My interest in their mission isn't so much about abortion, it's about allowing women control over a range of reproductive choices. So, if it were limited to that...
It'd be like... donating to a food bank and knowing your money was only going to fund the chocolate cake. Yes, everyone should have chocolate cake, I have absolutely no problem with some of my money going to chocolate cake. I'd probably still donate because, hey, everyone deserves dessert. but if that's where all my money went, I wouldn't feel like I was truly funding the larger mission.
I wonder if anyone's ever made an abortion/cake analogy before...
I also said, if anything, protecting the rights of the accused? That's not really a Republican concern. I feel like we're missing something.
Just because a Taylor says the bruise is from one place doesn't make it impossible it's from another place. There's speculation that these are plastic surgery bruises.
Really, what political gain is there to be made by saying: let's not protect victims so much?
If anything, Republicans are all for police discretion, why would they limit it? They're not really known for caring about the rights of the accused. Also, since when do police have to witness an assault to make an arrest? That's not the case for any other kind of assault.
Nothing about this makes sense to me.
So what if she had a relationship with an OB-GYN? Seriously, so what? That's guilt by association, it's what Republicans tried to do with Obama. I didn't buy it then and I don't buy it now. We all have close friendships and relationships with people who may not necessarily share our ideals. Also, she was 22, a person's opinions can't change over time? It means absolutely nothing.
And, in my opinion, she lives by her stated ideals and did everything she could, including putting herself at great medical risk, to save the pregnancy that some are calling an "abortion." She had a risky medical surgery to save the fetus, she got a deadly infection from that surgery and did not induce labor, even though she was at risk of sepsis and they knew the fetus was not viable, etc. Her only direct hypocrisy is that she admitted she would have induced labor if it came down to the final hour, but, in fact, it did not and she got to make choices consistent with her beliefs. But the point is that everyone should have the option and not everyone is so lucky. The only way this saga is relevant is that you'd think it would make her have some empathy. But, it doesn't. Oh well! But I don't actually care what her choice was. Even if she DID have an abortion or even if she did induce labor, I don't care! The point is that the choice should be available to every woman, even ones who say one thing and do another.
I don't know that we advance anything by making personal attacks on bad people, I think we make progress by attacking bad ideas. And their ideas are bad enough and our ideas are powerful enough to shut them down without us grasping at straws to overstate their hypocisy.
The whole point is that he is not a boy, this is a little girl we are talking about, who wants to be part of Girl Scouts and Taylor wants us to boycott their cookies because that little girl happens not to have a vagina.
Nitpicky, but important distinction... and, again, moot, because rapists aren't using it for that purpose.
Not saying anything against your niece. An unplanned baby can be totally loved and welcomed as I am sure that she is. But, for those unprepared/unwilling/unable to decide to have the baby, as your sister did, it's discouraging that there's another barrier to them quickly getting time-senstive treatment that may prevent the pregnancy.
But... for those women that do like it... um, maybe it's not the "musclebound dudes in tight pants piling up on one another" but that they actually understand and enjoy the sport? For the same reasons men do? It strikes me as equally condescending to say that women only like football for the eyecandy rather than for the game.
But, even if they were, I'm not convinced it'd be something we'd want to discourage. If it were condoms, wouldn't we be saying, well *at least* the rapist used a condom? Of course, medication is more complicated and some people don't react well to hormones, etc. But, for some, it would be one less thing to worry about.
Heh, whatever, moot point. Because NO ONE is using it for that purpose anyway.
But it's just not true that she did make that choice. She did not choose to induce labor. She was lucky enough to not have to make that choice as her body expelled the fetus naturally. She would not have died if his policies were in place, as it happened. The choices she actually made, every step of the way, were to save the pregnancy, even at great medical risk to herself.
I don't think they should be able to force other people to live the same way. And, you would think, having been in that position, they'd have some empathy. Instead, they've steeled themselves that making risky choices to save the pregnancy is "right" because it worked out for them. These are the faults we should be attacking. "Your life is not everyone's life, sometimes women will actually die when they risk their life to save a pregnancy, not everyone should have to take on the risks you chose to."
But, I think we lose credibility when we say, "you basically had an abortion." She didn't.
Otherwise, I'm with you and this whole post bugs me. Our twisting of the facts does not help our cause. She would NOT have died if Santorum's anti-abortion policies were in place because she did NOT induce labor or have an abortion. No need to split hairs between the two because she did not fall under either category. Her labor began naturally.
We can jump on her admission that, if it had come down to it, she would have induced labor. But, in fact, they acted entirely consistent with what it is they want to force everyone else to do - she took every action, no matter how risky, that might save the pregnancy.
His wife admits that, ultimately, she would have made the choice to induce labor had it not started on its own, but, in fact, she did not make that choice. At least according to the attached article. I don't know anything else about the situation except what I read there.
You'd think her situation would give the Santorums some empathy. You'd think they might recognize that other people might want to make other choices and not risk sepsis and death to save a non-viable fetus. Especially when his wife admits that, if it had gotten down to the final hour, she would have induced labor. You'd think they'd want others to have that final hour option. But I also see how they might walk away from that experience thinking, "God came through for us."
It just seems incorrect to call them hypocrites about it because they actually did wait and let her body decide whether to expel the fetus. A choice no other woman should have to make if she does not want to.
Again, I'm only going according to the attached article, correct me if I'm wrong.