to be a minimum of 80 years?
I think that it would reveal, once and for all, that it's NOT about health. It's about looks. It's about looks. It's about looks. The pundits DON'T care about your health. It's about looks.
@baboonbutt: I did read a survey a few years ago that showed that women would be willing to shorten their lifespan if it meant being thin. I'll try to find it.
@baboonbutt: 1 and 2, no way. Because you can be thin and still have a heart attack, still get diabetes, still have high-blood pressure and all sorts of ailments related to unbalanced diets.
And 3, in all honesty, I can't answer. Because I'm having such a hard time reconciling the idea that I could be 350 lbs and feel great about myself, and not have things I wouldn't be capable of doing. Which is not to say that it couldn't be TRUE, but that it's odd I have this mental block against considering it. The bias runs deep, even when you believe all people should be able to live without being judged by their appearance. I'll have to examine this in myself...
@labeled: absolutely. How many times have you heard a parent discuss how hard their child will have it if they grow up overweight? How difficult and mean other children are to a fat child? That is not about health, that's about fitting in.
Actually, if I remember correctly you are going through an issue similar to this, no?
@rixatrix: Look deeper. You are at a point right now where you can learn a lot about yourself if you are willing to think long and hard about why you can't imagine being happy at 350lbs, given perfect health and mobility were assured.
Even if the outcome is that you decide you do not agree with the tenants of FA, I think it is fucking awesome that you are willing to examine yourself like that.
Most 350-pound people do not have perfect health and mobility. If you want people to consider a hypothetical, for the sake of illuminating an argument point, it has to be SOMEWHAT reasonable.
@Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny.: Totally. As someone who falls to the outer sizes in the regularly offered range, it's easy for me to stand up for people who look like me, who are curvy but still healthy and vibrant. I do have several very heavy friends or family members who are wonderful, lovely, funny, gorgeous people. I don't have any idea what they weigh. I have no idea what 350 lbs looks like, but the number itself is overwhelming. It is interesting to examine if and where my rooting for "fat people" stops and the bias begins again. 500 lbs? 1000? Something to think about, for sure.
overweight is not obese, and obesity is an IMPORTANT issue.
not into fat-shaming, but yes, I do think it's appropriate for the government to promote healthy, obesity-combating policies. being overweight may not pose all the risks that people associate with it, but being obese does.
why is it wrong to want to help children not become obese?
Anyway, the gist of my old comment was that sometimes people are so caught up in their insecurities that they can't really see the forest for the trees when it comes to obesity and health. Fat acceptance means rejecting everything and everyone that posits that being fat is "not okay", including, in this case, every major foreign and domestic medical and health body that associates overweight and obesity with a plethora of health concerns. This is how I've always perceived this issue, as a fight between feeling slighted as a fat person living in a society that purportedly values thinness as the ideal, and the current medical belief that being above a certain weight category is known to precipitate a number of health problems.
In this case, keeping kids from becoming obese or helping chubby kids try to lose weight is like a complete rejection of the fat body or something, and that's why fat acceptance people can't get behind anti-obesity initiatives. I guess their position would be to let the kids be obese and overweight because they think there's nothing wrong with that. The medical view and the fat-acceptance view are at odds with each other in this regard, however. Obesity and health are not believed to coexist in the current medical view, and fat acceptance people tend to reject this.
Anyway, I'm just thinking out loud here. I am not fat so I don't think I have a dog in this fight, although it is clear that she is not actually against encouraging good nutrition and good exercise habits in children, she only rejects it when the goal is weight loss, so it really isn't causing any harm. But I really don't think that these health initiatives are all about "looking good" and not about being healthy. I don't think that's supported by the evidence at all. The focus is on preventing health problems by preventing obesity, not to produce a bunch of buff boys and size 0 girls just because they would look good.
@Jezebabe: "Fat acceptance means rejecting everything and everyone that posits that being fat is "not okay", including, in this case, every major foreign and domestic medical and health body that associates overweight and obesity with a plethora of health concerns."
@Jezebabe: But wouldn't it be better to just focus on the health benefits, rather than weight loss? Yes, losing weight can be good for your health, but not necessarily. Why focus so much on weight when the point, according to you, is health? What Kate is saying is that the focus should be health for health's sake, not health to lose weight. Health should be the end goal, not weight.
If you do everything in your power to be healthy as a means to lose weight and you don't lose an ounce, what do you do? Even if your LDL level went down, and you lowered your blood pressure, and improved your flexibility, and you can climb a flight of stairs without getting out of breath, but you still have to squish your ass into the same jeans as before.
@Jezebabe: Fat acceptance means rejecting everything and everyone that posits that being fat is "not okay", including, in this case, every major foreign and domestic medical and health body that associates overweight and obesity with a plethora of health concerns.
Is this something that you have read somewhere or did you come up with this definition of fat acceptance on your own?
@Jezebabe: In this case, keeping kids from becoming obese or helping chubby kids try to lose weight is like a complete rejection of the fat body or something, and that's why fat acceptance people can't get behind anti-obesity initiatives. I guess their position would be to let the kids be obese and overweight because they think there's nothing wrong with that Actually my position, like Kate's, is to advocate the changes that would increase childrens' health (access to fresher foods, better excercise programs, etc.) while not focusing on actual weight being lost. I am pro-healthy kids (no matter what their weight) not anti-obesity. If a child is healthy and is still considered obese than I don't understand why we should tell them they shouldn't be obese. If they aren't healthy and they are obese than I don't understand why we can't encourage them to be healthier, not encourage them to lose weight. PS People that believe in fat acceptance do not have a hive mind. There is no group agenda that we have to push. Talking about FA as though everyone believes the same thing is like talking about feminism as if it means the same thing to every woman.
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@Jill7: The inventor of the BMI wasn't a doctor at all, but rather a poymath and statistician: [en.wikipedia.org]
Also note that it was invented around 1830-50. But you are correct in that the inventor wasn't envisioning it being used as a health index, but more of a way to categorize populations in general. He was rather obsessed with the idea of the "average man" and how to calculate it.
I'm amazed that it should be so controversial on Jezebel to say that healthy food and activity should be made more available and promoted for everyone regardless of body size. I decided today to finally delurk, but after seeing the level of anger in response to a proposal that we focus on improving health (proven long-term effective) instead of reducing weight (proven long-term ineffective and potentially harmful), I'm not sure I want to be part of this community after all.
@honoria: The outrage is that preventing childhood obesity is not about reducing somebody's weight. It is about preventing weight gain that is associated with multiple lifelong illnesses. This is not about shaming children because of their weight. It is about trying to reverse a trend that is resulting in our children being sick.
@honoria: I'm a bit surprised by the vitriol here as well, and I think everyone needs to step back a bit- you can disagree with the post, but please don't attack the writer or other commenters. Thanks.
@hortense: I may be missing comment threads (naturally) but I wanted to say that I found it refreshing to be able to discuss this without being instantly shut down as being a 'shamer' - but ifat any point Ms. Harding was offended, I apologize, as criticizing the author herself was certainly was not my intent.
@hortense: I'm honestly not seeing all that much vitriol-- some questioning, some confusion, some assertions, but no vitriol against the author that I can see.
I think the most vitriol is in the piece itself, when Ms. Harding quotes her own writing from last year about Europe.
@honoria: Please stay. The best part about Jezebel is that people learn and change. We do have a few very staunch advocates for the "War on Obesity" and it can be a bit disheartening but overall commenters here are very open minded and educated.
@Lymed: If you are right, and the changes proposed will reduce childhood obesity (and not just make children healthier while not affecting their weight) than what harm is to be done by not making this only about weight loss? The implemented changes will cause children to lose weight, regardless of how they are marketed, and everyone will win.
If, however you are wrong, and healthy changes do not, in fact, cause childrens' weight to go down, but do make them healthier, than marketing the changes as a "War on childhood obesity" will cause great damage. It will unecessisarily target overweight children, it will cause anger and disapointment when the changes are followed and no weight loss is seen and it will ignore the section of children that are thin but not healthy.
I don't think the point about life-expectancy makes sense. Yes, life-expectancy NOW is higher than ever, but she points out that doctors are worried about the NEXT generation. You know, the kids with diabetes that only adults used to get. So maybe they have reason to believe that life-expectancy will soon drop. Just maybe not right this second.
@DJDeeJay: Life expectancy has steadily been increasing for decades. If it suddenly drops like a stone, I'll stand corrected, but I don't see it happening.
@Kate Harding: But the life expectancy for every new generation has never FALLEN the way that it is now. Yes, the aggregate life expectancy of the country has yet to be affected by the huge increase in obese children, but their shorter lifespans won't affect the country's life expectancy for decades. And by then, we'll be about 3 generations too late.
@Kate Harding: I don't think anyone said it would 'drop like a stone,' just maybe decrease a little. They're not claiming that all of a sudden our children won't live past 50.
Well, what I took away from this article is that Kate is calling for more widespread government support of promoting a healthy lifestyle, cleaner environment, and social equity for it's own sake in addition to lowering rates of childhood obesity. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
I guess the real problem is that this country is so sick on so many levels that we're reduced to responding to our most pressing and extreme needs. We have so many issues that we can't even afford to focus on preventative care - we're in full on crisis-response mode, and that's plain sad.
The problem with tieing in healthy habits with weight loss is that it singles out people who qualify as "overweight" and higher on the BMI scale and it ignores the thinner folks who need to change their habits. Also, there is the opinion that adopting a new lifestyle is working only if the person is losing weight, even though some research suggests that one can have major benefits even if they don't lose a single pound: [www.ars.usda.gov]
As another commenter stated, the problem is that a program like this might lose funding if there isn't major weight loss, even if there are other benefits.
Another thing to remember is that while we may say, oh it's just a health thing, we want the kids to be ok, but intentions can get twisted very easily. Fat kids are treated like shit--by their peers, by gym teachers (yeah, I know not all of them are sadists, but a heckuva lot of them are), by doctors (check out the blog First, Do No Harm--it includes mistreatment of fat kids and teens: [fathealth.wordpress.com]) and sadly, even by their own families.
So the last thing they need is to be nagged about dropping the Twinkie and picking up the celery stick, especially if they aren't eating junk. Yeah, it's good to encourage kids to eat their veggies and such but a lot of the time, this gets twisted to focusing only on weight, and the fat kids in the room get singled out, either subtly or directly. Unfortunately, people have biases and a lot of the time, it's the fat=unhealthy couch potato who eats junk food.
Now I'm not saying there shouldn't be efforts to improve nutrition for children and adults, but it has to be done in a way that is weight-neutral. Focusing on weight will pressure fat kids to lose and let thin kids think they have nothing to worry about. Also, this will lead a lot of people to think the only measure of health is weight (yes, I know it's not the intention, but you have to factor in how people will interpret things, and a lot will use very simplistic interpretations).
And finally, like Kate pointed out, kids grow weird, like puppies. A short fat kid may be a tall thin kid next summer, and a thin kid may become a fat kid. Weight gain can precede a growth spurt, so freaking out about it would be silly. Some kids are steadily fat or thin (I was quite thin throughout my childhood and teen years and only gained a lot when I went on certain meds), but others can be all over the place size-wise when they're growing. You can't focus on the numbers as much as you would with an adult (and even then, weight should be considered only one of many factors).
So yeah, yay healthy initiatives, but if weight is a part of it, eventually it'll be the only focus. It's part of our society to treat weight as the be-all-end-all measurment of health, so that's why Kate is unhappy.
No. Obesity is dangerous and bad for your health, this isn't about "chubby kids" or teenagers going through transition time this is about children who are not getting the proper nutrition and exercise they need which is making them unhealthy and setting them up for life-long health problems and complications. Weight is not purely a matter of looks weight has a HUGE affect on your health and overall well-being and to add that's for both sides of the coin.
@milominderbinder: I'm, according to the BMI scale, obese. I'm extremely healthy, minus a pesky injury from running. I've always been heavy-set, and have always been considered "overweight/obese" by the BMI scale.
I was raised by hippie, extremely health conscious parents and was eating organic, whole-foods in moderate quantities before it was trendy to do so. I was well-informed about nutrition from an early age.
I was, and still am active. My childhood consisted of biking, swim team, gymnastics, crew and summers hiking in the mountains. These days I hike, bike, do yoga and weight train, and eat the same kinds of foods I was raised on.
My point of all this above is that I do everything such anti-obesity programs would recommend, and I'm still obese.
Obesity can for some people be an indicator of poor nutrition or a sedentary lifestyle, but not for everyone. Skinny people can also have poor nutrition and not enough exercise, but in the "war on obesity" these people are being neglected.
I find your generalizations about the health of obese people to be extremely misinformed. The size of my body is not "dangerous" and I'm not some special unicorn, there are many people like me.
@Honeybunch: I said on both sides of the coin, acknowledging that extreme thinness can be dangerous too and a sign of an unhealthy lifestyle. There are exceptions to everything I just think it is dangerous to make the argument that weight is all about looks because it's not. The obesity/bmi scale may have some inaccuracies but if it was truly so terrible I think the scientific and medical community would change it.
@milominderbinder: The obesity/bmi scale may have some inaccuracies but if it was truly so terrible I think the scientific and medical community would change it.
1. Change takes time 2. Many doctors and scientists are already trying to change the way obesity is seen and bmi is calculated
@milominderbinder: I'm in the scientific community and I can tell you that there is often a big divide between what isscientifically sound information and what is reported as medical fact. And just what vivelafat says, there are many people in those fields who are trying to change it.
Sounds eminently reasonable. Investigating ways in which kids in underserved communities can become more active and eat better is not tantamount to saying starve yourself into Kate-Moss thinness.
Have you heard of diabesity? It's a real problem. And it disproportionately affects poor minorities.
Government guidelines played a role in skyrocketing obesity rates in the first place. White starchy things made with corn syrup were the base of the food pyramid because ALL FAT WAS BAD FOR YOU and it was essential to eat as many "grains" (or their processed derivatives) as possible! Frosted Flakes were a staple of a balanced breakfast, salty pretzels and low-fat fake-chocolate SnackWells were wholesome snacks, but nuts and cheese were FATTENING because they contain FAT!
So encouraging people to move around more is good. but this better not be the start of more government-sanctioned nutrition fads and food blacklists (or if you really go down a slippery slope, restrictions on how much of government-determined "unhealthy" food people can buy).
@anya629: Um, I think you have the food pyramid inverted. Nut and cheese fit under dairy and protein, which are a pretty large section. corn syrup is mostly sugar, which would be waaaaayyy up at the tippy-top
@colormeroutine: What she is saying though, I think, is that the government has subsidized the corn industry, and corn syrup has been added to most of the carbs that are supposed to form the basis of a healthy diet (the huge bottom section). So those cereals and breads and pastas? Filled with corn syrup (unless you specifically seek out the actual healthy ones)
@colormeroutine: The old food pyramid allotted a much larger section to grains than it did to dairy and protein. The problem was, it didn't really distinguish between whole grains and the Wonder Bread-type carbs that anya mentions. I think she might be saying that our concept of "bad food" is mutable... fat was "the enemy" in the '80s (Ornish diet, focus on cholesterol), now it's sugar (Atkins, South Beach, focus on diabetes).
@AnatomyFightSong: We need some kickass graphic designers to redo this horrid abomination. It's almost entirely unintelligible. It isn't clear and informative like the old pyramid. By looking at the new pyramid, I still don't get what I am supposed to do with all that food spilled at the bottom of the stair well, or were exactly stickfigure man is going. Looks like he is climbing stairs to go down a gay pride slide and fall on a bunch of food.
@Jezebabe: But... it includes a clever pun, "Steps to a healthier you!"
Based on my own work experience with bureaucracy, I would guess that approximately 452 people had to weigh in on this design and it had to go through 79 stages of approval before it was issued.
So...only fat kids should eat healthy because skinny people never have any health issues that directly result from a poor diet?
I went to juinor highschool with a girl who lost all of her hair because of a serious vitamin deficiency. (At least that was the story) She was skinny and addicted to junk food. It was like crack for her; she was born in a country that didn't have it. And don't get me started on my friend who actually managed to get SCURVY. SCURVY!!! He too was skinny and obviously a pirate...I mean, seriously....scurvy.
So yeah, maybe instead of BATTLING CHILDHOOD OBESITY, aka War on little Fatties., they should focus on teaching children and adults about good nutrition and why its important to eat a balanced diet or you might get SCURVY! Argh.
And don't get me started on exercise. As someone who spent the first half of my teens depressed (not clinically) I wish I had known how much better I would have felt it I'd just gotten out and took a dance class or a walk.
@HilliardTortoise: I was ridiculously skinny as a child and I can tell you I had terrible eating habits. My 14 year old sister is similarly slender and rarely ventures outside of what my mother refers to as "white food" (pasta, no sauce, chicken nuggets, variations on bread, etc.). We just got lucky with the genetic lottery, but that doesn't mean we're 100% healthy with awesome eating and exercise habits. Better information could definitely benefit kids of all sizes and lifestyles.
@HilliardTortoise: They aren't only giving obese people access to these things, they are for everyone. The idea is that they will boost overall health for EVERYONE, and as a result ONE of the things that will likely happen is a lowering of obesity rates
@colormeroutine: Not when you call it a war on obesity. What we call things has power. Calling it a war on obesity instead of a health initiative or better living makes the goal and measure of success lowering obesity rates.
@Jezebabe: but by specifically targeting those children who are deemed likely to become obese or how already are obese you are excluding a whole group of thin children that, consciously or sub-conciously, will not be targeted for a change in eating habits and exercise.
As it turns out, losing weight and preventing weight gain are a lot more complicated than, as AP writer Lauran Neergaard infuriatingly puts it, "being more active and eating more fruits and vegetables instead of fatty fast food and treats."
Funny, because on the rare occasions that medical doctors have commented on posts like this that's what they've claimed.
@1.1.1.: When have doctors commented on these posts? Can you give me some links. Also, with all due respect, doctors mis-diagnose patients and are misinformed all of the time. They are just humans. It's called the practice of medicine because it is not absolute. For every doctor you could supply that would attest to fatty food and treats causing weight gain, I could find one that would testify to the opposite.
Sorry, the last time Jezebel ran a post like this (I should learn) I tried to find them, but it took much time. If you go through all the "weight" posts, you will find them. The comments ran between May and now.
More important, it was two doctors who independently posted anonymous comments. They weren't selling any program. They simply said that in their lengthy experience beving seriously overweight was an irrefutable health hazard.
I realize that nothing I say will satisfy certain people here, but they truly were not jerks. They understood that weight loss is difficult and requires profound, life-long changes.
In my experience, doctors don't bullshit patients. They have better things to do. They don't tell an MS patient that the problem can be "fixed" by a behavior change, because it can't; they have no clue what causes it. They don't tell a person with a terminal brain tumor to eat better; they try to prepare the person for death.
When did you hear a doctor say: "Losing weight would be highly beneficial for my patients, but I don't recommend it because it's a medical impossibility for 99% of them."?
@1.1.1.: In my experience, doctors don't bullshit patients. They have better things to do. They don't tell an MS patient that the problem can be "fixed" by a behavior change, because it can't; they have no clue what causes it. They don't tell a person with a terminal brain tumor to eat better; they try to prepare the person for death.
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09/02/09
That fitness, that childhood of playing and swimming, it saved my life when I was hit by a car. Anyone with less muscle on them would have been hurt a fuckton more than I was. I suffered multiple fractures to my left leg around the knee, and a completely shattered left shoulder. A couple years later, I had to get my right knee surgically broken to stop my growth, as my growth plates had fused together in my left leg, and I was growing like a god damn weed. All of my height is now in my torso.
Unfortunately, my injuries while not life-threatening, were still severe and many of those things I loved doing before were all but impossible to me. My knees popped easily, twisted easily, my left arm lost much of its range of movement, I couldn't run anymore as my gait is altered uncomfortably, I lost my sense of balance, and I gained weight.
By the time I got to grade 9, I was 5'5" and 160lbs, which is not obese but is still classified as overweight. I didn't think much of it, I didn't have many body issue images, I was pretty comfortable in my own skin until my grade 9 gym teacher made us all weigh each other for some "fitness module." I was the heaviest in the class. She took one look at my chart, gave me the "body check" with her eyes, anyone whose ever been called fat knows that look, and announced to the class while holding me by the shoulder that THIS is what happens when you eat junk food and don't exercise. I was absolutely shocked, and my self-esteem crumbled. People started calling me fatty, I stopped eating. I would pretend to eat my dinner at night so my mom wouldn't know, and I was so ashamed of myself for the first time in my life.
There were no pools near where I lived in my teen years, no bike paths, everything was spread out... While I can walk all day, I have to take frequent (every 20 minutes or so) breaks so my knees don't twist. I was anorexic through high school and didn't get over my "disordered eating" as it were until I moved in with my partner at 18.
Shaming "obese" children is not the way to advocate healthier lifestyles. I have never eaten any worse than my skinny friends and skinny partner, I come from a long line of hardy stock. People with dense bones, big frames, and lots of muscle. I'm bigger because I'm meant to be. Even when I was eating a handful of peanuts every day as my only meal, I never once went below a size 14. That one stupid fucking bitch, that god damn gym teacher who was 5'2" and slim and blonde and gorgeous, ruined my self image for nearly a decade.
Why can't we just want people to be healthy and happy with how they are? Why must we lace in "fat loss" and "weight loss" with healthy lifestyle programs? There is no fucking ideal weight, no ideal body type. People are different, people are always going to be shaped differently and weigh in at different weights. I'm so fucking sick of this "war on fat" bullshit.
09/02/09
The thing is, BMI measurements and those goddamn overweight/obese/normal categories are only a PROXY for health, a PROXY for fat to lean mass ratios. Having my body fat tested by my trainer was the best thing I've ever done. Sure, I may be carrying more fat than your average gym bunny, but I'm also carrying 123lbs of lean mass (bones, muscle, blood, etc.), which clearly illustrates it would be nigh on impossible for me to be 120lbs without sacrificing a lot of beneficial tissue in my body. Perhaps if I starved the muscle off, but then I'd be just flabby and weak - but I'd be less effected by gravity? Something like that can put things in perspective.
But those charts? Forget it.
09/02/09
I'd much rather be labeled fat, and be able to play with my dog and eat good meals and enjoy life. I think I'll stick with my 190lbs.
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It is not healthy to smoke, but I do.
It is not healthy to drink too much, but I probably do.
It is not healthy to ignore exercise, but I do.
That's why my kids have heard "Do as I say, not as I do."
09/02/09
1. Would you be willing to have your right arm removed 3" above the elbow if the procedure guaranteed you would be thin for the rest of your life without having to diet or (not for fun) exercise?
2. Would you be willing to have a non-fatal heart attack at 45 if you were guaranteed to be thin throughout your lifespan without dieting or (not for fun) exercise?
3. Would you be willing to weigh 350lbs if you were guaranteed to be healthy, feel great, have perfect mobility and live to be a minimum of 80 years?
I think that it would reveal, once and for all, that it's NOT about health. It's about looks. It's about looks. It's about looks. The pundits DON'T care about your health. It's about looks.
Did I mention that it's about looks?
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And 3, in all honesty, I can't answer. Because I'm having such a hard time reconciling the idea that I could be 350 lbs and feel great about myself, and not have things I wouldn't be capable of doing. Which is not to say that it couldn't be TRUE, but that it's odd I have this mental block against considering it. The bias runs deep, even when you believe all people should be able to live without being judged by their appearance. I'll have to examine this in myself...
09/02/09
Actually, if I remember correctly you are going through an issue similar to this, no?
09/02/09
Even if the outcome is that you decide you do not agree with the tenants of FA, I think it is fucking awesome that you are willing to examine yourself like that.
09/03/09
"given perfect health and mobility were assured."
Most 350-pound people do not have perfect health and mobility. If you want people to consider a hypothetical, for the sake of illuminating an argument point, it has to be SOMEWHAT reasonable.
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not into fat-shaming, but yes, I do think it's appropriate for the government to promote healthy, obesity-combating policies. being overweight may not pose all the risks that people associate with it, but being obese does.
why is it wrong to want to help children not become obese?
09/02/09
Anyway, the gist of my old comment was that sometimes people are so caught up in their insecurities that they can't really see the forest for the trees when it comes to obesity and health. Fat acceptance means rejecting everything and everyone that posits that being fat is "not okay", including, in this case, every major foreign and domestic medical and health body that associates overweight and obesity with a plethora of health concerns. This is how I've always perceived this issue, as a fight between feeling slighted as a fat person living in a society that purportedly values thinness as the ideal, and the current medical belief that being above a certain weight category is known to precipitate a number of health problems.
In this case, keeping kids from becoming obese or helping chubby kids try to lose weight is like a complete rejection of the fat body or something, and that's why fat acceptance people can't get behind anti-obesity initiatives. I guess their position would be to let the kids be obese and overweight because they think there's nothing wrong with that. The medical view and the fat-acceptance view are at odds with each other in this regard, however. Obesity and health are not believed to coexist in the current medical view, and fat acceptance people tend to reject this.
Anyway, I'm just thinking out loud here. I am not fat so I don't think I have a dog in this fight, although it is clear that she is not actually against encouraging good nutrition and good exercise habits in children, she only rejects it when the goal is weight loss, so it really isn't causing any harm. But I really don't think that these health initiatives are all about "looking good" and not about being healthy. I don't think that's supported by the evidence at all. The focus is on preventing health problems by preventing obesity, not to produce a bunch of buff boys and size 0 girls just because they would look good.
09/02/09
Not exactly.
In Kate's own words: [kateharding.net]
09/02/09
If you do everything in your power to be healthy as a means to lose weight and you don't lose an ounce, what do you do? Even if your LDL level went down, and you lowered your blood pressure, and improved your flexibility, and you can climb a flight of stairs without getting out of breath, but you still have to squish your ass into the same jeans as before.
09/02/09
Is this something that you have read somewhere or did you come up with this definition of fat acceptance on your own?
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Also note that it was invented around 1830-50. But you are correct in that the inventor wasn't envisioning it being used as a health index, but more of a way to categorize populations in general. He was rather obsessed with the idea of the "average man" and how to calculate it.
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I think the most vitriol is in the piece itself, when Ms. Harding quotes her own writing from last year about Europe.
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If, however you are wrong, and healthy changes do not, in fact, cause childrens' weight to go down, but do make them healthier, than marketing the changes as a "War on childhood obesity" will cause great damage. It will unecessisarily target overweight children, it will cause anger and disapointment when the changes are followed and no weight loss is seen and it will ignore the section of children that are thin but not healthy.
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I guess the real problem is that this country is so sick on so many levels that we're reduced to responding to our most pressing and extreme needs. We have so many issues that we can't even afford to focus on preventative care - we're in full on crisis-response mode, and that's plain sad.
09/02/09
The problem with tieing in healthy habits with weight loss is that it singles out people who qualify as "overweight" and higher on the BMI scale and it ignores the thinner folks who need to change their habits. Also, there is the opinion that adopting a new lifestyle is working only if the person is losing weight, even though some research suggests that one can have major benefits even if they don't lose a single pound: [www.ars.usda.gov]
As another commenter stated, the problem is that a program like this might lose funding if there isn't major weight loss, even if there are other benefits.
Another thing to remember is that while we may say, oh it's just a health thing, we want the kids to be ok, but intentions can get twisted very easily. Fat kids are treated like shit--by their peers, by gym teachers (yeah, I know not all of them are sadists, but a heckuva lot of them are), by doctors (check out the blog First, Do No Harm--it includes mistreatment of fat kids and teens: [fathealth.wordpress.com]) and sadly, even by their own families.
So the last thing they need is to be nagged about dropping the Twinkie and picking up the celery stick, especially if they aren't eating junk. Yeah, it's good to encourage kids to eat their veggies and such but a lot of the time, this gets twisted to focusing only on weight, and the fat kids in the room get singled out, either subtly or directly. Unfortunately, people have biases and a lot of the time, it's the fat=unhealthy couch potato who eats junk food.
Now I'm not saying there shouldn't be efforts to improve nutrition for children and adults, but it has to be done in a way that is weight-neutral. Focusing on weight will pressure fat kids to lose and let thin kids think they have nothing to worry about. Also, this will lead a lot of people to think the only measure of health is weight (yes, I know it's not the intention, but you have to factor in how people will interpret things, and a lot will use very simplistic interpretations).
And finally, like Kate pointed out, kids grow weird, like puppies. A short fat kid may be a tall thin kid next summer, and a thin kid may become a fat kid. Weight gain can precede a growth spurt, so freaking out about it would be silly. Some kids are steadily fat or thin (I was quite thin throughout my childhood and teen years and only gained a lot when I went on certain meds), but others can be all over the place size-wise when they're growing. You can't focus on the numbers as much as you would with an adult (and even then, weight should be considered only one of many factors).
So yeah, yay healthy initiatives, but if weight is a part of it, eventually it'll be the only focus. It's part of our society to treat weight as the be-all-end-all measurment of health, so that's why Kate is unhappy.
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I was raised by hippie, extremely health conscious parents and was eating organic, whole-foods in moderate quantities before it was trendy to do so. I was well-informed about nutrition from an early age.
I was, and still am active. My childhood consisted of biking, swim team, gymnastics, crew and summers hiking in the mountains. These days I hike, bike, do yoga and weight train, and eat the same kinds of foods I was raised on.
My point of all this above is that I do everything such anti-obesity programs would recommend, and I'm still obese.
Obesity can for some people be an indicator of poor nutrition or a sedentary lifestyle, but not for everyone. Skinny people can also have poor nutrition and not enough exercise, but in the "war on obesity" these people are being neglected.
I find your generalizations about the health of obese people to be extremely misinformed. The size of my body is not "dangerous" and I'm not some special unicorn, there are many people like me.
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1. Change takes time 2. Many doctors and scientists are already trying to change the way obesity is seen and bmi is calculated
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Have you heard of diabesity? It's a real problem. And it disproportionately affects poor minorities.
09/02/09
So encouraging people to move around more is good. but this better not be the start of more government-sanctioned nutrition fads and food blacklists (or if you really go down a slippery slope, restrictions on how much of government-determined "unhealthy" food people can buy).
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@colormeroutine: The old food pyramid allotted a much larger section to grains than it did to dairy and protein. The problem was, it didn't really distinguish between whole grains and the Wonder Bread-type carbs that anya mentions. I think she might be saying that our concept of "bad food" is mutable... fat was "the enemy" in the '80s (Ornish diet, focus on cholesterol), now it's sugar (Atkins, South Beach, focus on diabetes).
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@AnatomyFightSong: Here's the new pyramid for comparison (kind of an eyesore):
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Based on my own work experience with bureaucracy, I would guess that approximately 452 people had to weigh in on this design and it had to go through 79 stages of approval before it was issued.
09/02/09
I went to juinor highschool with a girl who lost all of her hair because of a serious vitamin deficiency. (At least that was the story) She was skinny and addicted to junk food. It was like crack for her; she was born in a country that didn't have it. And don't get me started on my friend who actually managed to get SCURVY. SCURVY!!! He too was skinny and obviously a pirate...I mean, seriously....scurvy.
So yeah, maybe instead of BATTLING CHILDHOOD OBESITY, aka War on little Fatties., they should focus on teaching children and adults about good nutrition and why its important to eat a balanced diet or you might get SCURVY! Argh.
And don't get me started on exercise. As someone who spent the first half of my teens depressed (not clinically) I wish I had known how much better I would have felt it I'd just gotten out and took a dance class or a walk.
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Funny, because on the rare occasions that medical doctors have commented on posts like this that's what they've claimed.
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Sorry, the last time Jezebel ran a post like this (I should learn) I tried to find them, but it took much time. If you go through all the "weight" posts, you will find them. The comments ran between May and now.
09/03/09
More important, it was two doctors who independently posted anonymous comments. They weren't selling any program. They simply said that in their lengthy experience beving seriously overweight was an irrefutable health hazard.
I realize that nothing I say will satisfy certain people here, but they truly were not jerks. They understood that weight loss is difficult and requires profound, life-long changes.
In my experience, doctors don't bullshit patients. They have better things to do. They don't tell an MS patient that the problem can be "fixed" by a behavior change, because it can't; they have no clue what causes it. They don't tell a person with a terminal brain tumor to eat better; they try to prepare the person for death.
When did you hear a doctor say: "Losing weight would be highly beneficial for my patients, but I don't recommend it because it's a medical impossibility for 99% of them."?
NEVER.
Because it simply isn't true.
09/04/09
You clearly have never visited