Is it sexual assault if....?samewiseji12/05/13 2:43pm0EditPromoteShare to KinjaToggle Conversation toolsGo to permalinkHello Ladies,AdvertisementSomeone who isn't me, let's call this fellow SWIM, recently met this great lady. She's smart and funny and just generally awesome. SWIM really respects this lady and SWIM has immense respect for all women. SWIM asked me to help him figure out if consent is implied in a particular situation because SWIM would never want to do something to hurt anyone especially a lady as awesome as his new friend.The lady in question has shown interest in him and general sexual banter is very common. She has even apparently mentioned to a common friend that she wants to perform fellatio on SWIM. Naturally SWIM is feels very privileged and flattered. SWIM and his lady friend have not been sexual together. In fact they have not even kissed. SWIM and his new lady friend plan on doing some MDMA together. She will be hanging out alone with SWIM at his place. They have not discussed having sex while rolling. SWIM wanted to know if they engage in sexual activity while they are both rolling is that okay? Since she is intoxicated is she in a position to consent to that sexual activity. Although both SWIM and his friend will be rolling, SWIM has done this before while she is a first timer. SWIM really doesn't know how to bring this up with his lady friend. Of course SWIM would make sure to be on his best behavior and will do his best to keep things from heading in that direction but SWIM is very hot for this girl and if she starts kissing him he might not be able to tell her to stop. If she initiates a sexual act while they are both rolling on MDMA is it appropriate for SWIM to reciprocate? Remember that SWIM has done MDMA before but his friend is going to be experiencing this for the first time. Thank you for helping SWIM figure out if this is consensual or not. SWIM and I both thank you for your time.