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    Image of JerseyGrrrl JerseyGrrrl
    05/05/09

    In reply to Colin Gets Chick Flick, Candy To Go
    I read this headline and before clicking, immediately assumed the Colin in question was Firth. I kind of really wish I had been right. This one is so.... not Mr. Darcy. Le sigh.
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    Image of Hamsterpants Hamsterpants
    05/05/09

    @JerseyGrrrl: This is EXACTLY what I thought, because chick flick=Colin Firth.
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    Image of Understater Understater
    05/05/09

    In reply to Colin Gets Chick Flick, Candy To Go
    Blockbuster's got porn, right? Only explanation.
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    Image of Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny. Vivelafat says Sweep the leg, Johnny.
    05/05/09

    In reply to Colin Gets Chick Flick, Candy To Go
    Damn it, Collin. I TOLD you not to rent Daredevil again. We've seen it so many times.
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    Image of MarissaExplainsItAll MarissaExplainsItAll
    05/05/09

    In reply to Colin Gets Chick Flick, Candy To Go
    Colored me surprised that Colin Farrell sometimes calls it a Blockbuster night...Has he run out of new ladies?
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    Image of la.donna.pietra la.donna.pietra
    05/05/09

    @MarissaExplainsItAll: Sadly, he still hasn't called me.
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    Image of hatepaperdoll hatepaperdoll
    05/05/09

    @MarissaExplainsItAll: I bet this is candy and popcorn night with his son. Man, candy night was my favorite thing about babysitting.
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    Image of MarissaExplainsItAll MarissaExplainsItAll
    05/05/09

    @la.donna.pietra: Same here... sadness in my soul
    @hatepaperdoll: Stop making him more attractive to me lady!
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    Image of AtomiClash: humanitarian misanthrope AtomiClash: humanitarian misanthrope
    05/05/09

    In reply to Colin Gets Chick Flick, Candy To Go
    I really wish we could see if he rented his own film(s). My continual squinting at the bag in his hand is not working!
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    Image of Hamsterpants Hamsterpants
    05/05/09

    In reply to Colin Gets Chick Flick, Candy To Go
    Aww, how quaint, he still goes to the video store.
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    Image of Nighthawk (the former Okori Wadsworth) is headed back to DGUSA in November! Nighthawk (the former Okori Wadsworth) is headed back to DGUSA in November!
    05/05/09

    In reply to Colin Gets Chick Flick, Candy To Go
    COlin Farrell: "Now i'm off to see Steel Magnolias. Goodnight Everyone."
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    Image of bananaprincess bananaprincess
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    In India it is estimated that 660 million people still defecate in the open. It is a big cause of diseases from polio to diarrhoea. This is a pretty big issue.
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    Image of bananaprincess bananaprincess
    03/26/09

    Yep if you have access to a clean working toilet in this world, you are already one of the world's winners. Puts in perspective lots of the things we worry about, doesn't it.
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    Image of grrl grrl
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    from the article:


    "Women who must go outside have to do so before sunrise or after nightfall so they can't be seen," said Bindeshwar Pathak, founder of Sulabh, which has built toilets for ten million Indians, and the recipient of this year's Stockholm Water Prize for developing ecofriendly and cheap lavatories to help to improve public health.


    "We have more toilets, less shame among women and less disease," S.K.Monda, the official in charge of the programme, said.


    I'm happy to see the issue getting attention. Having adequate resources to relieve oneself shouldn't be some kind of privilege, especially in developed areas.


    Some upper-caste communities are not happy having lavatories in their homes because tradition dictates that such an arrangement is unclean.


    That to me suggests a cultural belief among some that bodies are inherently unclean, perhaps created after decades of poor sanitation causing people to mistake bad waste disposal with the body itself being dangerous and unhealthy. Hopefully the improvements in sanitation and the increase in lavatories will help dispel that myth so more women can fulfill a basic need with dignity. It seems like the outdated beliefs of some communities could be causing health and social problems for these women.

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    Image of kerry kerry
    03/26/09

    @grrl: It also seems like a few fairly simple solutions exist. In a free-standing home situation it wouldn't be terribly bad to install the bathroom door on the outside of the house, so you have to leave to go to the bathroom. Or, do as the Japanese do and have a separate pair of slippers only for use in the bathroom, so you don't take your bathroom feet into the house with you.
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    Image of boxspelunker boxspelunker
    03/26/09

    @kerry: I horrified my friends when I drunkenly forgot to put on the damn toilet slippers. They were like... "That's kinda gross..." to themselves, and I (being intoxicated) said that it happens to the best of us.


    That said, I would think that maybe a free-standing thing would work well for this type of cultural attitude. If toilets + kitchens are unclean, I would think a toilet outside of the range of the kitchen would be okay.

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    Image of spicyplumchatni spicyplumchatni
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    Toilet habits in India are so very interesting.

    On one hand the fact that westerners don't wash their nether regions with water every time after using the loo is always looked down upon.

    On the other hand, even if you lived in a penthouse in Mumbai, you couldn't escape the sanitation issues the country has. Your eye-level view out of the penthouse would be of the beautiful skyline, but dare to look down and you will see a row of people squatting by the side of the road to do their business.
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    Image of taranwanderer taranwanderer
    03/26/09

    @spicyplumchatni: Oh lord...the smell of public urinals as I walk down the street is something I do not miss.
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    Image of bowleserised bowleserised
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    There's a book called The Big Necessity by Rose George that covers this story and other toiletty things in fascinating detail.

    2.6 billion people don't have anything like a toilet, and there's a bit of a shortage of celebrities who want to endorse that kind of development campaign...


    [www.slate.com]

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    Image of Shamrockette Shamrockette
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    No toilet, no plumbing for you.
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    Image of Ailanthus-altissima Ailanthus-altissima
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    I wouldn't get married without the promise of indoor plumbing, either.
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    Image of linnyt is a walking cliché linnyt is a walking cliché
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    It gives them the opportunity to check on their fields.


    This reminds me of when on our boat my dad would 'check the prop'.

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    Image of Hana Maru Hana Maru
    03/26/09

    @linnyt is a walking cliché: Is that like when people say they need to "drop the kids off at the pool"?
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    Image of linnyt is a walking cliché linnyt is a walking cliché
    03/26/09

    @HanaMaru: he would stand on the swim platform and pee into the water while my mom directed us kids to avert our eyes
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    Image of Trulymadlyme Trulymadlyme
    03/26/09

    In reply to Welcome To The Family, Son: Let's Talk Toilets
    No flush. No bush.
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    Image of Trulymadlyme Trulymadlyme
    03/26/09

    @trulymadlyme: You'd better have a can if you want to see these cans.
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    Image of Eleanor Ramilly Eleanor Ramilly
    03/26/09

    @trulymadlyme: No plumbing. No plumbing.
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    Image of Trulymadlyme Trulymadlyme
    03/26/09

    @Shannon: If I am going to marry you, I need a john, John!
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