These days, lust feels so ubiquitous that it's genuinely refreshing to hear about people who just aren't into sex. Our Fifty Shades fatigue may actually have an upside if the sex-averse and sex-indifferent start getting more media coverage and balancing out the lusty, sexy mainstream.
The sex. It is all around us on billboards, in magazines, in every plot-line. And yet many of us actually think about things other than our genitals. Lots of the time, even! So why don't we ever talk about the fact that we don't want sex? Because admit it: sometimes — maybe even oftentimes — you don't.