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Mon Nov 23
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panty raid on NBCee
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Was anyone else really scared her hair was going to catch fire?
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all roseanne all the time.
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Only two more cases to read, and then bed for me! Goodnight all, and may your Mondays be pain-free!
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Get some good sleep! Here's to a better tomorrow!
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Hopefully he will go away for a very long time - but now that you know about the restraining order, you can tell that to the cops if he ever does come back.
I also second what was said earlier about bringing her cookies or something - she probably won't be able to take care of herself for a while (broken arm and emotions combined), and while I know from your posts on here that you're the type to do the right thing, I highly recommend bringing casserole or something like that, if you're comfortable cooking. Although cookies never hurt.
Basically... thanks. For doing the right thing.
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I posted on here two weeks ago about whether I should tell this guy how I felt. Well, I did. The results were... not what I was hoping for.
I am sure, sure, that I love this man, and that we would be good for each other. I need a miracle, and I don't even believe in miracles.
What do I do?
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I fucked up because I let my emotions get the better of me.
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#tips
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Emotions cannot get the better of you. To a certain extent your emotions are you. You didn't do anything wrong by falling in love with him. It happens. He didn't do anything wrong by not feeling the same way (dumb, maybe, but not wrong). By telling him and being proactive you saved yourself 10 times this trouble and pain down the road. I know it's weak consolation, but I can't tell you how many people I know who wished they had had this conversation at month three instead of month 12, or year 2, or year 15.
You have been liberated. If he doesn't feel the same, it isn't his fault that he isn't at the enlightened and mature place you are. It is his loss, though. Now you know what the what is, and you can proceed knowing where you stand instead of questioning. You can find someone who is not only as enjoyable and awesome as this dude, but who is also in the appropriate emotional space-that is, the one you currently occupy--to have a grown up relationship with. I can't express how much I think shit like this is a symptom of extreme emotional maturity and sanity and self-awareness. Almost no one has this. Consider yourself lucky to be you. Your qualities are rare indeed, and very valuable.
Also eating smuckers hot fudge straight out of the jar can make the immediate pain go away a little. Or maybe that's just me.
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(by the way, I think that this should be a legitimate genre)
I can't decide between this:
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