Tell your stupid assistant superintendent that he's 15 years behind the times. I took my girlfriend to prom in 1994. The seas did not boil, the earth did not quake, and society did not instantly crumble. A couple of guys came out of the closet a year later, but I'm pretty sure that would have happened anyway.
Don't back down. Prom is silly, overrated, and damn important in this society.
That condom story already had me cringing, but when I got to the part that they were packaged by shirtless men without being sterilized, just....ewww!
I'm guessing the men where shirtless due to it being hot (likely terrible conditions to work in), so I'm picturing them dripping sweat onto the condoms as they are being packaged. Yuck... #condoms
@formergr: I actually don't think regular condoms are sterilized. Legal ones I mean. There's no reason to sterilize them because what they go on and in aren't sterile areas. #condoms
From the article: "But the family remains in need of money for everything from medical bills to rent to food. Big-hearted readers can send checks to the Jaycee Lee Dugard Trust, c/o Viewtech, PO Box 596, Atwood, CA 92811." #condoms
I don't understand how all these prom debacles happen. At my high school, nobody knew who was taking whom to prom until we got there. None of the teachers or administrators asked, we didn't need to tell anyone. And occasionally people went alone, or groups of friends went. I took a girl to my prom (I think she was straight, we didn't ever date or anything even though she was super hot and cool) and my BFF was our other date. Nobody really knew until we got there. Nobody cared, but even if they had we would already have been there, it would have been too late to ban us. #condoms
@Cimorene: Where I went, if you were taking someone from outside the school, you had to get approval-- but i think that was basically to make sure no one older than 21 came. #condoms
@Cimorene: Same at my school. I decided to go to my senior prom last minute because my friend broke up with her boyfriend and needed a date. We didn't alert school officials or anything. What does this principal think is going to happen if they let that girl bring her girlfriend? That everyone is going to start having gay sex on the dance floor? #condoms
@Cimorene: We only had to give the name of people if they didn't go the school. But I can't imagine my school saying no to a female bringing another female. #condoms
@Cimorene: Exactly. I went one year with a girlfriend so we could save on tickets (two tickets together were cheaper than buying two separately) and it didn't matter and no one cared.
@Cimorene: There was a well known no-same-sex dates at my school (1990s) so one gay couple needed to pair up with an an opposite gay couple, switch partners to buy tix and get in the door,and then switch partners later. Dancing? Well, the girls could dance together but the guys had to keep their distance if they wanted to make it home in one piece.
They were young, but they weren't stupid. They knew what would get them harassed by administrators and students if they pulled it at a school sponsored event. Most gay kids have already been harassed by faculty in school. Of course you ask first, before you buy the dress and shoes and rent the limo. #condoms
@Cimorene: I consider myself lucky. Somehow my high school girlfriend was able to bring me, and I had already left the school and was no longer a student. And it was an all girls Catholic School, in Kentucky, no less. None of the faculty or deans said a thing. And it was obvious I wasn't there as her friend and a former student. #condoms
@Cimorene: We had to give our names and our date's names when we purchased tickets at my prom. The prom committee then wrote all of our names ("Terry and Carrie!") on a giant piece of butcher paper in sparkly glitter ink and hung it up in the hall, so that everyone knew who was going with whom, just in case you weren't paying attention to the gossip.
Which made the top of the list ("la.donna.pietra and Lisa!") particularly interesting, in 1994. #condoms
@BytheSea: My school knew damn well that I would call in GLAAD, PFLAG, Amnesty International, Melissa Etheridge, and anyone else I could think of. They didn't even bother giving me shit.
I did get my tires slashed, though. I'm pretty sure that was by a fellow prom-goer. #condoms
How could you post about a statue of Mr. Rogers that allegedly looks like a "mud monster," and then link to a story that doesn't even provide a picture? For those of you wondering. #condoms
@applejuice: It's not the style I was questioning so much as the material. The photo seems to show a maquette rather than the finished piece which would indicate that it's probably made of an oil-based modeling clay but it really doesn't look like it. That type of clay would not have white marbling as this appears to have and I just can't figure out what he could have used to get that effect. Hence, hamburger.
As for the style itself, it seems like a relatively common post-Rodin sculpting technique that I'm not opposed to per se. But the positioning of the figure and the modeling of the limbs is a whole 'nother matter. #condoms
@applejuice: Oh that's good then! I just read this thing once (I went to a very liberal arts college) where imposing people of legend (politicians, "founding fathers," etc.) get huge statues because they're so far above us mere mortals while more "of the people" figures tend to stay life sized. Mr. Rogers was very of the people, but if it's fun for the kids, who am I to second guess :) #condoms
@slowpoke.r: There is a pic of the final piece at the page I linked above and the positioning of the limbs etc looks different. It also looks like it is probably bronze?
"I don't really understand this (quite widespread) investment in understanding Jewish people as the perpetual victims. The last 60 years have constituted quite a turn-around in this situation, and I think it's about time we all recognize it. "
Said here on a Jezebel post- I can only imagine if it was said about any other minority, the uproar it would cause.
My feelings about Israel is complicated as well, but every time I reminded that I'm hated because of my religion I am so thankful and realize how important it is, to have a homeland. #synagogueshooting
Really important note: there is no sign that says "Holocaust Memorial" there. (Or, if there is, I didn't see it when I went there.) Berlin is filled with monuments that are deliberately vague.
@Acquanetta: I visited the Holocaust memorial in Boston once for a class project, and I was standing there watching the reactions of people who visited, and this is what I observed:
1. an orange neo-Nazi sticker placed on one of the pillars inscribed with numbers and meant to represent a death camp.
2. A family who walked through, eating an orange and throwing peels on the ground.
3. A group of high school tourists who pranced through laughing and talking, and not reading any of the inscriptions or reflecting at all that they were looking at a monument to a horrific genocide.
That the concrete blocks are covered in an anti-graffiti chemical that is made by the same corporation that produced zyklon b, the gas used in the death chambers during the Holocaust.
I learned that from a tour guide while I was there. I almost wish I didn't know that tidbit before strolling through. It made me feel...uncomfortable...
More Info: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/3219199.stm
i was at the memorial a few years ago and it was one the most intense moments of my life. some of the concrete steles are enormous and the experience can be a little disorienting and of course very saddening.
that said, i'm very glad i went and suggest everyone who can visit does. the museum below is quite stunning too.
it was so serene when i was there, i can't imagine anyone running around, let alone jumping from one stele to another.
11/11/09
Dear Cynthia,
Tell your stupid assistant superintendent that he's 15 years behind the times. I took my girlfriend to prom in 1994. The seas did not boil, the earth did not quake, and society did not instantly crumble. A couple of guys came out of the closet a year later, but I'm pretty sure that would have happened anyway.
Don't back down. Prom is silly, overrated, and damn important in this society.
Love,
la.donna.pietra #condoms
11/11/09
I'm guessing the men where shirtless due to it being hot (likely terrible conditions to work in), so I'm picturing them dripping sweat onto the condoms as they are being packaged. Yuck... #condoms
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[www.post-gazette.com] #condoms
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Are there schools where you need to register your date? #condoms
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They were young, but they weren't stupid. They knew what would get them harassed by administrators and students if they pulled it at a school sponsored event. Most gay kids have already been harassed by faculty in school. Of course you ask first, before you buy the dress and shoes and rent the limo. #condoms
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Which made the top of the list ("la.donna.pietra and Lisa!") particularly interesting, in 1994. #condoms
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I did get my tires slashed, though. I'm pretty sure that was by a fellow prom-goer. #condoms
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How could you post about a statue of Mr. Rogers that allegedly looks like a "mud monster," and then link to a story that doesn't even provide a picture? For those of you wondering. #condoms
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Why does it look like he's made of hamburger? #condoms
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Why is he 11 feet tall? He should be person sized so people could stand with him...Mr. Rogers isn't big an imposing... #condoms
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[www.post-gazette.com] #condoms
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As for the style itself, it seems like a relatively common post-Rodin sculpting technique that I'm not opposed to per se. But the positioning of the figure and the modeling of the limbs is a whole 'nother matter. #condoms
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He's like that x-men made of lava. #condoms
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You know what? Anti-Semitism hasn't. #synagogueshooting
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"I don't really understand this (quite widespread) investment in understanding Jewish people as the perpetual victims. The last 60 years have constituted quite a turn-around in this situation, and I think it's about time we all recognize it. "
Said here on a Jezebel post- I can only imagine if it was said about any other minority, the uproar it would cause.
My feelings about Israel is complicated as well, but every time I reminded that I'm hated because of my religion I am so thankful and realize how important it is, to have a homeland. #synagogueshooting
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1. an orange neo-Nazi sticker placed on one of the pillars inscribed with numbers and meant to represent a death camp.
2. A family who walked through, eating an orange and throwing peels on the ground.
3. A group of high school tourists who pranced through laughing and talking, and not reading any of the inscriptions or reflecting at all that they were looking at a monument to a horrific genocide.
It made me hate people a little bit.
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Did you know....
That the concrete blocks are covered in an anti-graffiti chemical that is made by the same corporation that produced zyklon b, the gas used in the death chambers during the Holocaust.
I learned that from a tour guide while I was there. I almost wish I didn't know that tidbit before strolling through. It made me feel...uncomfortable...
More Info: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/3219199.stm
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that said, i'm very glad i went and suggest everyone who can visit does. the museum below is quite stunning too.
it was so serene when i was there, i can't imagine anyone running around, let alone jumping from one stele to another.